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  1. paul123

    I need an odd bit of advice

    My cousin Rachael is prego for the second time with the same dead beat who won't pay child support for the first one. What should I be doing for her that would help? Are there any government programs that anyone knows about? She can hardly take care of herself and now she has to take care...
  2. paul123

    It can't and will never change

    There are facts about me that are unchangeable. Physical attributes that will never go away. It will never matter what kind of person I am, that fact remains that I cannot get close to people. And generally when I let people in they tend to make some distance between me and them. There is...
  3. paul123

    I was wide awake!

    I was sitting, not looking at anything in particular. I wasn't daydreaming. I was sitting pondering about God. And then it was just as if I was taken from the chair and supsended in mid-air above a series of small mountains with mansions in them. Each mountain had a mansion. The largest on...
  4. paul123

    Forever Single?

    I know that God has great things in store for me. However, I somehow get the feeling that I am going to be single forever. I know what you are thinking. "I just read how old this guy is, he has got some learing to do." More and more, I am starting to believe that I am going to have to wait a...
  5. paul123

    STD's are a bad word.

    I guess this goes somewhere else.
  6. paul123

    Christian Dating Websites #2

    This last thread didn't come out well. So here is Christian Dating Websites #2. New and improved. I just don't know if those websites are a good idea. It seems like I would be taking an easy way out. For all of mankind's history, we have been meeting people in person. Or at least writing...
  7. paul123

    Giving up on what I know is right.

    Has anyone got to the point where they just don't care and want to give up on purity? Or has anyone given up and have some two sense to put in? I'm at the point where I kind of don't care. I hate to see all my friends living happy lives in the world. It makes me think that I'm missing out...
  8. paul123

    The past keeps coming up.

    How do you deal with your past when it comes up in your relationships. Or, how did you deal it. I would really like some input on those who have it.
  9. paul123

    Some Surprising Facts About Evolution

    No scientist, nor anyone else in recorded history for that matter, has ever observed the supposed process of evolution occurring. Evolution is not a fact. When I say evolution is not a fact, let me be clear what I mean by "evolution" in this statement. I do not mean microevolution. Speciation...
  10. paul123

    Christian Pen Pal

    Right now I am deployed. I don't have any Christians to talk to where I am. The men around me go to harlot houses and cheat on girlfriends or wives (Not all, most). Needless to say, I'm the only Christian I know. It is a great learning experience though. I have learned to depend on His word. The...
  11. paul123

    Millitary Men?

    This question is for women really. But in any case I'll take advice from anyone who can give it to me. However, as a millitary man I have to constantly leave everything and everyone I know. This doesn't bother me. I volenteered for it. I love what I do. But it is hard to meet people. I...
  12. paul123

    flagelum

    The human DNA does not grow. Cells do not divide and form our DNA. It is built by an organism propelled by flagelum. My argument here is intelligant design. All DNA in the human body is constructed and put in place in my cases without flaw. Were did this body building machine come from? If it...
  13. paul123

    How to study?

    I wish I could say I knew how to study the bible, but I don't. Can anyone tell me anything.
  14. paul123

    Oh boy!

    So I'm having this barbeque of Friday. All the guys I work with are coming. Wives are going to be there. Friends and thier girlfriends are coming. My good friend is bringing his girlfriends sister. I guess you could say it's a blind date at my house but not really cause 15 or so people will...
  15. paul123

    Courting?

    I don't understand what this is. I know people who have done it but I never understood how it was any different from dating. Can anyone explain this to me?
  16. paul123

    The internet and Christianity.

    I think we take for granted that we don't have to cross deserts or oceans to talk and be in the presence of other Christians. We simply click on internet explorer and come to Christian Forums. When else in history have we ever had a tool such this. To have fellowship with people all over the...
  17. paul123

    Will everyone eventually get out of Hell?

    I believe that the God of Moses, is a merciful God. After all, he did die and go to Hell and then rose on the third day so that we wouldn't have to be under his judgment. This question that I will bring up is in no way related to scripture other than the fact that God is infinately merciful...
  18. paul123

    How do you deal with a cheater?

    Do I need to elaborate? The circumstances are as follows: She had needs that I wasn't willing to allow us to partake in. She found satisfaction else where after a year and a half. I know that she is sorry. I know that she loves me and I her. I just don't know if I can work through this even...
  19. paul123

    First Christmas Totally Alone

    I'm talking no family/friends/people I know. I've had many traditions in the Chirstmas holidays. But, all have involved other people. I don't want to spend my Christmas watching TV and drinking too much egg nogg. I want some fun. To those who have been where I am, what did you do that was...
  20. paul123

    Free will and predestination

    I have heard both sides of the story. One being that free will and predestination have nothing to do with . That they are on two different sides of the spectrum. You can either choose God or he chooses you. You can have one and not the other. The other being, that they both happen at the same...