The 15 verses in John with Nicodemus do not say they need first to be regenerated or reborn to respond to the gospel. That's a theological position.
I disagree. Can the unregenerated be born again on their own?
“Jesus responded and said to him, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless someone is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God.””
John 3:3 NASB2020
Jesus responded and said to him, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless someone is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God.”
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How can an unregenerate person be born of the Spirit if they don’t have the Spirit?
“Jesus answered, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless someone is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. That which has been born of the flesh is flesh, and that which has been born of the Spirit is spirit.”
John 3:5-6 NASB2020
Jesus answered, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless someone is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God. That which has been born of the flesh is flesh, and that which has been
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While it's true only God can make someone born again, my position is we need to repent first to be reborn.
How does a natural person repent on their own when no one seeks God (Rom. 3:11)?
How can a natural man have “faith” in God and prove to himself that God will reward him for repenting??
“And without faith it is impossible to please Him, for the one who comes to God must believe that He exists, and that He proves to be One who rewards those who seek Him.”
Hebrews 11:6 NASB2020
And without faith it is impossible to please Him, for the one who comes to God must believe that He exists, and that He proves to be One who rewards those who seek Him.
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So this doesn't conflict with John 3:16: God loved the world, and whoever believes will be saved. "Whoever/everyone who believes" is a genuine, universal invitation, it applies to every single person. If you believe, you will be saved.
John 3:16 clearly states that only those who believe in the Son will be saved and have eternal life. In order to have faith God must bestow His free gift of grace and since this is a gift of God no one can get grace on their own. So then the ones that believe in John 3:16 are those that God has given His free grace in order for them to have faith.
“For by grace you have been saved through faith; and this is not of yourselves, it is the gift of God;”
Ephesians 2:8 NASB2020
For by grace you have been saved through faith; and this is not of yourselves, it is the gift of God;
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His conclusion will lead to universalism if you follow his interpretation of the Greek. Unless you believe that all will be saved then the world becomes all people but since the verse itself gives you the limiting condition “of only those who believe” will be saved then the world are those that believe. God loves absolutely everyone but not everyone is saved. He has known this since before the foundation of the world.