The problem with Calvinism as I see it practiced today, is that there is an elect, scripture tells us so; however, just because one believes that there is an elect does not automatically make them one of them. We get the attitude in some congregations that, “I believe there is an elect, I can’t lose my salvation, so it doesn’t matter what I do”. They then become extremely sarcastic toward any that entertain the Armenian view.
Can you give an example of several Calvinists that teach that? I don't mean that they teach what you draw from as implications, but that they teach that implication?
Believing there is an elect does not gain one entrance into that number.
Who is saying that it does? Who even believes that it does. I don't personally know of anyone who does.
To become part of the elect, we must follow Christ’s commandments, as He said, If any one come after me, let him deny himself, take up his cross, and follow in my footsteps.
Well, no. That is not how anyone becomes part of the elect. The elect are chosen from the foundation of the world. But, no, we don't know who they are. God does.
We are told to love our enemies, and forgive as we wish to be forgiven. Do we have enemies? Do we hold grudges? Start there, as we are instructed to strive to make our calling and election sure. Those that deny work, are not elect.
Well, at least, if they are elect, they are not yet "in Christ"—agreed, otherwise.
Scripture tells us we will be judged by the same measure by which we judge others. That is a humbling thought and would not lead an elected soul to sarcasm.
It is not the works that save us, but the Spirit of Christ living within us that empowers us to do good works. Good works are not to become popular and win the esteem of men as a holy man, rather to mortify the deeds of our own flesh, and bring every thought captive to Christ
Who is this that disagrees with any of that?
The primary virtue of the elect is humility, the demonstration of which is obedience. Who do you obey? If it is no one, then you are not elect, you are a god unto yourself.
Let me edit that for you a little bit, according to what I think you mean:
The primary virtue of the [saved] elect is humility, the demonstration of which is obedience. Who do you obey? If it is no one, then you are not [saved], you are a god unto yourself.
It is a good principle, though I think you are wrong about humility being THE primary virtue of the saved elect.
Calvinism has some good points, but cannot overcome its contradictions
Be careful you are not misrepresenting Calvinism, presenting what you take for its implications as though it teaches them.
Total depravity, yes we are incapable of working our way to God.
Unconditional election ? Not exactly. God offers salvation to everyone, but we must use free will to accept it. Revelation 3 says behold I stand at the door and knock, if anyone opens the door I will come into him and sup with him and he shall sup with me.
Revelation 3:20 contextually is talking to believers, not the lost. This 'opening the door' is for fellowship. They are already "church". The verse just before it says, "
Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline. So be earnest and repent." That is the context. 'Opening the door' is restoring fellowship.
Limited atonement. No Christ died for the whole world, but not everyone accepts it. The reprobate prefer the darkness rather than light
Of course the reprobate, and, in fact, all the lost, prefer darkness to light! Who says otherwise? Besides, Limited Atonement does not speak so much of the power of the sacrifice, as to the
effect of it. Even given (for the sake of argument) free will, you don't deny some will not be saved, and so if Christ actually paid for their sin, YOU are limiting its power. As in, "he died for them, but it was ineffective."
Look for the true teaching that is labeled, "Limited Atonement". I think if you studied it thoroughly, you would hear that many of its proponents prefer the term, "Particular Redemption".
Irresistible grace? No God gives us free will to accept or reject him. If we accept Him, we deny ourselves. To many say they accept Him, yet hold onto their lives as is. Scripture says whoever will save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it
Merely asserting free will does not demonstrate 'Irresistible Grace' is contrary to fact. What do you think Irresistible Grace refers to? Refute that, without bare assertion.
Perseverance of the saints, yes. It is impossible once one has tasted the gift of poverty, chastity and obedience to fall away and return to sin. The elect have those gifts, some that think that they are elect do not
Irresistible Grace is proven in Perseverance of the Saints. I'm glad that you agree with P, because the faith through which we are saved cannot be generated by decision of the person, but is generated by God himself within us—not by the will of man (John 1:13). THAT is why it is valid and why it cannot be lost or undone.