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The lack of alpha-males

Cpevalu

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In my country every girl is angry, so I never talk to them really, no sex for 16 years so far. I know the males in society makes a bad enviroment so the girls are always angry, can a belief in God perhaps help the males being stronger? The beta-males aren`t so bad, they`re sensitive born fathers, but where is all the alpha-males?
 

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In my country every girl is angry, so I never talk to them really, no sex for 16 years so far. I know the males in society makes a bad enviroment so the girls are always angry, can a belief in God perhaps help the males being stronger? The beta-males aren`t so bad, they`re sensitive born fathers, but where is all the alpha-males?
Without understanding your situation well, I'd like to make a few remarks that hopefully are still useful to you - it doesn't sound easy ..

Healthy males are very good for any society; without them most societies would crumble. Belief in God, but more importantly trust and obedience to God, make both man and woman healthier, more reliable, more disciplined .. I don't see a point in chasing alpha/beta labels for men, but have you taken a look at the wisdom of Solomon in the books of Proverbs or Ecclesiastes? That would benefit us all ...

I wish you well on your personal life journey and your discovery of God as your Father ...
 
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No, they're unrelated. Your intention is also unclear.

Do you want to get girls? Or do you want to become an alpha male? Or do you want to know what it takes to make Norway an alpha male society? Or do you want to know why all men are so weak today?
 
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John Bauer

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In my country every girl is angry, so I never talk to them really, no sex for 16 years so far. I know the males in society makes a bad enviroment so the girls are always angry, can a belief in God perhaps help the males being stronger? The beta-males aren`t so bad, they`re sensitive born fathers, but where is all the alpha-males?

Faith in God can make a man stronger, but Christianity defines strength as courage, self-control, responsibility, truthfulness, sacrificial love, and faithfulness—not dominance, aggression, or sexual success. Christ was gentle without being weak and authoritative without being domineering.

Sixteen years without physical intimacy your age suggests that something significant has kept you relationally isolated. Rather than explaining that through “alpha males” and “angry women,” it may be more useful to examine your own fears, expectations, social habits, and experiences of rejection. Those are difficult questions, but they are more likely to lead somewhere real.
 
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