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I found out why my mother is so angry at me

Helg

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I moved back home for a while because my mom wanted me to, but after 3 weeks she got so mad, didn't understand why, was almost like terror, started nagging me to wash the shower floor after showering and stuff.

It's a bit like that now that americans try to sexualize everyone, girls too, so at first she probably thought I had no chance then, gave up. But I'm a real man, right, curl 30 kg on my biceps and stuff with a dumbbell, stronger and more of a man than most people at the gym, girls like me too even though they really shouldn't do that according to the americans.

She's realized I avoid girls anyway, I think that's what makes her furious, she takes it a bit personally, but american and norwegian girls aren't particularly pretty, it's not my thing, it doesn't help that people think they're sexualized, it doesn't turn me on. She's furious, almost murderous
 

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I am not sure what is going on with you and your mother. I think perhaps both of you need to sit down and you should ask her what she finds difficult with you living at home. Perhaps her telling you to wash the floor she meant to just dry it up after yourself with a towel. May be you need some clarification about what she means. There should be a set time for house work.
 
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