Can men get violent because of woman?

Phar said:

I moved back home, I think my mother has been playing mind games all the time because my father became violent one day, he stopped because I am physically stronger so I did, but it was uncomfortable. I usually get nauseous when girls try to get on me, I'm not really that interested, I think there are a lot of mind games going on that I don't see, but there are often aggressive undertones, I notice that men get mad at me. I'm attractive then, but it's a bit like that now that I feel it's better not to live maybe because there's a lot of pressure from girls all the time, I think it's a bit unfair because you can't escape society anyway, you're trapped among people. Girls are just mean and don't care if you take your life, but is there any way to avoid it, I like working out at the gym for example. but there's some stuff there too

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Men shouldn't be getting violent because of women. If they are, they need to see a psychologist for anger management.

2PhiloVoid said:

Men shouldn't be getting violent because of women.

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Agreed (that is a given).

2PhiloVoid said:

If they are, they need to see a psychologist for anger management.

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Or they need to go to jail, or both.

--David

St_Worm2 said:

Agreed (that is a given).

Or they need to go to jail, or both.

--David

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Jail might be in order too, depending on what sort of violence we're talking about.

No one can make another person violent.

A person who is already violent or has difficulty regulating their emotions can have their violent nature triggered by others or by circumstances.

Violent acts aren't the fault of the person or circumstances that triggered it. We are all each responsible for our own actions.

Men often strike outwards in response to intense emotional distress. Women may strike inwardly with tears and self harm. For either one a solution is to master emotions so that one is not driven by them.

If one finds themselves frequently angered, it may be because the have false expectations. A person who expects less is not often surprised.

Women are annoying.
So are men
So is a car that won't start.
Dogs that won't stop barking at night
And the punks that own them.

This world is filled with annoyances.
You don't sound weak
You don't sound insecure

We can't change others. We can help them only if they are willing.

We can change ourselves.
Our responses. Our understanding of common human perseptions, need and self expression.
People are annoying unless, they grow up.
They can accept God and live in confidance., unruffled by the petty immaturity of emotionally adolescant turkeys pretending to be the god of their universe, and knowing on some level, they are not. It's frustrating.
It only gets easier when you go over to the dark side, and no longer care enough to try.
You care.
Imagine Lot. Surrounded by fools.

If violence were acceptable as a proper response to self absorbed idiots by God, there would be 8 million on this planet instead of 8 billion.

We are called instead to peace.
First, find it in yourself.
Kick those intrusive thoughts to the curb.
If you are a believer, you are a son of God. You are strong. You are called to love.
And, "love is not a feeling, it's an act of your will."

Some will respond to honesty.
Some are not ready to learn.
And some are killing time on the road to hell.
They are not your problem.
"The kingdom of heaven is within us."
Walk in it. And God will bless you.

protecting a woman is not wrong. Violence because of jealousy is protected by the law. You will lose a woman if you hit her. It is only fitting. Domestic violence has consequences. A woman should be more protected from it. Only once should be enough for separation and should be enforced to protect her. If she won’t point the finger at him it should be left to the disgression of the officers and courts.

Unqualified said:

Violence because of jealousy is protected by the law.

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I don't know of any place where violence due to jealousy is protected by law. It is illegal to harm someone out of jealousy.

CA. It’s a presentable case as motive for doing violence to someone who is messing with your wife.