I don't care what the unbelievers think. They can think whatever they want.
Hello again BibleBeliever1611, I appreciate your honesty, but I'm also surprised by it (not your honesty, but your sentiment concerning the lost). I'm also particularly thankful that the same is not true of the Lord Jesus Christ (concerning the lost), who loved us and cared so much about us that He came here as a man and died on the Cross for us/in our stead .. e.g.
Romans 5:8 (so that He wouldn't have to live out eternity without us, nor we without Him

).
His principal reason for coming here was
to save His people from their sins, was it not .. e.g.
Matthew 1:21?
Quite frankly, since He had/has no "need" of us, He did what He did for us simply because He loves us and cares what happens to us, knowing that if He hadn't done so that there would have been no Incarnation & no Cross, no redemption & forgiveness of our sins, no salvation & no eternal life for any of us, just a terrifying expectation of judgement and condemnation for us all.
Maybe your post just shows that you are siding with the unbelievers a little bit and siding less with Christ and less with Christians.
Anything is possible, I suppose, but since the Lord Jesus' final words to us (prior to His ascension back into Heaven) were (first & foremost) concerned with presenting/explaining the Gospel to the unbelievers of this world (e.g.
Matthew 28:19; Mark 16:15; Acts 1:8), it seems to me that I'm not taking sides here, just choosing to be obedient to His final marching orders.
And as the Apostle Paul admonishes us (concerning doing good towards each other and everyone else in this world),
Galatians 6
9 Let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.
10 As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto ~all~ men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith.
I don't care if the unbelievers become so frustrated with this idea that they become blue in the face and melt in anger, I'm still going to believe this idea that words should be like nails, and they should be hammered down, for the sole reason that the BIBLE teaches this.
As far as v11 telling us that the sayings of the wise (sayings that originate with the One Shepherd Himself) are like a cattle prod or an oxgoad (in their ability to encourage us to move towards Him, and to live an obedient/godly life before Him), I agree with you. What this does not mean, however, is that He intends for us to use His words (as an oxgoad) in a cruel, harsh and/or violent way, but that we should bring them to bear in the lives of others in the same, loving manner that He did with us. As a for instance, the Lord, through the pen of the Apostle tells us this,
1 Peter 3
15 Sanctify Christ as Lord in your hearts, always being ready to make a defense to everyone who asks you to give an account for the hope that is in you, yet with gentleness and reverence.
You may also want to consider what Jesus has to say about all of this in
Matthew 5:43-48 (see below)
God bless you!!
--David
Matthew 5
43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’
44 But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you,
45 that you may be sons of your Father in heaven; for He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.
46 For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same?
47 And if you greet your brethren only, what do you do more than others? Do not even the tax collectors do so?
48 Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect.”