It’s a gracious and sensible reminder that the crucifix and the plain cross aren’t rivals but complementary witnesses to the same saving mystery, and that the evangelical suspicion of the crucifix—often rooted in fears of “Catholic excess” or of depicting Christ “still on the cross”—misses the point that the image is not a denial of the Resurrection but a proclamation of the cost of our redemption; when used rightly, both symbols draw the faithful into the Gospel, one emphasising the victory of the Risen Lord and the other the self‑giving love by which that victory was won, and it seems far healthier for Christians to receive both with humility than to turn them into markers of tribal identity.
I see little good in making a competition between a crucifix and a plain cross. Both are, in their proper uses, powerful proclamations of what God has done for us. They are signs of the Holy Gospel.
You’ll both be pleased to know that Sunday, the Third Sunday of Lent, was the Feast of the Veneration of the Cross in the Byzantine Rite, the main liturgy of the Eastern Orthodox Church (except for Finnish Orthodox and the 1/2 of the Estonian Orthodox on the Gregorian calendar, who celebrated it a week previously). This cross, and its September counterpart, which is celebrated in all liturgical churches and not just the Eastern Orthodox, that being the Exaltation of the Cross, are two of my favorite holy days throughout the year.
And of course people will scream “idolatry” being unaware that the hymns for both feasts are about Christ’s Passion on the Cross and not about the Holy Cross itself, although the Cross is profoundly sacred and venerable.
Additionally John Calvin famously told a whopper, by accident I suspect, but negligent accident, when he claimed there were enough supposed fragments of the True Cross to build a galleon. This is not true; while not all fragments of the Cross have an equally reliable chain of custody, many are associated with the same kind of miracles that led to the discovery of the True Cross by St. Helena, St. Constantine’s Varangian (Byzantinized Viking from Sweden) Christian mother (like St. Vladimir the Great, who converted the Rus people, a Slavic-Nordic population the cultural ancestors of the Russians, Ukrainians and Belarussians likewise was a help in his conversion; St. Augustine is another example of a Christian who was originally an adherent of a false religion, but whose mother was Christian, and who was persuaded to be Christian as a result.
Thus while it is optimal in most cases for Christian women to marry Christian men, due to the power of the maternal bond and the nuptial bond, there have been cases where conversions have happened through the women. That said I would not advise any Christian woman to marry a Muslim with the possible exception of the adherents of some Sufi sects which aren’t really conventionally Islamic at all, but rather put on an Islamic visage for purposes of dissimulation (the Alevis of the Kurds and Turks, the unrelated Alawis of Syria, the Bektasis of Turkey and Albania, and the Mevlevis or “whirling dervishes” come to mind). In all other cases, the risk of violence becomes excessive.
@Xeno.of.athens thank you also for confirming your veneration of the cross as a holy symbol, recognized as such by your own church, and venerated by all Catholics on September 14tth, the feast of the Holy Cross, and by Byzanntine Rite Catholics (such as the Melkites, Ruthenians, Italo-Albanians, Ukrainian Greek Catholics, Romanian Catholics and Russian Greek Catholics; the smallest Greek Catholic church if I recall is that of Greece) on the third Sunday of Lent (most are now on the Gregorian calendar but until recently some were on the Julian Calendar, and some might still be, I’m not sure on this point). In this respect it is different from the Crescent of Islam; the Crescent if used in a non-Islamic context is beautiful, but when used by Muslims to refer to their religion it becomes a symbol of evil. I believe that Western companies should aggressively make use of the Crescent and other symbols associated with heathenism, such as the Yin-Yang symbol (which was used historically as the logo of the Northern Pacific Railroad) in order to deprive these symbols of their religious connotations, whereas conversely, the cross should be protected, in all forms. There is a delightful number of variations of the Cross - the Latin Cross, the Saltire, St. Peter’s Cross, the Greek Cross, the St. Thomas Cross used by the Mar Thoma Christians in India, which has a sort of trefoil at each point, the Syriac Cross, the Assyrian Cross, the Jerusalem Cross and the related Coptic Cross, and many others.
Indeed Coptic Christians, at least the Orthodox and probably the Catholics (I haven’t met any Coptic Catholics but I hope to rectify this) will, when writing something on a sheet of paper, start by drawing a cross at the top.
The Crucifix likewise is a holy icon.
Byzantine crucifixes are usually two dimensional, but some are made with shallow bas-relief. Some of them are designed so that the icon of our Lord can be removed on Great and Holy Friday; additionally, there is a separate icon made on a cloth which is placed in a flowery Golgotha on Great and Holy Friday in the solemn Epitaphios service, which is a funeral for our Lord, which heightens the joy of the Paschal Divine Liturgy in the early morning on Easter Sunday; this liturgy differs from the Western Rite liturgy mainly in that while it starts out very sad, like the Western Good Friday liturgy, and the Reproaches hymn, it later takes on a triumphal tone to celebrate the victory of Christ on the Cross, which has also always been a theme.
Indeed the Paschal Triduum of the Byzantine and Latin Rites is extremely similar in the pre-1955 version, particularly with the Paschal Vigils Mass, or Vesperal Divine Liturgy of Holy Saturday as it is known in the East - this historically was in both rites, pre-1955, celebrated on the morning of Holy Saturday, and featured a large number of Old Testament readings, all prophecies of the passion and resurrection of Christ our God (likewise, a Byzantine Rite liturgy features prophecies of the Incarnation of Christ in a similar manner before Christmas). The Roman Rite version featured 12 Old Testament Lessons (and still does, for some TLM parishes have revived it) and the Byzantine Rite version featured 14; however, it was not a superset of the Latin version. The Presanctified Liturgy used by the Roman Rite on Good Friday pre-1955 is basically identical to the Presanctified Liturgy of St. Gregory that is used by all Eastern Orthodox and Byzantine Rite Catholics, and was most likely compiled by Pope St. Gregory the Great, who is one of the bishop of Rome most beloved by the Eastern Orthodox (others including St. Celestine, St. Clement, St. Damasus and of course St. Peter). In the Syriac Orthodox Church, which has a high Petrology due to it being a church of Antioch, the martyred Popes St. Julius and St. Sixtus are highly venerated and have anaphoras named in their honor, that of St. Sixtus being especially beautiful (also there is an anaphora of St. Peter which is exquisite, not to be confused with the Divine Liturgy of St. Peter, a Byzantine Rite liturgy known to have been used by Russian Old Believers among others, which uses the standard Byzantine Rite synaxis but then uses the Roman Canon as its anaphora - some Western Rite parishes have also used this liturgy, but it is originally of Byzantine origin, and attests to the love of the Roman Canon as an anaphora across Christendom; it is also structurally similar to the Ambrosian liturgy, which differs from the other Gallican liturgies such as the Mozarabic in that rather than having a highly variable Anaphora, it uses the Roman Canon, albeit coupled to a standard Gallican synaxis which always had an Old Testament lesson.
Ambrosian Chant, if you’ve never heard it, is exquisite - Ambrosian and Mozarabic Chant feel like they exist in a happy middle ground between Byzantine Chant and Gregorian Chant, and I prefer them, especially Ambrosian Chant, to both. Ambrosian Chant also exists because of St. Ambrose introducing to the Western Church Greek style antiphonal hymnody in an effort to maintain the morale of his people during the vigil they held in a basillica in Milan which St. Theodosius I, known for his enmity towards Arianism, in a rare moment of weakness had been frightened into offering to the Arians - which St. Ambrose was not having. Ultimately, this vigil was a success - the basilica remained a Christian church (like most basilicas it likely had historically been a Roman court of law and center of public administration), and whatever violence the Arians threatened did not amount to any kind of major disruption of Imperial security. This incident however remains the only real stain on the record of St. Theodosius (aside from his ill-advised decision to divide the Empire between his sons, which led to the isolation of the Western Empire and hastened its collapse, which caused much misery in Western Europe). But insofar as St. Theodosius made Christianity the official religion of the Roman Empire and banned Arianism and Paganism, destroying the Pagan temples, smashing the altar to the goddess victory, and replacing idolatry with worship of Christ our True God, the Cross triumphing over idolatry, he is worthy of veneration. Indeed its amazing and delightful to consider how many animals he saved from being sacrificed to idols of demons simply by closing the Pagan temples.
Thus, I view Christians who despite the Cross and the Crucfifix as profoundly misguided, and I view Christians who abhor St. Theodosius the same way - were it not for him, the rivers of blood would have continued to flow from Pagan temples across the Mediterranean, one of which our Lord in the Apocalypse likened to the throne of Satan (that being the Altar in Pergamon).
Another thing we can all agree on, as traditional Christians, is the importance of the Sign of the Cross as a gesture that invokes the protection of our Lord and also memorializes His passion for us - recently while visiting an LCMS parish, most members did not bat an eyelid at my crossing myself, but I had one member ask me why I did that - clearly someone poorly catechized and not of the confessional Lutherans like our friend
@ViaCrucis who are called Evangelical Catholics. Likewise in Anglican parishes the sign of the cross is extremely common.