I see. So, to be clear, the things he does advocate are somehow not as bad as "open borders, defunding police, males in women's sports, and drag performances for 8 year olds"?
In the eyes of conservative people who make up half of the country (for religious reasons or otherwise), no, the Trump stuff isn't as bad.
Again noting, I didn't vote for him...but from their perspective, he's the lesser of two evils.
Because it sure looks like you are singling out one side as having off the wall ideas and claiming their need to move towards the middle while saying of the other side "Well, ya, but I didn't vote for him". So my question is how does not voting move either side towards the middle? Just seems like absenteeism. You say "it rewards bad behavior" but not voting does that as well in a two party system. It just does so in a passive fashion.
I'm singling out the democrats on that because on the key issues that defined the 2024 election, they were the ones who had more of the "off the wall" ideas in the court of public opinion.
And astute democratic "players" know that now, hence the reason why Kamala made a scramble to move more toward the middle (albeit too late), and why people like Newsom (who's the likely 2028 front runner) have moved more toward the center on those issues. They know why they lost, it's not some cryptic mystery.
Biden originally presented himself as a moderate (and cleaned house and won by a large margin), his admin then did a hard left turn immediately after taking office. (and put a bunch of people off)
Trump's numbers between 2020 and 2024 didn't shift a whole lot. It was disenfranchised center-left and centrists staying home during the 2024 election that cost Harris the victory.
Thus the reason why we've seen the push toward the middle from prominent democrats on those issues.
They know they need the moderates and independents to vote (and vote for them) in order to win.
The concept of "swing voters" exists for a reason.
The far-left folks the west coast are always going to vote D, the rural far-right types in East Texas are always going to vote R, that's a given. Nobody's winning or losing elections based on those types of voters. The "Red or Dead" and "Blue no matter who" type voters have been omnipresent for a few decades now.
I've mentioned it before, winning elections is based winning the votes you want to get, not the votes that you're already guaranteed to have. Anyone with a (D) next to their name is winning Cali, anyone with an (R) next to their name is winning Alabama & Texas.
All of the solid blue states still went blue in 2020 despite Biden not being their cup of tea based on the way he was presenting himself in the lead-up. The difference being... me (and people like me) voted for Biden in 2020, because we thought it was a return to moderation. When we opted to "sit this one out" or "vote 3rd party" in 2024, it was the difference maker.