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‘Traditional family values’ Michigan lawmaker Bryan Posthumus appears in adult hookup sites

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The name, email address, and home address of Republican state Rep. Bryan Posthumus of Kent County, along with a credit card bearing his name, appear in data from Ashley Madison, a website for people seeking affairs.

Posthumus’s personal information also shows up on two other adult hookup websites — AdultFriendFinder and Fling.com, a pornographic dating site that features live web cams and promised users they could “find sex” and “get laid tonight.”

The 2015 Ashley Madison hack exposed the personal information of more than 30 million users of the infidelity website, which was explicitly marketed to married people seeking affairs under the slogan, “Life is short. Have an affair.”

The Ashley Madison data includes an email address linked to Posthumus and a Lowell home address that he and his then-wife purchased in 2011, as well as a credit card bearing his name.

His former wife, Stacy Posthumus, filed for divorce in early 2014, according to court records.

The adult hookup websites stand in stark contrast to the man who has built his image around God, morality, and “traditional family values.” In 2022, the Christian Coalition of Michigan named him its “Friend of the Family Award” for his “strong defense of family values.” In accepting the award, Posthumus said he was “honored to receive this recognition.”

In his attorney’s letter to Metro Times, Burns accused the publication of trying to “weaponize unverified, anonymous data dumps” and claimed that “a disgruntled former employee” or political opponent could have created the accounts. It also described the reporting as a “thinly veiled political attack masquerading as journalism.”

However, the Ashley Madison account was created nearly a decade before Posthumus was first elected to public office.

Last month, Metro Times revealed that Republican state Rep. Josh Schriver, R-Oxford, who introduced legislation in September to ban online pornography statewide, appeared on Fling.com. The leaked information, verified by the cybersecurity database SnusBase... The account was last accessed on Sept. 11, 2010, according to breach data.

Schriver denied having a Fling.com account.
 

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Hasn't it dawned on you yet that the Christian Right intends that "Traditional Family Values" should only apply to the working class?
And women, mainly.
 
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Hasn't it dawned on you yet that the Christian Right intends that "Traditional Family Values" should only apply to the working class?

I think in a lot of instances, it's merely a case where when one has political ambitions, they feel "compelled" to espouse certain values depending on their locale.

Reason 9,421 for why politics is a dirty business.

If one wants to get elected on the republican ticket in deep red rural areas in the Midwestern states, being willing to espouse the stereotypical "Traditional Family Values" messaging is a barrier to entry.


It's one of the reasons that, in my opinion, the most reasonable politicians are either Republicans in Blue areas, and Democrats in Red areas.

Being in an region that's an opposing team's echo chamber does two things
1) forces one to curb the excesses of their own positions
2) forces one to present a nuanced challenge to the prevailing political proclivities of the region (instead of the scorched earth smear tactics)

The examples I'd cite of that why that formula is good are former Massachusetts Governor Bill Weld from the Republican side, and current Kentucky Governor Andy Beshear from the Democratic side.
 
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A "wolf in sheep's clothing" is someone who appears harmless, innocent, or friendly but is actually deceitful or dangerous. This idiom describes a person who hides their true, harmful intentions behind a guise of trust and good behavior.
 
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Gonna play devils advocate here, but.. this was more than 10 years ago, and years before he got into politics. Perhaps he turned over a new leaf?
 
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