I can't stop feeling "less than" other Catholics

Lady Bug said:

Hi, contrary to the popular narrative that Catholics don't have a relationship with Jesus or don't have knowledge of their faith, I'm not seeing this in real life. Of course, you will find Catholics like I've described, they are in abundance, but I'm encountering Catholics who are very well-versed in Scripture, have read books, written articles, and given lectures at places. I feel like garbage compared to some of them; I'll never feel like I measure up. I start many books and have never even gotten through a third of them. The first book I finished in the past 10 years was "The Four Last Things" by Martin von Cochem and that was not even an enjoyable book; it was, however, a very compelling book. Someone at my table at the formation course seemed to treat me as "less than" for being a convert, and I don't think it's in my head.

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Lady Bug said:

I wasn't born Catholic, but everything else you said was right.

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Lady Bug said:

You know how sometimes you just want to say how you really feel to someone and not beat around the bush? I sometimes wish I could become that person no matter whether they like me or not. I'd love to just say at the table (sigh...I can't though), "Most people who have been raised in a typical plain vanilla Catholic family with 10 siblings don't know schitt about true adversity in the faith. They don't know one phucking iota of what it means to have to obey your parents even when you're 55. They act like all you have to do is stand up to your parents. They don't have a phucking clue that this concept isn't a thing in other societies. And if you think it's so easy, try not having your heart crushed when your child, whether 16 or 55, tells you to F off your faith, and come back to me telling me how children should stand up to their parents. Age isn't going to matter schitt then." (Ok that's all scripted and would never go half that well in real life)

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chevyontheriver said:

A convert is someone who had to overcome a lot to become Catholic. Cradle Catholics, by comparison, had it all just handed to them. Where’s the virtue in that? Yours was the more challenging path and kudos to you for taking it.

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