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Weekly Devotionals for Victims of Scams

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Week 1: God Sees the injustice

Devotional
: Being scammed can feel like betrayal without justice. You may feel foolish, angry, or abandoned. But Scripture assures us that God sees every injustice. He is not passive—He is a defender of the vulnerable, a restorer of dignity, and a righteous judge.

Scriptures

Please read the following scriptures and express what they mean to you, and how these can be applied to your own life today.


  1. Psalm 37:28 – God loves justice and won’t abandon the faithful.
  2. Romans 12:19 – Leave vengeance to God; He will repay.
  3. Isaiah 61:8 – God hates robbery and wrongdoing. Your anger is valid—God hates deceit and will act against it.
  4. Psalm 9:9 – God is a refuge for the oppressed.
  5. Proverbs 21:15 – Justice brings joy to the righteous.
Discussion

Please answer the following questions and tell us a little about why you came to this conclusion and your experience leading up to this decision.


  1. What does justice look like to you after being scammed?
  2. How does knowing God sees injustice change your perspective?
  3. What emotions have been hardest to deal with since the scam?
  4. Have you ever seen God bring justice in your life or someone else’s?
  5. What does it mean to “leave vengeance to God”? Is that hard for you?
 

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Week 2

Opening Prayer


Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You with heavy hearts, bearing the weight of pain, betrayal, and shame. Lord, You know the depths of our hurt and the struggles we face. We pray for Your presence to surround us, for Your comfort and peace to envelop us, and for Your guidance to direct us. We also pray for the teachings of Your Holy Spirit to guide, direct and lead us through this difficult time in our lives.

As we journey through this devotional, we ask that You would open our hearts, minds, ears and eyes to see, hear, receive and understand your word to the fullest. May Your truth shine brightly in our darkness, and may Your love and peace bring us healing and restoration.

In Jesus’ mighty and most precious name we pray, Amen.

Restoration and Hope After Betrayal

As we begin this devotion, we acknowledge the pain and vulnerability that comes with being scammed. The feelings of shame, guilt, and betrayal can be overwhelming, making it difficult to know where to turn. But we find comfort in Psalm 34:18, which reminds us that "The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves such as have a contrite spirit." In the midst of our pain, God is near, offering us comfort, guidance, and healing.

In times of uncertainty and fear, it's easy to feel alone and abandoned. But Jesus' promise in Matthew 28:20 reminds us that "I am with you always, even to the end of the age." This promise extends to us today, offering us reassurance that we are not alone. God is with us, always, and He will never leave us or forsake us.

As we navigate the aftermath of being scammed, we may feel like we're walking through a dark and uncertain valley. But Deuteronomy 31:6 encourages us to "be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid" because God is with us. He will strengthen us, help us, and uphold us with His righteous right hand.

In the face of adversity, it's easy to give in to fear and anxiety. But Isaiah 41:10 reminds us that "Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God." God is our Rock, our Refuge, and our Savior. He is our stronghold in times of trouble, and He will never let us down.

As scam victims, it's essential to remember that we are not defined by our experiences. We are defined by our identity in Christ, and His love for us is unwavering. Today, let's choose to focus on His presence in our lives, rather than our pain. Let's seek His guidance, comfort, and healing.

In the days ahead, we will face challenges and uncertainties. But we can face them with confidence, knowing that God is with us. Let's lean into His presence, trusting in His goodness, love, and care. As we do, we'll discover that He is our strength, our shield, and our defender.

May these scriptures be a source of comfort, strength, and encouragement to you today. May you sense God's presence in your life, and may you know that you are loved, valued, and cherished by Him. Let's journey through this devotion together, seeking God's guidance, healing, and restoration.

Scripture Readings and Meanings

  1. Scripture Meanings Psalm 34:18: "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit."
Meaning: This verse highlights God's compassion and closeness to those who are hurting. The phrase "broken heart" refers to emotional pain, sorrow, or distress. God's nearness means He cares about our pain and is actively working to help us. The phrase "saves such as have a contrite spirit" suggests that God rescues those who are genuinely repentant and humble.

Matthew 28:20: "And lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” Amen.

Meaning: This verse is part of Jesus' farewell promise to His disciples. He assures them that He will be with them always, even after He's gone. This promise extends to all believers, providing comfort and assurance that Jesus is always present, guiding and supporting us. The phrase "even to the end of the age" emphasizes that His presence is not limited by time.

  1. Deuteronomy 31:6 : "Be strong and of good courage, do not fear nor be afraid of them; for the Lord your God, He is the One who goes with you. He will not leave you nor forsake you.”
Meaning: This verse is part of Moses' farewell speech to the Israelites. He encourages them to be strong and courageous, not because they're self-sufficient, but because God is with them. The promise "He will not leave you nor forsake you" offers reassurance that God will never abandon or neglect His people.

Isaiah 41:10: "Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.”

Meaning: This verse is a powerful promise of God's presence and support. The command "Fear not" is followed by the reassurance "for I am with you." God promises to strengthen, help, and uphold us with His righteous right hand. This verse encourages us to trust in God's power and presence, rather than giving in to fear or anxiety.

Application These scriptures offer comfort, reassurance, and encouragement to those who are hurting or feeling alone. They remind us that God is always present, caring, and actively working to help us. By reflecting on these scriptures, we can:

  • Find comfort in God's presence and love
  • Trust in His power and guidance
  • Develop courage and confidence in His care
  • Experience peace and reassurance in times of uncertainty or fear
May these scriptures bring you comfort, hope, and strength as you navigate challenging circumstances.

Discussion Questions and Possible Answers

**These possible answers are given to help prompt you into finding your own answers to these questions.

Question 1: How can we trust God when we've been scammed or betrayed?

  1. By remembering God's sovereignty and control over all situations.
  2. By focusing on the scammer's wrongdoing and God's justice.
  3. By trusting in God's love and care for us, despite our circumstances.
Question 2: What role does forgiveness play in healing from being scammed?

  1. Forgiveness means forgetting what happened and moving on.
  2. Forgiveness is about releasing the scammer from debt, not excusing their actions.
  3. Forgiveness is a process that allows us to release bitterness and heal.
Question 3: How can we protect ourselves from future scams?

  1. By being more cautious and skeptical of unsolicited offers.
  2. By doing thorough research and verifying information.
  3. By trusting our instincts and being aware of red flags.
Question 4: What does it mean to "not fear" in the face of uncertainty or adversity?

  1. It means being fearless and taking reckless risks.
  2. It means acknowledging fear but choosing to trust in God's sovereignty.
  3. It means suppressing fear and pretending everything is okay.
Question 5: How can we find hope and restoration after being scammed?

  1. By focusing on the lessons learned and personal growth.
  2. By seeking support from loved ones and professionals.
  3. By trusting in God's goodness and promises, even in darkness.
Closing Prayer

"Dear Lord,

As we conclude this devotional, we thank You for Your presence, guidance, direction and your beautiful peace, which surpasses all understanding. I pray, Father, that the truths we've explored today will bring us comfort, strength, and hope for both the present and the future. Help us to apply these truths to our lives in our daily walk with you, and help us to hold onto Your promises and to trust in You in all our ways, body, mind, soul and spirit.

I pray Your peace will guard our hearts and minds, and Your love will continue to heal and restore us. I ask that you will empower us to walk in freedom, hope, and confidence, knowing You are with us always and you will never leave us nor forsake us.

In the mighty name of Jesus, Amen
 
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