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Do I have to sing at Mass?

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When the opening hymn rings out at Mass, it is not uncommon in parishes today to see many in the congregation stand, hymnals in hand, yet remain tight-lipped, their voices silent. Of course, this isn’t true of everyone. Every parish has its familiar figures: the one who sings as if it were an audition, the one who races ahead of the tempo or the one who holds notes just a bit too long. Congregational singing certainly is not perfect, but there is a beauty in these imperfections, and even more so, it is something the Church values greatly.

The Second Vatican Council’s Constitution on the Sacred Liturgyemphasizes the importance of sacred music, so much so that it states: “Bishops and other pastors of souls must be at pains to ensure that, whenever the sacred action is to be celebrated with song, the whole body of the faithful may be able to contribute that active participation which is rightly theirs” (No. 114). In other words, the Church understands that singing is not something accidental to the liturgy but is a necessary component of what it means to worship. St. Paul encourages this, urging us to “sing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs among yourselves, singing and making melody to the Lord in your hearts” (Eph 5:19-20).

Nonetheless, what I often hear from self-deprecating parishioners is, “Father, you don’t want me to sing!” Now, the Church always seeks to balance competency with confidence. Someone might want to be a lector, but she could struggle as an orator, just as a nervous singer might fear his voice would only distract from the beauty of the liturgy. Herein lies the beauty of congregational singing and the wisdom of basic hymnody. As the General Instruction of the Roman Missal reminds us, sacred music fosters unity above all else. If you are a hesitant singer, what you should seek to modulate is not your effort, but perhaps only your volume. Be prudent in the confidence with which you join a song, yet join in nonetheless. Your voice, even offered in quiet humility, lifts up the prayer of the Church.

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I try to sing, but I have asthma and tend to cough a lot if I sing too much. Especially in our church because it has no air conditioning.
 
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I feel more engaged in the Mass if I sing. Surprisingly, at one parish I attend here and there, people just don't sing. It's annoying. OK some people do, but it seems like more than half are not doing it. At other parishes, people sing more. I don't know how to account for the difference.
 
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I don’t sing every hymn. Some are downright difficult to sing and I am no singer. I tend to hum in those situations. I would much prefer a choir to listen to and meditate/pray during the worship.
 
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When I play in the ensemble, I sing only if I can sing and play the song entirely from memory. I have to know it really well to do that. For most songs, I focus on what the other musicians are playing and work out a rhythm and harmony that best supports the song.

When I’m in the congregation, I will sing if the song is within my (narrow) vocal range. If it's a song I don't know well but expect to play sometime with the ensemble, I focus on the lyrics first, then listen to the piano and think of how I might accompany it.

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Lady: Are you the police?
Elwood Blues: No, ma'am, we're musicians ... We're on a mission from God.

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I feel more engaged in the Mass if I sing. Surprisingly, at one parish I attend here and there, people just don't sing. It's annoying. OK some people do, but it seems like more than half are not doing it. At other parishes, people sing more. I don't know how to account for the difference.

I think a lot depends on the priest’s and staff’s commitment to good liturgy and the proficiency of the music director. If they are committed to and practice good liturgy, most people will respond.

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I feel more engaged in the Mass if I sing. Surprisingly, at one parish I attend here and there, people just don't sing. It's annoying. OK some people do, but it seems like more than half are not doing it. At other parishes, people sing more. I don't know how to account for the difference.
Yeah, I think it depends where I attend.
 
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I think a lot depends on the priest’s and staff’s commitment to good liturgy and the proficiency of the music director. If they are committed to and practice good liturgy, most people will respond.

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Lady: Are you the police?
Elwood Blues: No, ma'am, we're musicians ... We're on a mission from God.
Ironically the commitment and proficiency are very good. However, the Saturday and Sunday evening Masses are not nearly as crowded and it's probably those Masses that have less singing, but it still doesn't explain why other parishes' singing is more, at their evening Masses.
 
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Ironically the commitment and proficiency are very good. However, the Saturday and Sunday evening Masses are not nearly as crowded and it's probably those Masses that have less singing, but it still doesn't explain why other parishes' singing is more, at their evening Masses.
At the 8 o clock Mass there is no music. At all the other masses, music and singing is included. It’s probably for the busy folks, I assume.
 
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At the 8 o clock Mass there is no music. At all the other masses, music and singing is included. It’s probably for the busy folks, I assume.
Or for people like me who can barely talk at 8 am.
 
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I struggle with this. Although our Novus Ordo is extremely reverent, comparatively speaking, the hymnal often contains songs that sound like modern soft pop, and I take a dim view of this departure from the ancient, traditional sacred music.
Generally, if the hymn is very good, the tune at least is older than about 1840. If the copyright says 1978 or something, I presume it's going to be awful, and I'm usually right.

And I definitely dislike the expectation to sing during Communion, so I ignore this completely and try to just focus on the Eucharist.
 
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I struggle with this. Although our Novus Ordo is extremely reverent, comparatively speaking, the hymnal often contains songs that sound like modern soft pop, and I take a dim view of this departure from the ancient, traditional sacred music.
Generally, if the hymn is very good, the tune at least is older than about 1840. If the copyright says 1978 or something, I presume it's going to be awful, and I'm usually right.

And I definitely dislike the expectation to sing during Communion, so I ignore this completely and try to just focus on the Eucharist.
I agree. I find the music after holy communion rather distracting. There’s usually two hymns because there’s such a long line.
 
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I struggle with this. Although our Novus Ordo is extremely reverent, comparatively speaking, the hymnal often contains songs that sound like modern soft pop, and I take a dim view of this departure from the ancient, traditional sacred music.
Generally, if the hymn is very good, the tune at least is older than about 1840. If the copyright says 1978 or something, I presume it's going to be awful, and I'm usually right.

And I definitely dislike the expectation to sing during Communion, so I ignore this completely and try to just focus on the Eucharist.
You and I are of a like mind. :) Usually the opening hymn at my parish isn't too bad; and most times the recessional isn't too bad. The rest of them, I usually just stand quietly, mostly because I want to focus on what's going on up at the altar. But if *any* of them are those hideous things that were written between 1965 and 2010, I usually forego it, simply because they are are just plain awful. They are hard to sing in a congregational setting, they have wretched melodies, questionable theology, and are extremely difficult to even listen to. I don't mind the good old solid hymns from the 16th century on up to the early 20th; but that "folk" stuff, they can keep. I refuse to sing it.
 
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Wolseley, you singled out songs written between 1965 and 2010 as being particularly bad. Are there any particular songs written since 2010 that you think are acceptable for liturgical use?

For those of you who don't sing at Mass because of the song choices, do you feel the same way about more recently written songs at prayer services? For instance, if you attended a Cursillo, do you participate in singing at an Ultreya? Or, if you attend a charismatic prayer meeting, do you sing there?

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Wolseley, you singled out songs written between 1965 and 2010 as being particularly bad. Are there any particular songs written since 2010 that you think are acceptable for liturgical use?
I don't know if I have ever encountered any songs written since 2010, to be honest with you. I do know that it was around 15 years ago when we first saw a lessening in the use of post-Vatican II folk revival hymns, at least in this diocese. Which was fine with me.
For those of you who don't sing at Mass because of the song choices, do you feel the same way about more recently written songs at prayer services? For instance, if you attended a Cursillo, do you participate in singing at an Ultreya? Or, if you attend a charismatic prayer meeting, do you sing there?
I have attended a Cursillo, but it was thirty years ago. Most of the songs we sang were the old hymns, both Catholic and Protestant, along with a sprinkling of the usual Cursillo songs like "De Colores". I didn't have a problem with that. I have never attended a charismatic prayer meeting.
 
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I've never been to either a Cursillo or a charismatic prayer meeting with singing. Before coming back to the Church I did attend some protestant rock music services on a very few occasions, and came away from that agreeing with the adage that "Christian rock" generally makes both Christianity and rock music worse...

...I get that everyone's sensibilities might differ
 
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