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July 5, 2025, Father Matteo Balzano, a 35-year-old priest of the Diocese of Novara, Committed Suicide

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A tragic event has shaken the small town of Cannobio, Italy overlooking the beautiful Lake Verbano. On the morning of July 5, 2025, Father Matteo Balzano, a 35-year-old priest of the Diocese of Novara, was found lifeless in his residence, he had taken his own life. His absence at morning Mass and silence raised alarm, deeply shocking a community that knew him as devoted, joyful, and ever-present in his ministry among young people.

Ordained in 2017 and originally from Borgomanero, Fr. Matteo's death highlights a painful truth: many priests, though seen as spiritual rocks, quietly carry emotional burdens, loneliness, and pressure few can imagine.

The Church in Italy has begun taking steps to accompany priests with spiritual and psychological support, but this tragedy reminds us that more still needs to be done. Let us lift up Father Matteo in our prayers, and entrust him to the infinite mercy of God, who sees even the hidden wounds and forgives all.

May you Rest in Peace my brother.

Priest, 35, kills self - Vatican - Ansa.it

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"Behind every collar is a man - flesh and blood - who gets tired, feels lonely, battles doubts, and sometimes cries in silence.

Yes, priests are consecrated, but not immune to depression, burnout, or trauma.

They are not angels in cassocks. They are human. The tragedy today is that when priests struggle, many suffer in silence.

Why? Because society - even within the Church - often punishes vulnerability. People say: “How can you be tired?” “You are a priest, pray harder.” “You have no family - what stress do you have?”

This pressure to be perfect isolates priests. They fear being judged if they admit they are weak.

So many wear a smile at the altar and carry hidden wounds in the dark.

But remember that even Christ Himself wept. He felt anguish in Gethsemane. He got tired on the way to Calvary."


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Praying that we all remember that

Eucharist is a communion of suffering humanity. It's a sacred act that binds our wounds to Christ, our grief to his agony, and our hunger to his self-giving.

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