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The adminstration is still not requiring e-verify.Trump is ignoring illegals in a rush to deport legal aliens? Got any proof to back up that claim?
A civil offense. I thought you meant a crime deserving of punishment.Crossing the border illegally.
The adminstration is still not requiring e-verify.
A civil offense. I thought you meant a crime deserving of punishment.
The problem is that your in-person business meeting experience doesn’t really translate to online discussions. You can’t really interrupt people in a forum. You can take your time to reply, and since it’s written down, you can always point back to what you or others said.
Only a fraction are actually fleeing for the lives. According to Chatgpt it estimates only about 10-20% of all immigrants are fleeing persecution.
You got some evidence of people being sent back to countries where their lives are in danger?
This is very selfish. Basically you want them to stay because of what America gets out of it.
Harshest possible punishment? When did I imply that? The harshest possible punishment I can think of is execution, and I’ve never suggested that.
There is no evidence the making an ugly face at a dog law exists, and is most likely a myth or misinterpretation. The riding a bike in a pool law is unconfirmed, and the dancing one is real but no longer enforced.
Do those laws being unenforced, in my view, encourage people to commit murder, rape, and robbery without restraint? No. I don’t see why they would.
Illegal immigration on the other hand has allowed a lot of bad people to enter and they have taken the lives of innocent Americans.
Are you okay with illegal immigrants being treated like slaves?
One law is likely not a real law, one is unconfirmed and one hasn’t been enforced in decades and most people are probably not aware of. Being soft on illegal immigration on the other hand sends the wrong message that they can enter without consequences.
Because America is a systemically racist, white supremacist country led by a corrupt, Hitler loving, wannabe dictator. So the left says.
Six months? For one of the most heinous crimes a person can commit? Maybe we should impose the death penalty.That’s a huge leap into conspiratorial thinking you’ve made.
“There has been an increase in pending legislation recently regarding the use of E-Verify which may be driven from the Trump administration’s stance on immigration.
At the federal level, the Accountability Through Electronic Verification Act (S.1151) was introduced in the senate on March 26, 2025. This bill would expand the use of E-Verify, hold employers accountable, and increase penalties for non-compliance. At the state level, pending bills in three states (Montana HB 226, Kentucky HB 673, and Idaho HB 252) would require private employers to use E-Verify if passed.“
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What’s Happening with E-Verify Requirements
Stay up to date on what’s happening with E-Verify requirements in 2025 from the latest GovDocs Legislative Scoop.www.govdocs.com
Crossing the border illegally is a crime.
Is It a Crime to Cross the U.S. Border Without Permission or Gain Entry By Fraud?
Illegal entry (or "improper entry") to the US carries criminal penalties (fines and jail or prison time), in addition to civil penalties and immigration consequenceswww.alllaw.com
“For the first improper entry offense, the person can be fined (as a criminal penalty), or imprisoned for up to six months, or both.”
Whether or not someone is able to respond after being taken out of context is not the point.
The point is that interrupting someone mid-sentence—and ignoring the words at the end that clarify their meaning—is a poor tactic. Taking a snippet and disregarding the surrounding context is misleading and rude. It’s not a respectful or constructive way to carry on a conversation.
In my illustration, I was saying, "We need to solve this, and we can do it with solution A, or solution B, or solution C." But if I’m interrupted at the second comma to make it look like I’m ignoring other viewpoints, that’s misrepresentation.
Likewise, when you break comments into snippets and ignore what’s said in the next sentence, you distort the meaning. Telling me, "You can always point back to what you or others said," is not a good answer. Repeatedly misrepresenting people, then saying they can always go back and explain how they were misunderstood, does not make for good conversation.
I prefer dialogue that respects context—rather than conversations where we constantly need to "point back" to fix what was taken out of context in the first place.
Generally,, when a thread is down to “let’s argue over arguments and how best to make them”, the gold has run out.Whether or not someone is able to respond after being taken out of context is not the point.
The point is that interrupting someone mid-sentence—and ignoring the words at the end that clarify their meaning—is a poor tactic. Taking a snippet and disregarding the surrounding context is misleading and rude. It’s not a respectful or constructive way to carry on a conversation.
In my illustration, I was saying, "We need to solve this, and we can do it with solution A, or solution B, or solution C." But if I’m interrupted at the second comma to make it look like I’m ignoring other viewpoints, that’s misrepresentation.
Likewise, when you break comments into snippets and ignore what’s said in the next sentence, you distort the meaning. Telling me, "You can always point back to what you or others said," is not a good answer. Repeatedly misrepresenting people, then saying they can always go back and explain how they were misunderstood, does not make for good conversation.
I prefer dialogue that respects context—rather than conversations where we constantly need to "point back" to fix what was taken out of context in the first place.
ChatGPT? Seriously? Where did ChatGPT get this information?
I asked ChatGPT, "What percentage of immigrants are fleeing persecution?" It responded:
As of the end of 2023, approximately 117.3 million people worldwide were forcibly displaced due to persecution, conflict, violence, human rights violations, or events seriously disturbing public order. This figure includes refugees, asylum seekers, internally displaced persons, and others in need of international protection.
While precise percentages are difficult to determine, a significant portion of these individuals are fleeing persecution.
When I use ChatGPT for questions like this, I always ask for sources. And I often ask for the best argument against what I am saying, with sources for the opposing viewpoint. Then I look at the sources on both sides. When used that way, ChatGPT can be an enormously useful tool. It is a great way to find sources on both sides of an argument.
For example, I asked, "Do you have any sources that refute the claim that only 10%–20% of all immigrants are fleeing persecution?" It responded:
The claim that only 10%–20% of immigrants are fleeing persecution is not supported by current global data. In fact, a significant portion of international migrants are forcibly displaced due to persecution, conflict, violence, or human rights violations.
According to the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees (UNHCR), as of the end of 2023, there were approximately 117.3 million people worldwide who were forcibly displaced. This figure includes:
- 43.4 million refugees, including 31.6 million under UNHCR’s mandate and 6 million Palestinian refugees under UNRWA’s mandate.
(https://www.unhcr.org/global-trends?utm_source=chatgpt.com)- 5.8 million other people in need of international protection.
(https://www.unhcr.org/about-unhcr/overview/figures-glance?utm_source=chatgpt.com)- 8 million asylum-seekers.
(https://www.unhcr.org/about-unhcr/overview/figures-glance?utm_source=chatgpt.com)These categories collectively represent individuals who have fled their countries due to persecution or serious threats to their safety. When combined, they account for a substantial portion of the global forcibly displaced population. Therefore, the assertion that only 10%–20% of immigrants are fleeing persecution significantly underestimates the reality.
So there. You could have easily seen the refutation of your claim before you made it. ChatGPT would have gladly told you why the statistic it just gave might be wrong.
By the way, are you interested in seeing sources that refute your claim? If you have ChatGPT, it is easy to find such sources. I now use it all the time to see what arguments can be made against what I write. If the arguments are sound, I adjust my views to match this new information. Do you have this same desire to learn the truth? Or are you in this game only to prove you are right, while ignoring evidence that opposes you?
Yes. Again, from ChatGPT:
- El Salvador: Deportees Killed After Return
A 2020 Human Rights Watch report titled “Deported to Danger” documented at least 138 cases of Salvadorans killed after deportation from the U.S. between 2013 and 2019.
(Deported to Danger)- Cameroon: Asylum Seekers Harmed Post-Deportation
In 2020, dozens of Cameroonian asylum seekers deported from the U.S. were tortured or detained upon return. In 2024, the U.S. allowed 27 of them to return, acknowledging legal violations.
(Deported Cameroonian Asylum Seekers Returned to US)- Guatemala: Wrongful Deportation of LGBTQ+ Asylum Seeker
In 2025, a Guatemalan man granted asylum due to persecution based on sexual orientation was wrongly deported. A judge ruled the deportation unlawful and ordered his return.
(US judge orders Trump administration to return wrongly deported gay man)- Venezuela: Asylum Seekers Deported to El Salvador’s Mega-Prison
In March 2025, the U.S. deported 137 Venezuelans to El Salvador, where they were imprisoned without trial. Among them was a gay makeup artist misidentified as a gang member.
(March 2025 American deportations of Venezuelans - Wikipedia)- Djibouti: Deportees Stranded in Hazardous Conditions
In May 2025, migrants deported by the U.S. were stranded at a U.S. base in Djibouti. They were held in a shipping container under extreme heat and poor sanitary conditions.
(Group stranded with Ice in Djibouti shipping container after removal from US)
Huh? You write this in response to, "So while we may be justified in enforcing some form of consequence for undocumented immigrants, many of us believe it's best—both for them and for us—to find a path that allows at least many to stay, under mutually beneficial terms."
Your response just ignores what I wrote. Why should I bother to respond if you cannot address what I actually write?
I meant to say the harshest possible punishment allowed by law. The harshest response allowed by law in many cases of crossing into the United States illegally is deportation. You seem to be saying that, since this harsh response is allowed, therefore we must do it. Why would we not consider leniency if circumstances justify leniency?
You are simply ignoring the question. Once again, I had written, "Your messages consistently imply that breaking the law must be met with the harshest possible punishment [allowed by law]. But why? Where is the mercy in that? Do you advocate the same for every single lawbreaker?"
I did not see your answer. Are you going to be consistent and insist that dancers to the national anthem must be given the maximum possible sentence without mercy? If you can see having mercy on dancers, why not consider mercy to those who are here illegally?
By the way, regarding the ugly faces law, I asked my new friend, ChatGPT, if it could refute its own claim that it is illegal to make faces at dogs in Oklahoma. It responded with an argument refuting its earlier claim, citing this source:
Strange Pet Laws - Separating Fact From Fiction — Rescue Legacy
See? The technique of using ChatGPT as devil’s advocate works. I will drop that argument about making faces at dogs.
This just ignores the question, "If the employment of undocumented workers has gone on for years—and if we even have labor laws that specifically protect undocumented workers—then why must we now pivot to punishing them to the full extent of the law?"
You can apparently accept ignoring the full consequences against a law forbidding dancing to the National Anthem. If you can consider leniency on dancers, why is it wrong to consider something less than the maximum consequences against someone who is not legally here?
I am talking about the undocumented who are good citizens and are doing much good for both them and us. You ignore them and talk about criminals. We both agree that criminals must go. That is not the topic of this discussion.
Why would not being soft on illegal dancing to the National Anthem also send the wrong message that one can sometimes disobey the law without consequences? Sometimes it is okay to show leniency.
I have responded to this several times. You just ignore what I write, and pretend I never said it.
Again, there is a lot of good in America, and a lot of evil. I hold out that the good in America will win, so I take my chances on staying here.
Many people that are here illegally take the same chances. Their odds are much better here than they are in their country of origin. For many, it is simply a matter of life or death to come here to escape the horrors at home. They have no choice. They come here with the hope of survival. We should hear their cases. If the best solution is to let them stay here, then we should find some terms that allow them to stay.
In the end that point of view is not going to do you any good. In the end immigration is a real problem not an ideological one and can only be solved by confronting the problem in reality rather than drifting off into right-wing fantasy land.Would you have preferred Grok?
ChatGPT gets its information from publicly available information on the internet.
You could have easily asked what percentage of that make up all immigrants.
I asked Grok your exact question and it estimated about 20-25%.
I’m guessing you didn’t specify in the U.S. which is what I asked and how chatgpt got that percentage.
This is why we should incentivise legal immigration.
You say sending people back to countries where their lives are in danger is not a compassionate solution, I say letting undocumented strangers into the country and letting them stay, putting American citizens in danger is also not a compassionate solution.
I did address what you actually wrote. I’m my opinion it’s very selfish for you and others to not want to have consequences for criminals because they benefit the country in some way.
This is partly why I snippet certain parts. You never know when the person replying hasn’t been clear.
In most circumstances concerning illegal immigration don’t justify leniency.
First of all, your question is a false equivalency. Secondly, the law about dancing to the national anthem is considered outdated and no longer enforced. Apparently you can find lots of outdated laws still in the books.
So, no. I am not going to insist that dancers to the national anthem must be given the maximum possible sentence without mercy.
I’m curious what specific question you asked it, to get that answer, because there is nothing in that article that refutes its own claim that the law isn’t real.
Because unlike showing leniency to illegal immigrants not enforcing this no dancing law hasn’t got anyone killed as far as I’m aware.
If those undocumented people crossed the border illegally then they are by law criminals.
So I’m not ignoring them, and we both don’t agree that criminals must go because you want to keep the ones that benefit the country and can be potentially exploited. And the whole topic of this conversation is about illegal immigrants.
Yet you want them to stay here despite having no documentation leaving them vulnerable to exploitation.
Not in the majority of cases of illegal immigration.
Actually, for the majority the odds are better if they stay in their country and come to America legally.
In the end that point of view is not going to do you any good. In the end immigration is a real problem not an ideological one and can only be solved by confronting the problem in reality rather than drifting off into right-wing fantasy land.
Our nation does not have enough people to fill the jobs.No idea what you’re talking about. I recognize the very real problem of illegal immigration. That is why I’m happy Trump won. Because he’s actually confronting the problem. It’s those on the left that don’t want criminals to be punished for their crime that are living in a fantasy land.
It wouldn't be so bad if we could find out what happened to those who are swept up.No idea what you’re talking about. I recognize the very real problem of illegal immigration. That is why I’m happy Trump won. Because he’s actually confronting the problem. It’s those on the left that don’t want criminals to be punished for their crime that are living in a fantasy land.
No, its about diversity, equity and inclusion. Those are quite different than equality.I disagree. DEI is about equality. You have done nothing to show otherwise.
You are in favor of equality, yes?
Research. There are plenty of places where those involved in the trainings and application have said so and admitted it.How do you know that DEI does this?
Yes, there may be times when DEI goes beyond its intention and labels white people as inherently more oppressive than others. That is wrong. But that in no way nullifies the basic problem: all groups tend to have ingroup biases, and this hurts inclusion.
DEI does go to extremes. And thats the problem. We could provide examples all day. Take a look at Harvard.I won't deny that DEI training can go to extremes. How much education about bias is enough to overcome natural bias? Obviously, if that is emphasized too much, it could lead to an opposite extreme reaction.
There shouldnt be any emphasis on it. Its a system based upon a false premise. The oppressed vs the oppressor. So yes we should stop trying. Because if I dont have a transgender person in my business doesn't mean I'm a bigot or an oppressor.Understood. How much DEI emphasis is enough? How much is too much and actually results in reverse bias? There is no easy answer to that. But not having a simple way to accurately measure the result does not mean we should stop trying.
We have seen an increase of asylum.seekers of upwards of 520% since 2020. Still only about 40% are actually granted asylum. Which hasn't changed over the years. In fact its gone down.Your link is about people trying to come to America—most of whom are seeking asylum. But you yourself have said there’s nothing illegal about seeking asylum. So why are you condemning those who do?
So, ignore that truth?What we don't need is people telling g black people that the reason they aren't doing as well is because they are an oppressed group in a white man's world.
ChatGPT gets its information from publicly available information on the internet.
You could have easily asked what percentage of that make up all immigrants.
I asked Grok your exact question and it estimated about 20-25%.
Group | Description | Work Authorization? | Estimated % of U.S. Workforce |
---|---|---|---|
Undocumented Immigrants | Individuals residing without legal authorization. | ❌ No | ~4.8% |
Asylum Seekers | Individuals applying for protection; lawful presence pending decision. | ❓ Yes, after obtaining an EAD (work permit) | ~1.0% |
Green Card Holders | Lawful permanent residents with full rights to live and work. | ✅ Yes | ~8.0% |
Temporary Visa Holders | Visitors on temporary visas (e.g., H-1B workers, F-1 students). | ❓ Some can work (depends on visa type) | ~2.0% |
Refugees | Individuals granted refugee status abroad before entering the U.S. | ✅ Yes | ~0.5% |
DACA Recipients | Young undocumented immigrants granted temporary deferred action and work rights. | ✅ Yes (temporary protection) | ~0.3% |
TPS Holders | Nationals from disaster-affected countries granted temporary stay. | ✅ Yes | ~0.1% |
Parolees | Temporarily allowed into U.S. for urgent humanitarian reasons. | ❓ Sometimes (depends on parole terms) | ~0.2% |
You say sending people back to countries where their lives are in danger is not a compassionate solution, I say letting undocumented strangers into the country and letting them stay, putting American citizens in danger is also not a compassionate solution.
I did address what you actually wrote. I’m my opinion it’s very selfish for you and others to not want to have consequences for criminals because they benefit the country in some way.
In most circumstances concerning illegal immigration don’t justify leniency.
Because unlike showing leniency to illegal immigrants not enforcing this no dancing law hasn’t got anyone killed as far as I’m aware.
If those undocumented people crossed the border illegally then they are by law criminals.
So I’m not ignoring them, and we both don’t agree that criminals must go because you want to keep the ones that benefit the country and can be potentially exploited. And the whole topic of this conversation is about illegal immigrants.
Yet you want them to stay here despite having no documentation leaving them vulnerable to exploitation.
Actually, for the majority the odds are better if they stay in their country and come to America legally.
We have seen an increase of asylum.seekers of upwards of 520% since 2020. Still only about 40% are actually granted asylum. Which hasn't changed over the years. In fact its gone down.
The people coming here illegally are using asylum as a tactic to stay.