Go along with what? Remember, we are talking about non-binary people here.
If you're referring to the non-binary crowd or the people who fancy themselves "allies"... the "going along with" would be the increasing impositions and the ever-moving "speech rules" goalposts.
Which, for some of that, it seems as if the imposition is part of the point.
They've come to see "changing the rules" and "making people scrap old ways/speech/traditions and force them to go along with something new" as
accomplishing something. So it becomes a quest for change, for change's sake.
Case in point, the pronoun rules.
It went from
"You have to respect which of the two sets of pronouns they want to go by based on which of the two genders they identify with"
to
"Well, actually, there could be more than two, so you'll need to ask people which set they prefer"
to
"Actually, you can't use the word
preferred pronouns anymore"
to
"They can change by the day, so you'll need to regularly ask people what their pronouns are"
to
"You can't refuse to play the pronoun game and refuse to disclose your own pronouns, because that conveys cis-privilege and diminishes the experience of people whose pronouns aren't as easily ascertained by appearance"
...all in a relatively short amount of time.
It became quite clear that the goal was to keep pushing things further so that there was constantly a reason to claim victim status.
For the first few iterations, people went along with it, and they'd chuck another brick up on the "speech rule wall" so that there was always something they could tell other people they were doing wrong, and always an opportunity to "educate people on the subject", and always claim some sort of victim status.
With regards to activism movements, a huge red flag is when there are no clearly defined tangible objectives, and activism itself appears to be the goal.