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Church words - are they legit or is there problems?

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What I wonder is time and again, church sermons tell us something like this: "When we pray, we need to pray in God's will, then He will answer". But in our common and collective experience, no one has been able to figure out how to pray in God's will even though they try. When we keep listening to such sermons, does any of you question if it can be done? Or you are still trying to figure it out? Or you have give up trying to 'pray in God's will' thinking that only the spiritual ones can do that (which is what some Christians believe).
you have to know Gods will in order to pray it.

Praying for expensive things is probably not in Gods will

Also..even when I pray for healing. I pray if it be your will (we can not know his will in this area) please heal..

we may not know Gods will.

also remember in context. when you pray concerning things you (the church) needs.. at least that is how I remember it
 
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To receive eternal life is the rebirth of eternal life in one's spirit.

Read it again. . .
Not sure what you mean here. rebirth of eternal life?

Jesus said whoever believes will never perish (never die) but has eternal life. or they will live forever.

new birth is being born again.

eternal life is just telling us how long this life will be (forever)

at least thats the way I see it
 
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Not sure what you mean here. rebirth of eternal life?
What life did the human spirit possess that was lost in the fall, and is returned (rebirthed) in the spiritual new birth?
Jesus said whoever believes will never perish (never die) but has eternal life. or they will live forever.

new birth is being born again.

eternal life is just telling us how long this life will be (forever)

at least thats the way I see it
Eternal life is not just about duration. It is also about quality, it is God's own life imparted to the human spirit.
 
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What life did the human spirit possess that was lost in the fall,
Adam had spiritual life. He had a relationship with God. that as long as he did nto sin, would not be severed.

he did nto have eternal life. If he had eternal life. then he would never have died the moment he sinned.
and is returned (rebirthed) in the spiritual new birth?
Spiritual life.

again, eternal lets us know the duration. This is another what I call "church word" as people are trying to take a term which literally means live forever. and making a different defenition of it.
Eternal life is not just about duration.
Jesus said will never perish but literally live forever (eternal life) its all about duration. If it is not eternal. then the term is meaningless.
It is also about quality, it is God's own life imparted to the human spirit.
Hes, that is one of the things we receive when we are born again. we receive many things..

But the promise we will never perish and we will live forever (eternal life) is but one of many.

think this way. If life could be killed again after it is born. (he was dead, he was born again, then he lost his new birth and went back to being dead) then the person does not have eternal life. he would have what I call conditional life. because it is not guaranteed, it is only kept if you meet conditions.
 
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Adam had spiritual life. He had a relationship with God. that as long as he did nto sin, would not be severed.

he did nto have eternal life. If he had eternal life. then he would never have died the moment he sinned.
You do not understand eternal life, which is spiritual, not physical.

Loss of eternal life in one's spirit is not loss of human life in one's body.
 
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Adam had spiritual life. He had a relationship with God. that as long as he did nto sin, would not be severed.
The human spirit is spiritual (non-material), its life is spiritual, even without any connection to God.

Eternal life is not about duration in the human spirit.
It's about quality, it is God's life which is unending.
It can be lost, and was by Adam, which situation all mankind now inherits from Adam.
 
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God's will is we serve others, not our selfishness. So praying accordingly is for others, not personal prosperity

Didn't the various biblical characters asked God to bless them?

What about sermon say: Pray for God's will for your plans. Christians want to know how God wants them to procced . This is not selfishness. And many Christians pray but cannot discern His will
 
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You do not understand eternal life, which is spiritual, not physical.
Actually, I understand it quite well.

I was born again (spiritual life) and when this happened I have Gods promise that I will never perish (spiritually) and I have eternal life (this spiritual life is eternal
Loss of eternal life in one's spirit is not loss of human life in one's body.
You can not lose eternal life. If you could, its not eternal.

This body will die. so when jesus tells us in John 3, John 4, John 5, John 6 and John 7 we will never perish, we will live forever. we will never die. we have eternal life. He is telling us, even though our physical bodies will die. this new birth into spiritual life is forever. and we will never die.

Again, Your showing my point. Using eternal life as a church word. and not taking it at face value as to what it means.
 
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The human spirit is spiritual (non-material), its life is spiritual, even without any connection to God.
I never said otherwise.

Adam had a relationship with God. when he sinned, His relationship with God was severed. He died spiritually. He and Eve were the only two people who died spiritually. The rest of us were born dead. for in adam all die. even so in christ shall all be made alive
Eternal life is not about duration in the human spirit.
No. It is about duration.

the spirit is made alive. That is all one has to say. in fact.

Paul tells us multiple times that we who were dead. are now alive. Eph 2: 1, 5 , 1 cor 15: 22. Col 2: 13

Jesus tells us we must be born again (made alive spiritually)

Peter said we are made alive in 1 peter 3: 18. They did not have to use the term eternal life. It is used to show the duration.. Otherwise. there is no need to use the word eternal.

again, if it is not eternal. but is conditional. conditional life would be the more appropriate term.


It's about quality, it is God's life which is unending.
We are not promised a quality of life. we are promised tribulation. we are told we will be hated by the world. we are told we will suffer greatly,

If eternal life is about Quality of life. then I tell you. We should probably seek another means of quality of life.
It can be lost,
Then its not eternal. And jesus lied.

He said YOU WILL NEVER PERISH. AND YOU HAVE ETERNAL LIFE

what you have done is make the word never not mean never, and the word eternal mean not eternal.

again, your doing the very thing I am talking about. You making a church word only here out of the word never and eternal.
and was by Adam, which situation all mankind now inherits from Adam.
In adam all die. but this death is not called eternal death.

Adam never had eternal life before he sinned, if he did, he would never have died. He had spiritual life. but a condition was placed on him, God said if you do this you will die.



In christ all shall be made alive..

We are told in numerous place that this life is eternal.
 
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did you read my three posts concerning grace?

Can you show me any place in scripture where grace and works. are mutually together. or where grace can be merited?

I am just asking, because that is the discussion concerning grace I am trying to discuss.. Can grace me merited?
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Yes, I read them. I can see your focus is on grace alone as a single word. However it's not clear whether you are advocating for grace, without the necessity to demonstrate that grace?

God's grace is the initiator for salvation, it has never been human effort as a means of salvation. Rather God's grace and our call to do good works as a showcase of that grace coexist and are connected. As God's grace empowers us to approach Him it also enables us to do good works or ("negative" works in keeping with your lingo) that bring glory to Him.
 
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Yes, I read them. I can see your focus is on grace alone as a single word.
You will have to forgive me, but I can not believe you read any of these posts. Actually if you read them, you would not have made such a statement. Because I just went back and reread my complete message 9which was drawn over 3 posts) and the term "grace alone" was not used once. So to say my focus is on the word GRACE ALONE, is unfounded and in fact error
However it's not clear whether you are advocating for grace, without the necessity to demonstrate that grace?
I am advocating for Grace and as I showed. it is in relation to salvation. How does grace relate to salvation.

God is the one who gives grace. not sure what I could do to demonstrate my grace. except to love others. But that happens after we are saved. as I showed in the posts (again, did you really read them?)


God's grace is the initiator for salvation,
No, it is the means of salvation. Not the innitator.

The word does nto say I have been saved by works, initiated by Grace, It says I have been saved by Grace, received through faith
it has never been human effort as a means of salvation.
Never said it was. in fact. nothing in my three posts even hinted at the idea I could be saved by human effor. I actually spoke against it )actually the words of scripture I posted did)
Rather God's grace and our call to do good works as a showcase of that grace coexist and are connected.
Please go back, reread my posts. look at the scriptures I posted. and show me how I got them wrong.
As God's grace empowers us to approach Him it also enables us to do good works or ("negative" works in keeping with your lingo) that bring glory to Him.
No. Gods grace SAVES US.

Again, You could not have read a word I said..
 
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You will have to forgive me, but I can not believe you read any of these posts. Actually if you read them, you would not have made such a statement. Because I just went back and reread my complete message 9which was drawn over 3 posts) and the term "grace alone" was not used once. So to say my focus is on the word GRACE ALONE, is unfounded and in fact error
You are forgiven for accusing me of being dishonest without requesting clarity. I actually did read them, whether I understand them as you would like me to is an entirely different matter. And by your not so gracious response I don't think this is so.

I specifically edited my post to change it to add "as a single word". To indicate that your focus is on the word "grace" as a concept. Thereafter I added the question for clarity. It was a single paragraph, when you break them up the way you did. You misinterpret the context of the question.

So let me try again, the misunderstanding could be from my side.

I read your post, it wasn't clear whether you are saying grace is void of demonstrable works? That was my assessment of the posts hence my request for clarity.

To be fair I may have read your posts in light of the fact that you have tried to distinguish between free grace, cheap grace, hyper grace and tried as far as possible to avoid the additional words to the grace you are defining. Yet these words has been penned by scholars to distinguish the various way grace has been understood.
I am advocating for Grace and as I showed. it is in relation to salvation. How does grace relate to salvation.

God is the one who gives grace. not sure what I could do to demonstrate my grace. except to love others. But that happens after we are saved. as I showed in the posts (again, did you really read them?)
I was pointing out, that we demonstrate that we are a recipient of grace, by responding to what we hear Him say we should do. The salvic work of Christ becomes a experiential reality.
No, it is the means of salvation. Not the innitator.

The word does nto say I have been saved by works, initiated by Grace, It says I have been saved by Grace, received through faith
God's grace is the initiator, meaning everything that pertains to our salvation originates with Him. Even the fact that we call out to Him for this salvation. He is always the source of the good toward us. Even the faith we have is because of Him. This is what I mean by initiator, but we as recipients have the responsibility to respond to all these good things.
Never said it was. in fact. nothing in my three posts even hinted at the idea I could be saved by human effor. I actually spoke against it )actually the words of scripture I posted did)
Good, then I understand your post correctly. What is not clear is whether you acknowledge that good works is in fact the demonstration of this grace that accompanies our faith?.
Please go back, reread my posts. look at the scriptures I posted. and show me how I got them wrong.
I've already forgiven you for your unfounded accusation so I will no longer comment on this.
No. Gods grace SAVES US.
I never indicated that God's grace does not save us.
Again, You could not have read a word I said..
Again, you are forgiven.
 
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is this not a problem though? Should we not look to the actual definition. and not what people think?

I did not think of this word (belief) but this brings another issue, the english language and the english defenition.

Belief can fall under a wide range of interpretations.

There a couple that the only to see what there mean is to have VINE'S Greek DICTIONARY and STROMGS CONCORDANCE

that has all the Greek and Hebrew words .

Here are just a few of them !!

#1 There is no Greek word for RAPTURE !!

# 2 There is no Greek for PURAGTORY in the bible !!

# 3 The Greek word EKKLESIA , does not mean CHRCH , it means ASSEMBLY !!

And if you buy these two books and Use BLUE LETTER BIBLE or BIBLE HUB which is free you will NOT get headaches

and ypu will slowly learn Greek !!

dan p
 
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There a couple that the only to see what there mean is to have VINE'S Greek DICTIONARY and STROMGS CONCORDANCE

that has all the Greek and Hebrew words .

Here are just a few of them !!

#1 There is no Greek word for RAPTURE !!
The Greek word for rapture (catching up) is harpazo (1 Th 4:17).
# 2 There is no Greek for PURAGTORY in the bible !!

# 3 The Greek word EKKLESIA , does not mean CHRCH , it means ASSEMBLY !!
The church is the assembly of God's people in both the OT (Ac 7:38) and the NT.
And if you buy these two books and Use BLUE LETTER BIBLE or BIBLE HUB which is free you will NOT get headaches

and ypu will slowly learn Greek !!
 
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There a couple that the only to see what there mean is to have VINE'S Greek DICTIONARY and STROMGS CONCORDANCE

that has all the Greek and Hebrew words .

Here are just a few of them !!

#1 There is no Greek word for RAPTURE !!

# 2 There is no Greek for PURAGTORY in the bible !!

# 3 The Greek word EKKLESIA , does not mean CHRCH , it means ASSEMBLY !!

And if you buy these two books and Use BLUE LETTER BIBLE or BIBLE HUB which is free you will NOT get headaches

and ypu will slowly learn Greek !!

dan p
Rapture comes from the Latin word Rapture, Which means to catch up.

this is in the word. but yes. we should use literal defenitions. not base words. alot of confusion would go away
 
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