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Ep 5:
Was it okay for a wife not to love her husband?
No. Paul instructed older women in Titus 2:
Strong's Greek: 5362. φίλανδρος (philandros) — 1 Occurrence
HELPS Word-studies:
Was it okay for a wife not to agape-love her husband?
No. 1J 4:
Actually, it did. Paul and Peter emphasized wives' submission to their husbands at times but did not explicitly command them to agape-love their husbands. However, as Christians, Paul and Peter assumed that wives were to agape-love their husbands without saying it. Wives prioritized being loved, while husbands prioritized being respected. In any case, wives were explicitly instructed to G5384-affectionately-love their husbands.
Paul commanded wives to submit to their husbands.22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands.
Paul commanded husbands to G25-agape-love their wives.25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
Similarly, Col 3:33 Each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
1 Peter 3:18 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.
Men were told to love sacrificially, while women were told to submit voluntarily. This was the basic balancing act of a husband-wife relationship.1 Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands.
Was it okay for a wife not to love her husband?
No. Paul instructed older women in Titus 2:
This was not G25-agape-love.4b they can train the young women to love their husbands and children.
Strong's Greek: 5362. φίλανδρος (philandros) — 1 Occurrence
HELPS Word-studies:
Wives were to G5384-affectionately-love their husbands.5362 phílandros (from 5384 /phílos, "loving friend" and 435 /anḗr, "husband, the male companion of a wife") – properly, the special affection of a woman for her life-time mate (husband), embracing him as her "calling" (stewardship) from God (used only in Tit 2:4).
Was it okay for a wife not to agape-love her husband?
No. 1J 4:
Why did the Bible not command wives to love their husbands?Beloved [G27], let us love [G25] one another, for love [G26] is from God, and whoever loves [G25] has been born of God and knows God.
Actually, it did. Paul and Peter emphasized wives' submission to their husbands at times but did not explicitly command them to agape-love their husbands. However, as Christians, Paul and Peter assumed that wives were to agape-love their husbands without saying it. Wives prioritized being loved, while husbands prioritized being respected. In any case, wives were explicitly instructed to G5384-affectionately-love their husbands.