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I miss a Christian woman

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In late 2022/early 2023 I fell in love with a young Christian woman (she was attending a Calvary chapel but didn't limit the Christian life to Sunday) from Fontana CA. Sadly, we never got to meet in real life, only online. Our ways would part eventually and I wonder why it was not meant to be. I wish not to date an non-believing woman, especially not in a sick world like this.

I do miss her tho, in fact, I do have lust problems. Is this normal? I know God wishes that I may marry a Christian woman, but in my area I have little options. Yet distance shouldn't be an issue.
 

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In late 2022/early 2023 I fell in love with a young Christian woman (she was attending a Calvary chapel but didn't limit the Christian life to Sunday) from Fontana CA. Sadly, we never got to meet in real life, only online. Our ways would part eventually and I wonder why it was not meant to be. I wish not to date an non-believing woman, especially not in a sick world like this.

I do miss her tho, in fact, I do have lust problems. Is this normal? I know God wishes that I may marry a Christian woman, but in my area I have little options. Yet distance shouldn't be an issue.
One of our sister's in Jesus Christ made a post about her boyfriend having a lust issue. I am 45 now and can tell you that the lust struggle has only subsided because of my decline in hormones. I poured my heart out to this sister on behalf of her and her boyfriend. Alas, she hasn't returned to read the post, yet.

This said, perhaps it may edify you. Just click on the link below and it will take you there.

 
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I am sure there are Christian women out there that are missing you as well. I pray you get wisdom and revelation in order to understand and overcome your weaknesses. I pray too that you get God's insight on marriage and that God will lead you fully in your preparation, quest and completion. God bless!
 
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To me, it seems that lust can interfere with me knowing a woman well. It can attract me to someone in a way that does not get us into a really good relationship.

Possibly, you should share with some more mature Christians so you can get experience with real loving.
 
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i don't like dating apps, But I have used the christian dating app Upwards to some success with meeting Christian women. Otherwise I recommend more fellowshipping or Attending Christian/Church supported Volunteer or Charity events. Soup kitchens, Communal gardening, Donations, and looking for local christian groups like a christian hiking or jogging group.
 
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