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One woman’s harrowing story of surviving the gender ideology cult

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Detransitioner. That isn’t a word that often comes up in daily conversation. To my knowledge, spellcheck and dictionaries don’t even fully recognize it yet.

So what does it mean? The word describes a person who has attempted to use surgery or hormonal intervention to change their biology because they believe, or want to believe, or have been told, that they were born in the wrong body. And that nothing will make them happy and content until they have rectified that mistake.

So that person detransitions: They try to reverse the process. They stop taking hormones, they reverse the surgeries (to the extent that that is possible), and they attempt to deal with the mental and physical consequences of such brutal interventions in the physiology and anatomy of the human body.


Not everyone makes it to that point. But my new book “Detrans: True Stories of
Escaping the Gender Ideology Cult” shares stories of those who have and who are brave enough to speak out about their experiences.

What is ‘detransitioning’?​

In March 2023 the Associated Press defined detransitioning as “stopping or reversing gender transition, which can include medical treatment or changes in appearance, or both.” Of course, the AP claims that detransitioning is rare. And it is quick to tell readers that the process of detransitioning “does not always include regret” (a laughable claim, considering the circumstances, but one pushed hard by advocacy organizations).

Any examination of mainstream or corporate media coverage of transgender issues will quickly let you in on a secret: Most media is focused on promoting a single narrative when it comes to LGBTQ and gender ideology issues, a narrative heavily informed by the reporting style guides of organizations like GLAAD and the Human Rights Campaign.


GLAAD, formerly known as the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, actively discourages reporting on “negative claims about the transgender community.” The organization also urges reporters to “avoid elevating singular voices or rare cases and concerns in equal weight to overwhelming consensus and preponderance of evidence,” noting that “doing so is inaccurate journalism and storytelling.”

Further, GLAAD offers the media a glossary of terms recommended for reporting on the issue, including the phrase “gender-affirming care.” If it is not immediately clear to you what that phrase means, you aren’t alone. It is purposefully nebulous, artfully positive in tone, successfully vague, an activist umbrella term used to obscure the grisly details of transition procedures such as hormones, puberty blockers, and irreversible surgeries, even for children.

This “gender-affirming care” language has been widely embraced by non-conservative media outlets, including outlets with massive reach, such as CNN, the Washington Post, and the Associated Press.

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Detransitioner. That isn’t a word that often comes up in daily conversation. To my knowledge, spellcheck and dictionaries don’t even fully recognize it yet.

So what does it mean? The word describes a person who has attempted to use surgery or hormonal intervention to change their biology because they believe, or want to believe, or have been told, that they were born in the wrong body. And that nothing will make them happy and content until they have rectified that mistake.

So that person detransitions: They try to reverse the process. They stop taking hormones, they reverse the surgeries (to the extent that that is possible), and they attempt to deal with the mental and physical consequences of such brutal interventions in the physiology and anatomy of the human body.


Not everyone makes it to that point. But my new book “Detrans: True Stories of
Escaping the Gender Ideology Cult” shares stories of those who have and who are brave enough to speak out about their experiences.

What is ‘detransitioning’?​

In March 2023 the Associated Press defined detransitioning as “stopping or reversing gender transition, which can include medical treatment or changes in appearance, or both.” Of course, the AP claims that detransitioning is rare. And it is quick to tell readers that the process of detransitioning “does not always include regret” (a laughable claim, considering the circumstances, but one pushed hard by advocacy organizations).

Any examination of mainstream or corporate media coverage of transgender issues will quickly let you in on a secret: Most media is focused on promoting a single narrative when it comes to LGBTQ and gender ideology issues, a narrative heavily informed by the reporting style guides of organizations like GLAAD and the Human Rights Campaign.


GLAAD, formerly known as the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, actively discourages reporting on “negative claims about the transgender community.” The organization also urges reporters to “avoid elevating singular voices or rare cases and concerns in equal weight to overwhelming consensus and preponderance of evidence,” noting that “doing so is inaccurate journalism and storytelling.”

Further, GLAAD offers the media a glossary of terms recommended for reporting on the issue, including the phrase “gender-affirming care.” If it is not immediately clear to you what that phrase means, you aren’t alone. It is purposefully nebulous, artfully positive in tone, successfully vague, an activist umbrella term used to obscure the grisly details of transition procedures such as hormones, puberty blockers, and irreversible surgeries, even for children.

This “gender-affirming care” language has been widely embraced by non-conservative media outlets, including outlets with massive reach, such as CNN, the Washington Post, and the Associated Press.

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God bless the detransitioner movement and added it to my Firefox spellcheck for counteracting the perversions of gender politics. :) A man should stay a man, a woman should stay a woman, and anyone (very small fraction of a percent) with chromosome duplicates (such as XXY or XYY), we pray for.
 
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God bless the detransitioner movement and added it to my Firefox spellcheck for counteracting the perversions of gender politics. :) A man should stay a man, a woman should stay a woman, and anyone (very small fraction of a percent) with chromosome duplicates (such as XXY or XYY), we pray for.
Amen!
 
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Guys, I identify as a US Veteran. Can I get my discount at Starbucks?*

That is how absurd identity politics is... If one is not a veteran, then, the person should not receive the discount. On the same token, as a man has a set of chromosomes that are XY, then the man can not go into a woman's bathroom and decide to be trans.

*Not a veteran here, but using this as an example to get a point across.
 
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Guys, I identify as a US Veteran. Can I get my discount at Starbucks?*

That is how absurd identity politics is... If one is not a veteran, then, the person should not receive the discount. On the same token, as a man has a set of chromosomes that are XY, then the man can not go into a woman's bathroom and decide to be trans.

*Not a veteran here, but using this as an example to get a point across.
As a person with a young niece, it’s disgusting how any man can claim to be a woman and use the women’s restroom.

NOT OK
 
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As a person with a young niece, it’s disgusting how any man can claim to be a woman and use the women’s restroom.

NOT OK
Agreed 110%. One of the many reasons I do not want to have children, cos I do not want to expose my hypothetical daughter(s) or son(s) to this world, and have to carry the burden of protecting my child from this evil doctrine.
 
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Agreed 110%. One of the many reasons I do not want to have children, cos I do not want to expose my hypothetical daughter(s) or son(s) to this world, and have to carry the burden of protecting my child from this evil doctrine.
We must pray for young children and the youth today. They need the gospel of Jesus Christ and be protected from the evils of the world.
 
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We must pray for young children and the youth today. They need the gospel of Jesus Christ and be protected from the evils of the world.
Amen to that. Made a devotional about protecting the children on May 31.

 
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Amen to that. Made a devotional about protecting the children on May 31.

Thank you
 
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