- May 24, 2018
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I am in a brand new relationship, we've only been together for two months, and I just can't seem to bring myself to fully trust him. It's gotten to the point where I feel like I'm looking for something to answer my questions. Which brings me to the main point of this post.
Is it deceitful or back-stabbing to follow one of his followers because I am suspicious?
I just can't believe he's being honest with me. I know it could be because he's
1) He is divorced and has been for ten years, has a child with his ex out of wedlock
2) he won't let me drop him in front of his apartment because he lost his key which he hasn't tried to replace yet
3) when I got sick about two weeks ago I kept trying to contact him and he kept telling me he would get back to me and never did (I had to confront him in person and an argument ensued).
4) He claims to have had female stalkers before (potentially women he took out on dates and made similar promises to who are trying to find him)
5) He tells me he likes a certain type of woman, but the accounts he follows on social media tell another story (he follows a lot of women)
6)He told me he got along well with the 2 mothers of his children, but then recently told me if he doesn't have to communicate with them he doesn't and will use a middle man.
7) And to top it all off yesterday, he didn't seem to want to sit close to me and I caught him making a face which he quickly tried to play off as he was thinking about our previous conversation topic (which was if he would want to give up his personal space if we ever got married) in which I didn't buy.
Also he talks about getting married a lot, but I'm wondering if it's just ploy he uses to keep me in his corner. Unknown to him I'm not buying in.
This is my first relationship and sorry for making such a long list, but I just wanted to list everything that has been bothering me up until this point.
Is it deceitful or back-stabbing to follow one of his followers because I am suspicious?
I just can't believe he's being honest with me. I know it could be because he's
1) He is divorced and has been for ten years, has a child with his ex out of wedlock
2) he won't let me drop him in front of his apartment because he lost his key which he hasn't tried to replace yet
3) when I got sick about two weeks ago I kept trying to contact him and he kept telling me he would get back to me and never did (I had to confront him in person and an argument ensued).
4) He claims to have had female stalkers before (potentially women he took out on dates and made similar promises to who are trying to find him)
5) He tells me he likes a certain type of woman, but the accounts he follows on social media tell another story (he follows a lot of women)
6)He told me he got along well with the 2 mothers of his children, but then recently told me if he doesn't have to communicate with them he doesn't and will use a middle man.
7) And to top it all off yesterday, he didn't seem to want to sit close to me and I caught him making a face which he quickly tried to play off as he was thinking about our previous conversation topic (which was if he would want to give up his personal space if we ever got married) in which I didn't buy.
Also he talks about getting married a lot, but I'm wondering if it's just ploy he uses to keep me in his corner. Unknown to him I'm not buying in.
This is my first relationship and sorry for making such a long list, but I just wanted to list everything that has been bothering me up until this point.
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