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I addressed this in my previous post.
Yes and I answered those objections and scenarios. Did you not read it. Has it come to a point where you not even reasoning anymore and just stubbonly refusing to accept the facts.

1st) Your examples of McDonalds managers having to obey their managers and go along with the rules is a false analogy. As mentioned unlike a McDonalds store manager Episcopal Church Bishops have authority over their diocese (or McDonalds Stores) to make changes that stand and no one can change them until they leave that position.

They are equivelent to Christs Apostles in authority which no one is higher within their own diocese. So in that sense a McDonalds store manager could change the menu and no one could do anything about it as his authority was the highest within his own store to make changes even higher then the state or national heads.

2nd) Bishop Love was justified in denying SSM as despite the Episcopal Church heads insisting that SSM should be allowed they did not change it in the Official Book of Prayer which is the offical polcy for marriage. That policy stated that marriage should only happen between a man and women. So Bishop Love was actually following the correct rules for mariage within the Episcopal Church. In other words it was a sin to allow SSM according to the Offical Book of Prayer.

3rd) Unlike a food menu or food item the marriage law changes is a religious issue. The two scenarios don't equate. People have rights relating to religious beliefs and following their conscience. They don't have rights about what food itens should be on a menu.

Most of the examples you gave in post 801 were about people's free speech. NONE of them actually involved someone being forced to perform a same sex marriage.
So where was free speech mentioned. Not one says they are about free speech.


Do you understand what a hypothetical is?
Whats that got to do with the fact that the Episcopal Church is wrong on 2 counts. 1) they are wrong within their own church as they were acting against their own official Book of Prayers that says marriage is between a man and women. 2) they are wrong even outside their church as the fact is 99% of churches agree that the Biblical truth of marriage is between a man and a women.

The Episcopal Church has become a breakaway chirch and have tried to introduce a radical change that no one agrees with. They are factually wrong on allowing SSM and Bishop LOve is actually right according to the Episcopal Church own policy on marriage and the Biblical truth. He is right that allowing SSM is a sin and has a right to follow his conscience.
 
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I agree. Our world is really screwed up and the devil has driven a deep wedge between all of our denominations. We all need to keep trying for more cohesion and better understanding between denominations and less cohesion with this world and its views. If we truly love our God we need to work our differences out peacefully and perfectly. We need God's Grace to grow together.
The best way to fool people into sinning is to disguise a lie wrapped up with a pretty bow of truth.
 
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Yes and I answered those objections and scenarios. Did you not read it. Has it come to a point where you not even reasoning anymore and just stubbonly refusing to accept the facts.

Your "facts" are nothing more than you disagreeing with me.

1st) Your examples of McDonalds managers having to obey their managers and go along with the rules is a false analogy. As mentioned unlike a McDonalds store manager Episcopal Church Bishops have authority over their diocese (or McDonalds Stores) to make changes that stand and no one can change them until they leave that position.

And funnily enough you were happy to accept my analogy in post 977.

They are equivelent to Christs Apostles in authority which no one is higher within their own diocese. So in that sense a McDonalds store manager could change the menu and no one could do anything about it as his authority was the highest within his own store to make changes even higher then the state or national heads.

If he was the highest authority, how could there be anyone who overruled him?

2nd) Bishop Love was justified in denying SSM as despite the Episcopal Church heads insisting that SSM should be allowed they did not change it in the Official Book of Prayer which is the offical polcy for marriage. That policy stated that marriage should only happen between a man and women. So Bishop Love was actually following the correct rules for mariage within the Episcopal Church. In other words it was a sin to allow SSM according to the Offical Book of Prayer.

Then you will have to take it up with them. If you disagree with their decision, you issue is with them, not me, and I am under no obligation to justify the decision made by a church I am not a part of and whose doctrine I do not follow.

3rd) Unlike a food menu or food item the marriage law changes is a religious issue. The two scenarios don't equate. People have rights relating to religious beliefs and following their conscience. They don't have rights about what food itens should be on a menu.

Like I said, you were perfectly happy to accept it before. Your just grasping at straws as your arguments fall away.

So where was free speech mentioned. Not one says they are about free speech.

My point was that NONE of them involved someone being forced to perform a same sex marriage. And they nearly ALL involved someone who faced some trouble because they used their free speech to speak against gay marriage.

But as I've said before, ee are not talking about restriction on people's freedom of speech. We are talking about your claim that churches and associated entities are being forced to perform same sex marriage against their will.


Whats that got to do with the fact that the Episcopal Church is wrong on 2 counts. 1) they are wrong within their own church as they were acting against their own official Book of Prayers that says marriage is between a man and women.

Oh, but you said that Bishop Love was the guy in charge. If the SSM thing was wrong and he's the guy in charge, why didn't he just put a stop to it?

The answer, of course, is that he ISN'T the guy in charge, he has superiors and he didn't like the new instructions they gave him.

2) they are wrong even outside their church as the fact is 99% of churches agree that the Biblical truth of marriage is between a man and a women.

What happens outside their church is irrelevant to what they decide to do within their church.

The Episcopal Church has become a breakaway chirch and have tried to introduce a radical change that no one agrees with.

Seems to me that someone in the church agrees with it, hence why it was pushed. And there are apparently LOTS of people outside the church that agree with it as well.

They are factually wrong on allowing SSM and Bishop LOve is actually right according to the Episcopal Church own policy on marriage and the Biblical truth. He is right that allowing SSM is a sin and has a right to follow his conscience.

This "fact" is a decision someone made to not let same sex couples get married. It's not a fact, it's a protocol, and it can be changed very easily. Your argument here is like Homer Simpson saying, "If there was a law, it would be against it!"
 
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It wasnt just about a doctrinal dispute though, it was also a matter of being forced to do something that was against his conscience just like for any person being forced to do something against their conscience regarding religious belief. As far as the Church heads are concerned there was no doctrinal dispute and he broke the Church policy just like a person may brake an organisations policy because of their belief.
You can spin it however you want, but it is still not a 1st Amendment issue.
 
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You have misrepresented the Bishops within the Episcopal Church as far as I understand things. The Bishops are seen as the extentions of Christs Apostles who Jesus said go out into the world and preach the Gospel. So there is no higher authority. They have the authority to make changes within their own disocese and in fact Bishop LOves changes to deny SSM in his diocese remained authoritive until he resigned which shows no one can reverse a Bishops chnages.

Bishop Loves point was that despite the Episcopal Church claiming they had made a policy change to allow SSM according to individual Bishops and priests conscience that policy church was not reflected in the Book of Prayer and therefore was not the official rule of the Episcopal Church. Therefore Bishop LOve was merely inforcing the proper stand of the Episcopal Church which was marriage between a man and a women only.

Even if the rule change was official and individuals had the choice according to their conscience Biship LOve was put in a position where he was the one who had the power to decide whether SSM could happen or not in his diocese. As he believe SSM was a sin allowing it to happen even for other priests to perform SSM would have been against his conscience. So he did the right thing in disallowing it.

This can be taken two ways. If Bishop LOve believe that the Episcopal Church was wrong and were not following the Book of Prayers which set out what Marriage was then he was doing the right thing. As mentioned above if he had authority to determine what happened in his diocese (which happened to be around 100 curches and priests) then he was also right in stopping SSM for the entire church as this was against his conscience.

Despite allowing another Bishop to make that decision it still would put Bishop Love in a situation where he was being forced to run a disocese allowing SSM which was against his conscience. He therefore could not stay in that position. Thus as far as the point about whether Biship love or the churches were being forced to go along with SSM it stands either way.
It's wonderful that you are such an expert on the internal policies and procedures of a church you don't even belong to and which is in a foreign country at that. But the issues you raise about it are not constitutional issues.
 
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You seem to be very caught up on that, despite the fact that you still posted twenty or so examples in post 801 in direct response to my request you give examples of churches etc being forced to conduct SSM against their will, and only 1 of them came close to actually addressing the issue.
As noted we are still arguing about the 1st one let alone establishing the truth as to whether the others are relevant evidence for people being forced to perform SSM. You claim they are not but we have not even begun to argue that. So this rather presumptious and dimissive of you.

Perhaps the same dismissive attitude about answering my question as to why you included 17 examples about freedom of expression in the 40 odd examples you claim I made about people being forced to perform SSM. I am caught up on this because it would reveal whether are are being deceptive or not.

We are not talking about restriction on people's freedom of speech. We are talking about your claim that churches and associated entities are being forced to perform same sex marriage against their will.
See once again the dismissive attitude. You want to control the narrative and anything else said is not counted because it doesn’t suit what your agenda.

Why are you asking me to address the bishop Love case when I addressed that particular case 44 posts EARLIER in post 814?
Because you are wrong and I address you arguement. Look here it is again. Kylie said in post 814
He wasn't the one being forced to perform the marriage though, was he?
Steves counter arguement. His diocese was being forced to perform SSM which contains over 100 churches so this is even more inline with a church being forced to perform SSM.
Kylie said Seems like the problem here was that he was saying, "I don't want to have to perform same sex weddings, and I don't want anyone else to either."
Steves counter arguement. Bishop Love did not want his diocese to have to or (be forced) to perfom same sex weddings. So he refused to go along with the Episcopal churches policy on SSM.
Kylie said It seems like it's a case of no one is saying he has to perform them,
Steves counter arguement. As stated Bishop LOve was not being forced but his churches were which is more in line with my claim. As Bishop Love was responsible for what happened in his church he was the only onne who could stop SSM happening in his churches. Bishop Love felt that SSM was a sin so to allow it in his churches would be against his conscience.
Kylie said but he isn't allowed to stop others from doing them.
Steves counter arguement. Yes he is. As mentioned the Bishop is the highest rank and they have the authority to make changes within their diocese. Therefore Bishop Love did have the authority to stop SSM happening in his churches and in fact his changes could not be undone by the Episcopal church heads until he resigned which shows how much great his authority was.

This has already been addressed and you would have read this already so to just deny these important facts shows your disregard for facts and makes me wonder if we can ever determine the truth of this matter.

No they aren't. I've addressed both cases and neither of them properly supports your claim that churches etc are being forced to perform SSM against their will.
Yet I have posted more updated facts about the examples and you have not addressed these new facts which shows you are willing to claim you are right on this matter based on limited evidence. This shows you cannot be trusted to debate things properly.

And all other arguments aside, they don't support your claim because neither of them involved them being forced to a same sex marriage.
Ah here's the give away. So you acknowledge my arguemnets but don't want to address them because perhaps because you know they have merit. So now you want to dismiss them and try a new angle. That angle is that they were not really forced because to be forced means they had to actually do the act.

Well I am sorry to say that this arguemnet doesn't work either. Being forced doesn't mean you have to actually do the act your being forced to do. The dictionary meaning of 'Force' is
coercion or compulsion, especially with the use or threat of violence.

So just being coerced and compelled to do an act is enough to be forced without actually doing the act. That is exactly what happened to these people. They were put in a position where they had no choice to go along or suffer consequences. If they went to court the charge would be that they were being forced to perform SSM and awared damages. That is exactly what has happened in some cases that were lucky enough to win like the Hitching Post example and were awarded damages.

If you disagree, please show me that Bishop Love was forced to perform a same sex marriage when he didn't want to. Please show me that a same sex marriage took place at Oceans Grove when they didn't want to.
As stated you dont have to actually perform SSM to be forced. If you are forced into a corner and have no choice to perform SSM and you choose to suffer the consequences which can be to lose your job or business then you were being forced to perform SSM. That is how the courts see it and why they paid damages.

Was the same sex marriage performed there after all that? No.
It doesnt matter they were still being forced and suffered as a consequence. If they were not being forced then why did some get compensation.

Then how was anyone in a higher position that was able to overrule him?
There was no one in a higher position that could overrule him. Bishops have the highest authority in their own Diocese. The only thing they could do was find that Bishop Love was wrong to make the change and deny SSM in his diocese. But they could not change things back until he resigned.

You'll have to speak to the people who actually overruled him, since I am not an expert on these matters and they are.
I am not an expert either but its easy to see that Bishop Love had the right to deny SSM as his own Church had not changed their own rules on marriage. The offical rules were that marriage was still between a man and women. So Bishop LOve was actually right and the church was wrong. He was doing the right thing not just by his own church but by the truth of the gospel. He should not have been put in that position and forced to make his churches perform SSM as it was a sin and against his conscience.

Why is this church required to fit into the beliefs of the other churches that they broke away from?
They are not just as Bishop Love is not required to go along with his own Churches policy on marriage.

First Amendment says the government won't pass any law against the free expression of religion. It wasn't the government taking action against Love, it was the church. So this doesn't count.
The church was changing their policy on marriage according to the governments or rather States position. The Episcopal Church only changed its policy allowing SSM in states that allowed SSM. So it was actually the government dictating terms that the church was applying.

For example if a private organisation changed its policies to reflect the States laws and then an employee was denied their right to deny SSM this is still a constitutional issue where the employee has the right to follow their conscience or belief. The same for Bishop Love despite his employer being a church. The State doesn’t always prosecute the individual. IT can often be an organisation or individual or couple that do it through a legal rep.

This seems like you are just trying to rehash your first point, a tactic you've used before when you've tried to pass off one example twice. It's not going to work.
Once again you bring up another objection to avoid dealing with the facts. So you are saying that the Bishop and the McDonald manager’s position and authority are the same and there’s no difference.

I was talking about the list you started in post 801.
It doesn’t matter there was no mention of free speech in post 801 either. Yet you brought it up and were willing to speak about the topic several times. Then you changed your mind again and said the free speech topic was irrelevant after you were the one who bought into that topic.

We are not talking about restriction on people's freedom of speech. We are talking about your claim that churches and associated entities are being forced to perform same sex marriage against their will.
Yeah stock standard answer when you have no argument or accountability. Anyway I will concede and let’s get on with debating the first topic.
 
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It's wonderful that you are such an expert on the internal policies and procedures of a church you don't even belong to and which is in a foreign country at that. But the issues you raise about it are not constitutional issues.
Yeah its easy to find out. You just do research, just like we all can find out about amazing topics that are far away and forign to us. Otherwise all we could ever know is only stuff that we were actually directly involved in and only in our direct vincinity. Luckily the world wide web opens up a world of information to us.

So if a person within a church has their rights denied they have know legal right becaus ethey belong to a church. Whats the difference between a church employee or a private business employee being sacked or forced to resign because they were not allowed to express or follow their beliefs or conscience.
 
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Yeah its easy to find out. You just do research, just like we all can find out about amazing topics that are far away and forign to us. Otherwise all we could ever know is only stuff that we were actually directly involved in and only in our direct vincinity. Luckily the world wide web opens up a world of information to us.
I must bow to your superior knowledge. After all, I am only a member of the denomination under consideration.

So if a person within a church has their rights denied they have know legal right becaus ethey belong to a church. Whats the difference between a church employee or a private business employee being sacked or forced to resign because they were not allowed to express or follow their beliefs or conscience.
Clergy are generally not covered by such aspects of labor and anti-discrimination law. Notice I am not here to take either side in Bishop Love's dispute with his superiors, only to point out that it is not a constitutional issue. For example, if Bishop love declared that he no longer subscribed to the doctrine of the Trinity, the church would be free to sack him. On the other hand, if he worked for a private employer who happened to be a Christian, sacking him for it would indeed be a constitutional issue, a violation of Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964.
 
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The church was changing their policy on marriage according to the governments or rather States position. The Episcopal Church only changed its policy allowing SSM in states that allowed SSM. So it was actually the government dictating terms that the church was applying.
How is it that the government could "dictate" such terms to the Episcopal Church, but not to other churches who didn't wish to bless SSMs and still don't?
 
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I addressed this in my previous post.
Yes and now I have given my counter arguemnet to this so lets see what happens.

Most of the examples you gave in post 801 were about people's free speech. NONE of them actually involved someone being forced to perform a same sex marriage.
Yet freed speech is only mentioned once like I said and it wasnt directly about an example. How do you explain this. In fact here are some of the examples that show they were about being forced to perform SSM which shows you are not being truthful.

For starters you have not once claimed that the Bishop Love example was about freedom of speech so that is one where your wrong. In fact it says he was resigning because he refused to allow SSM marriage.

This example states its about being forced to perform SSM and nothing about freedom of speech

Ohio minister challenges law forcing her to officiate, write for same-sex weddings
This says the same that MPs are being forced to perform SSM
Swedish P.M. Vows to Force All Priests to Perform Same-Sex Marriages Even If Their Faith Tells Them Not To
This one seems to be about being forced to perform SSM
Christian gallery forced to close for refusing to host same-sex marriage reopens as church
https://www.christiantoday.com/arti...same-sex-marriage-reopens-as-church/69398.htm
This one also seems to be about being forced to perform SSM
This Farmer Won’t Host Same-Sex Weddings at His Orchard. Now a City Has Banned Him From Its Farmers Market.
This one seems to be about forcing the church of England to perform a SSM for this gay couple. It certainly isnt about free speech
Millionaire gay fathers to sue the Church of England for not allowing them to get married in the church | Daily Mail Online

So there is 6 out of the 12 examples I posted which are about being forced to perform SSM and certainly not about free speech as you claim. The rest can be argued to be indirectly about being forced to conform to SSM but they are definitely not about free speech. So please show me how even one of them is about free speech. As far as not being about being forced to perform SSM you say they are not and I disagree. The first one about Bishop Love has not be resolved and is still being debated so what does that say about the rest.

Do you understand what a hypothetical is?
Then your hypothetical doesnt make sense because all you have done is more or less created a scenario of another Episcopal type church which of course woiuld cop the same flack. I think you were meant to say "I wonder if a mainstream church who was against SSM then wanted to perform SSM would cop the same flack". Well the Episcopal church was a mainstream church.

So any new church that decided to perfom SSM would then become a breakaway church and be regarded as an outer of the topic. But here is the point I think you are alluding to. At what point does a church accept SSM. I think some issues are based on doctrine and never change and SSM is one of them. The Bible clearly says that marriage is between a man and a woman.
 
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So any new church that decided to perfom SSM would then become a breakaway church and be regarded as an outer of the topic. But here is the point I think you are alluding to. At what point does a church accept SSM. I think some issues are based on doctrine and never change and SSM is one of them. The Bible clearly says that marriage is between a man and a woman.
Your opinion about SSM as expressed here is irrelevant to the issue. A decision taken by a church to bless SSMs does not change its status with regard to the 1st Amendment.
 
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Yeah stock standard answer when you have no argument or accountability. Anyway I will concede and let’s get on with debating the first topic.

Okay, let's

Please provide an example of a church or associated entity that was forced to perform a same sex marriage against its will, as per your claim in post 794.
 
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I must bow to your superior knowledge. After all, I am only a member of the denomination under consideration.
I never said my knowledge is superior only that a person can learn about something through research. That research must have done me good as you havn't said anything about me being wrong.

Clergy are generally not covered by such aspects of labor and anti-discrimination law. Notice I am not here to take either side in Bishop Love's dispute with his superiors, only to point out that it is not a constitutional issue. For example, if Bishop love declared that he no longer subscribed to the doctrine of the Trinity, the church would be free to sack him. On the other hand, if he worked for a private employer who happened to be a Christian, sacking him for it would indeed be a constitutional issue, a violation of Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964.
Thats a poor comparison. There were more complex issues involved in Bishop Loves case. 1st no company would sack a priest for opposing their churches doctrine. But this was more than a doctrine issue. Bishop Love was disputing that the doctrine change had not taken effect and not just being against the doctrine change for SSM. He was claiming that it had not been changed in the Book of Prayer and he was just following the rules in that book which still stated that marriage was between a man and woman.

But that was not the only issue. Yes he disagreed with his church about the doctrine change on marriage. But like I said there was also a rights issue for an employee of the Church being allowed to follow their conscience and belief. Just like a business who deny an employ the right to express their belief and conscience so it is with the church.

Are you saying that if the church racially descriminates against an employee that they are not subject to descrimination laws. So just like race descrimination has laws protecting it so does religious freedom. If an employee is denied their right to religious freedom then they should also have rights.
 
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How is it that the government could "dictate" such terms to the Episcopal Church, but not to other churches who didn't wish to bless SSMs and still don't?
It only indirectly dictates those terms. Notice how despite the Episcopal Church wanting to allow SSM in their church only applies in the States that have allowed SSM. So in that sense the churches policy on allowing SSM is subject to whether the State allows SSM. In states where SSM has not been allowed the Church has not been able to apply its new policy on SSM.

So in some ways its not really a doctrinal issue because if it was it would apply regardless of the State laws. I mean Churches believe in the doctrine of people not having sex before marriage or not getting divorced but these doctrines are not subject to State laws. They apply regardless. So in other words the Episcopal Church is allowing the State to dictate their doctrine application.
 
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