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Biblically speaking, there are 3 instances in which a Christian who was married can remarry and there be no sin involved.
1. The divorce occurred due to marital unfaithfulness.
Matthew 5:32 but I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except for the reason of unchastity, makes her commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Jesus is very clear that adultery is the only acceptable reason that a married Christian can seek a divorce. It was assumed that a divorced woman would get remarried. This passage is clear - if the divorced woman gets remarried and the reason for the divorce was NOT adultery - she is committing adultery by getting remarried. Therefore, logic follows clearly, that if the divorce was due to adultery, she would NOT be committing adultery by getting remarried.
What Jesus is teaching here is that the marriage covenant is something that cannot simply be severed for any reason. It is only sexual adultery that can sever the one flesh covenant between spouses. The reason that the woman would be committing adultery by remarrying would be because she was still married! If she was not considered married in the eyes of God, then she would not be committing adultery by remarrying.
Thus, if two Christians get a divorce for any reason other than adultery, they are actually still married in the eyes of God, and getting remarried would be causing them to commit adultery, because it is assumed they would be having sexual relations with their new spouse.
2. An unbelieving spouse initiates a divorce against a Believing spouse.
1Co 7:13-15 And a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not send her husband away. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy. Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us to peace.
There is something unique about a marriage between two Christians. It is a one-flesh covenant made between them and God, bound together by God. Paul clearly teaches in I Corinthians that in the case of an unequally yoked marriage, that if the unbelieving spouse wants to get a divorce, that not only is the believing spouse not doing anything sinful (they have no choice in the divorce anyway), but they are actually free to remarry.
The fact that they are free to remarry demonstrates the uniqueness and spiritual nature of a marriage that is between two Christians, held together by God.
3. A widow(er) may remarry.
1. The divorce occurred due to marital unfaithfulness.
Matthew 5:32 but I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except for the reason of unchastity, makes her commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Jesus is very clear that adultery is the only acceptable reason that a married Christian can seek a divorce. It was assumed that a divorced woman would get remarried. This passage is clear - if the divorced woman gets remarried and the reason for the divorce was NOT adultery - she is committing adultery by getting remarried. Therefore, logic follows clearly, that if the divorce was due to adultery, she would NOT be committing adultery by getting remarried.
What Jesus is teaching here is that the marriage covenant is something that cannot simply be severed for any reason. It is only sexual adultery that can sever the one flesh covenant between spouses. The reason that the woman would be committing adultery by remarrying would be because she was still married! If she was not considered married in the eyes of God, then she would not be committing adultery by remarrying.
Thus, if two Christians get a divorce for any reason other than adultery, they are actually still married in the eyes of God, and getting remarried would be causing them to commit adultery, because it is assumed they would be having sexual relations with their new spouse.
2. An unbelieving spouse initiates a divorce against a Believing spouse.
1Co 7:13-15 And a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he consents to live with her, she must not send her husband away. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified through her believing husband; for otherwise your children are unclean, but now they are holy. Yet if the unbelieving one leaves, let him leave; the brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us to peace.
There is something unique about a marriage between two Christians. It is a one-flesh covenant made between them and God, bound together by God. Paul clearly teaches in I Corinthians that in the case of an unequally yoked marriage, that if the unbelieving spouse wants to get a divorce, that not only is the believing spouse not doing anything sinful (they have no choice in the divorce anyway), but they are actually free to remarry.
The fact that they are free to remarry demonstrates the uniqueness and spiritual nature of a marriage that is between two Christians, held together by God.
3. A widow(er) may remarry.
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