On a personal note, Mary has been a HUGE help to me these past few years.
I want to acknowledge that the example of her life has been like a beacon of hope for me in times when I desperately needed one.
I knew the Nativity story well. But when I took a closer look, I could see how God orchestrated every step of her way in answer to her fiat. She was protected, guided, loved, encouraged, provided for, comforted, and befriended through an ordeal that could have turned ugly on a dime.
Whenever there was a problem, God provided an answer. And He never stopped.
Even at the death of Jesus, when Mary was there at the Cross with Him, God had already prepared help for her in her life as a widow.
As a result, that which was provided for her, she in turn has provided that same kind of help and reassurance for us through her intercession in heaven to both God and Jesus on our behalf. And in doing so, she has come to the recue of so many, many Christians in the example of her life, her faith, and her obedience as she relied on God and His Son, Jesus.
Without that example so many Christians would have lost their way when the going got hard or took longer than they had thought it would. But with the example of her listening ear and her intercession to Jesus for us, things changed.
Prayers were answered, a way was found where there had been none before, and hope was restored.
I know full well what Jesus has done for me, and I don't discount it at all.
But I also know that it is Mary who, time after time, has born me up when I would surely have stumbled and fallen, were it not for the free gift of her example of generous obedience that marked my pathway for me through this past time.
In thanking Mary, I also thank Jesus, who made all things possible as the Son of God.