Request for clarity on what you mean :
If your mother came to the house (or business building) you were in, and asked the crowd outside the house to ask you to come outside to be with your family,
and the word was passed in to you,
then
what would you yourself do to "treat her with high honor and respect" ?
Note that Yahushua does not treat His mother with high honor and respect in this case.
I am assuming here that you are making reference to Mark 3:20-35. Jesus had just healed a man on the Sabbath and the Pharisees were now holding counsel on how they might destroy him. He had just performed miracles of healing and of delivering people from demons, and he had just called his twelve disciples to himself. And, crowds were gathering around him so much so that he and his disciples could not even eat.
And when his family heard it, they went out to seize him, for they were saying, “He is out of his mind.” And the scribes who came down from Jerusalem were saying, “He is possessed by Beelzebul,” and “by the prince of demons he casts out the demons.”
And, so Jesus was defending his actions to them, and he strongly warned them that blasphemy against the Holy Spirit would not be forgiven them, for they were saying about Jesus that he had an "unclean spirit."
At this point, his mother and his brothers arrived to seize him, for they thought he was out of his mind. They intended to take him away from what he was called to do. And, he had a choice - go with his mother and brothers and let them remove him from his calling, or stay the course and follow his Father in Heaven in doing what he came to earth to do.
And he answered them, “Who are my mother and my brothers?” 34 And looking about at those who sat around him, he said, “Here are my mother and my brothers! 35 For whoever does the will of God, he is my brother and sister and mother.”
If you ask me to leave the ministry to which God has called me, and to stop speaking in the name of Jesus, and I tell you I must obey God rather than man, I am not showing you disrespect nor am I dishonoring you. It is just that I answer to a higher calling, and I must obey God, and I must keep speaking about Jesus and sharing his gospel. We can tell people "No" in a respectful way, and it is okay.
It is not disrespectful for me to disobey someone who is asking me to disobey God. Jesus' answer was not disrespectful. He was just letting his family know that he answered to a higher calling than theirs. And, if they wanted to be his family, they needed to follow him, and they needed to do his will. They were the ones guilty of disrespect, not Jesus.
For, he was and is God, which is what he declared by his statement about blasphemy against the Holy Spirit in reference to them saying he had an unclean spirit.
