- Jul 23, 2018
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Update, after one week
My wife has been holding me in contempt all week, she has been distant and not wanting to meet my needs or marital needs. So she started an argument yesterday and once again I was sleeping on the couch. We haven't made it one week without an argument that doesn't turn into fighting. She reminded me of her feelings of her being miserable, and in pain, and how I let her down. I mean what does she expect me to do? I am really struggling to stay in this marriage. I met with counselor last week and it was just intake questions not really getting into anything. I feel rejected by my wife, and when I tell how I feel she just counters with how she feels. She says they way she treats me is the effect of how I treated her. So the arguments end as to whos feelings matter more. I am lost of how to even respond to her, she hurt my feelings and yet when I tell her that, she says "well what about my feelings" how do you respond to something so confusing as that. I really just want to give up
My wife has been holding me in contempt all week, she has been distant and not wanting to meet my needs or marital needs. So she started an argument yesterday and once again I was sleeping on the couch. We haven't made it one week without an argument that doesn't turn into fighting. She reminded me of her feelings of her being miserable, and in pain, and how I let her down. I mean what does she expect me to do? I am really struggling to stay in this marriage. I met with counselor last week and it was just intake questions not really getting into anything. I feel rejected by my wife, and when I tell how I feel she just counters with how she feels. She says they way she treats me is the effect of how I treated her. So the arguments end as to whos feelings matter more. I am lost of how to even respond to her, she hurt my feelings and yet when I tell her that, she says "well what about my feelings" how do you respond to something so confusing as that. I really just want to give up
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