Hello all!
Yesterday I made the decision to end my one year relationship with my boyfriend. I knew before that he was a non-believer. I stayed and continued this because I loved him, but he did not love all of who I am, he did not love God as I do not the God who lives in me. He told me that he respected my religion as well as other religions. I did not force him to become a Christian, as this is the wrong thing to do as a Christian. Many times I tried to leave the relationship because I knew this would eventually not work out. Each time I left a goodbye, he would leave me such a sweet message and I would come right back and change my mind. I did not have the strength to leave. He asked me not to speak of religion again or say I would leave because that would be the final time. Fast forward two months (Christmas day), I asked my boyfriend if he would be open to coming to church with me, and he said he would. He was on vacation in Italy and visited several churches there, and he told me he would never convert to Christianity nor did he want anyone to force him. The fact he said he would NEVER convert was the straw that ended the relationship for me. I ended that relationship and he was angry with me. I knew this was the right thing to do according to the conviction of the Holy Spirit and God’s Word. He told me I was the nicest girl he ever met, and since then he has blocked me from all communication and wants nothing to do with me. I feel so bad that I am so hated, but I know this was the right thing to do. I honestly feel like a horrible person right now for causing someone who loved me hate. Did I make the right decision? I can’t help but feel so bad and upset right now. Thank you for your words and support during this time.
Morgan W.
Yesterday I made the decision to end my one year relationship with my boyfriend. I knew before that he was a non-believer. I stayed and continued this because I loved him, but he did not love all of who I am, he did not love God as I do not the God who lives in me. He told me that he respected my religion as well as other religions. I did not force him to become a Christian, as this is the wrong thing to do as a Christian. Many times I tried to leave the relationship because I knew this would eventually not work out. Each time I left a goodbye, he would leave me such a sweet message and I would come right back and change my mind. I did not have the strength to leave. He asked me not to speak of religion again or say I would leave because that would be the final time. Fast forward two months (Christmas day), I asked my boyfriend if he would be open to coming to church with me, and he said he would. He was on vacation in Italy and visited several churches there, and he told me he would never convert to Christianity nor did he want anyone to force him. The fact he said he would NEVER convert was the straw that ended the relationship for me. I ended that relationship and he was angry with me. I knew this was the right thing to do according to the conviction of the Holy Spirit and God’s Word. He told me I was the nicest girl he ever met, and since then he has blocked me from all communication and wants nothing to do with me. I feel so bad that I am so hated, but I know this was the right thing to do. I honestly feel like a horrible person right now for causing someone who loved me hate. Did I make the right decision? I can’t help but feel so bad and upset right now. Thank you for your words and support during this time.
Morgan W.
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