God's Hate, Love, and Predestination

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I've been pondering this topic for a couple weeks straight now. Although I have known of all these for months, they never really clicked. Since I believe the Bible is the infallible Word of God, I will use it to conclusively prove my point. After all, what good is our earthly logic when it is up against God's wisdom? (Obviously is serves us no good if they are opposing each other.)

It is a popular "Christian" phrase that says, "Jesus loves you." When we say this, we are using using it all inclusively to say, "God loves everyone." From studying the Bible (Isa 1:18, Acts 17:11, 2Tim 2:15 if you want scriptures on why to study the Bible), I found that this concept falls short of having a Biblical foundation. Many say, "God doesn't hate the sinner; He hates the sin," but I would like to show you scriptures that I found that prove this to be false.

There are 4 scriptures, that prove beyond a shadow of a doubt, that God does hate the sinner and the sin. I will qualify this statement later, but for now I will leave it at that. Psalms 5:5, 11:5, Malachi 1:2-3, and Romans 9:13, all speak of God's hate. We see from the verses in Malachi (quoted from in Romans) that God hated Esau, and we also see in the verses in Psalms that He hates the worker of iniquity (the lover of violence).

The verse, I use to bridge God's hate and love is (of course) John 3:16. For God so loved the world that He gave His only begoten Son, that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life. Now, you are free to disagree with me on this point, but I believe that this verse is saying God loved the world before the fall. Before the fall, God had fellowship and communion with Adam and Eve; I believe He loved it and sent Jesus to regain this fellowship. I believe this for a few reasons. 1. The verses saying God hates sin and sinners. 2. Love of the world is emnity toward God, and God is not His own enemy. 3. Love is in the past tense, but believes is in the present. 4. I believe the Bible is the inerrant Word of God. It has no contradictions, and if it did mean this current world that would contradict with the first to points.

Now we see by Matthew 15:14, John 3:16, Romans 5:8, 1 John 3:1, and 4:10, that God loves His elect. If you are to be a friend of Jesus (according to His own words), you must follow His commands. The only way for you to follow His commands is through love of His and the Spirit inpowering you to do such. So that verse would only apply to Christians. Obviously the ones in Romans and 1 John are written to Christians.

While debating an atheist a couple weeks ago, he said, "If God loves me so much I will go to heaven." When I told him about God's hate and that if he went to his grave denying God that God never loved him, but hated him, the atheist then said, "Well, what kind of God is that. I didn't ask to be born, but even before I was born I was hated by Him." Now many are called, few are chosen. This verse shows us that some do not have a chance to come to God, and some (if not most) that do have a chance don't accept His free gift. This takes us into Romans 9 again. Starting at verse 14 to basicly the end of the chapter. As with all the other verses I've quoted here, it would be good for you to go read them for yourself to get the context and prayfully consider them all. The basic things that Paul states very clearly is that God has the choice whether to harden or show mercy to anyone He chooses. We see that God makes the vessels of wrath (those which are going to hell) to show His great love for those vessels of honor on which He has chosen to show His mercy. I believe as it says in 1 Peter that we are predestined by the foreknowledge of God. Meaning God has seen everything we have done and puts us where we chose to go, but I do not believe that everyone has a choice. 1. Because Many not all are called. 2. Because Romans 9.

The picture of predestination paints a perfect picture of God's hate and love at the same time. It shows God's love because He didn't have to save anyone, but those vessels of honor will relize that it is only because God saved them that they were able to get into heaven and be with Him. They will forevermore know His love. Those vessels of wrath of whom God endures with great patience, will forevermore know and feel God's hate. If God only hated their sin, then why wouldn't He just cast away their sins as His does with His chosen? It is His hate for the sin and the sinner that is the cause of them going to hell. This will show God's elect how very much He hates sin. When we see this justice, goodness, hate, and righteousness in Him, we will then be evermore greatful for God's love, grace and mercy He has shown on us. Because we could (and should) be in that same place. So by this, we will both see and understand God's love and hate.

This is what I shared with the atheist, and what I have now shared with you. I pray that you will search the scripture to judge what I said. If you have anything to add or subtract from this feel free to post the scriptures that make you think differently with a little explaination. I will explain further if anyone has any questions on something I didn't make clear.

-Elijah (2 Tim 2:15, 3:16-17, Rev 3:19, Heb 10:31, 2 Cor 5:11)
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Elijah:

Good to see a new poster - howdy .

The word "hate" must be understood from the perspective, that God is a just God. He does not "hate" unless there is an unjust.

When he said that - "Esau I hate" , is because he sold his birth right, and did not have "faith" that God would supply his need for food.

In Hebrews 11:6 says that it is impossible to please God without faith.

God is either hot or cold, or with God , it is either the truth or a lie, or righteous or unrighteous. With God, there is no inbetween. If one is lukewarm, God spews you out of his mouth. Why ? Because God does not like those who are lukewarm, because he is a God of two of everything - not three !

Not to get off track here, but what I am saying, is that God only uses words in their opposite. Truth - lie Hot - cold Righteous - unrighteous. Love - hate, which are the words used in the book of Romans.

God is a God of all love, in that he is all light and in him is no darkness at all. God is against darkness, and evil. The person which does such things is where God's righteous judgement is upon, because he is a righteous judge.

To say that he "hates", in a literal sense , would be going against all that God is - Love.

In Romans 3:4 God tells us that every man is a liar, but he still loves us, and does not hate us.

Romans 3:7 - Paul speaking - "For if the truth of God hath more abounded through my lie unto his glory ; why yet am I also judged as a sinner? "

Romans 3:9 - "both Jews and Gentiles are all under sin"

Look how graphic Paul words (Words of God) in Romans 3:10 - 20 are !

Romans 3:21 - "But now the righteousness of God without the law is manifested , being witnessed by the law and the prophets"

Romans 3:23 - "For all have sinned , and come short of the glory of God"

If God knows this, do you truly believe that he hates in the sense that we understand this word from a literal Point Of View ? ?

I don't !

The word hate is used only figuratively , when God talks about someone else in the Word.

God is just and righteous, and he hates only in a figurative sense. Not a literal sense. Being a righteous God, he has to judge according to his righteousness. The wrath of God , mentioned in the Word , shows us God righteous judgement.

Not his anger from a literal POV !

God is a Jealous God, and he can get angry, but not in a literal sense. Only in a spiritual sense ! Which then would be figuratively. Although, I believe, that his anger in the spiritual realm is greater than one's anger in the literal realm.

Think about it ! The Lake of fire , is called the second death, which is forever, and it comes about because of God's spiritual righteousness.

God is one cool calm cucumber , at all times ! He does not use emotion in his decision making. That is because he does not have any emotions, as we, as humans know them.

God can not change who he is, because he changes not.

Love IN Christ - Hervey
 
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I'll read those verses in context and all and post back about that later, but I have one quick question.

You said that the hate was figurate, and that God does not have emotions as we have them. Why then do you believe He loves anyone? Wouldn't that also just be figurate speech?

You said "... that would go against all that God is- love." If God is all love, then why is their a hell? Obviously He is not all love. He is justice, righteousness, goodness, love, mercy, grace, et al. He is not hate, but He does hate as we see in these verses.

Also you said, "God is a jealous God, and He can get angry, but not in a literal sense." Does this mean all those times we see in the Bible it says "And the anger of the Lord burned against them that He might utterly destroy them...." I only ask because when His figurate or spiritual anger burned against them, they experienced it very much physically.

You used Romans 3:4 as follows, "In Romans 3:4 God tells us that every man is a liar, but he still loves us, and does not hate us." The verse says, "God forbid: yea, let God be true, but every man a liar; as it is written, That thou mightest be justified in thy sayings, and mightest overcome when thou art judged." When I read 3:4 in the context of 3:3 "For what if some did not believe? shall their unbelief make the faith of God without effect," I can find no reference to the love or hate of God. These verses say basicly just because people don't believe in God doesn't mean He is not true. But rather if no one believes in God, then let everyone be a liar and God be true. These verses say that God is not a God of popular opinion. He is who He is and no one can change Him.

Anyway, I'll read the rest of your verses and get back to you.

Elijah (Hos 4:6, Jude 3)
 
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Hi Elijah:

God's anger and wrath can be felt. But his anger and wrath is not a literal anger and wrath. Talking about God himself here. Man who lives in the literal realm is told to fear God. What we are to fear, is God's rightousness.

In the age of grace we live in today, there is not going to be the consequences that occured to Israel in the OT, or those who were enemies of Israel in the OT. But the wrath of God is to come during the seventh administration. Vengence is mine saith the Lord.

Just those words , sound as if God is angry. Vengence sounds like he is not loving, but judgemental. But what we need to remember, is that God's righteous judgement does not contradict his love. That means that his righteous judgement is as much love , as anything else that God is. For instance, we know that God is a consuming God, and will consume this present earth with fire and brimstone, and he will destroy this earth, and everthing in it. Does that mean that when he does this , he is not love at this paticular time ? No, of course not ! Destroying this present earth was part of God's master plan to begin with. Once everything is destroyed, he then makes all things New. There will be a New Heaven and a New Earth.

Everything God did, and will do, and everything God said , and will say in the future, "is Love".

When he said Esau I hated, but Jacob I loved. When he said he hated Esau, that statement is love ! Jacob was faithful, and Esau was not, and sold his birthright to Jacob. Selling your birthright is an unrighteous act. When God said that he hated Esau, he is saying that he hated the act, of selling his birthright.

You said that he hated the person Esau. When you bring God down to the level of man, then you reduce God to a level, that he is not.

God's Word says , that his thoughts are not our thoughts. That does not mean that we can not understand God's thoughts. We can !

Remember that we all have free will, and God reveals himself to certain people. Those people are held at a higher account because they know God, and are known of God. Israel was held at a higher account because they were a chosen people.

Christians are held at a higher account by God also, because we were chosen by him, that he might reveal himself to us, so that we can be Ambassadors for Christ, and witness to the whole world. Our witness is to bring to the world, the one true God , who loves them , and hates unrighteousness.

I John 4:20 - "If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar; for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen ?"

I John 3:3:15 - "Whosever hateth his brother is a murderer ; and ye know that no murderer hath eternal life abiding in him"

We are told by God to love one another, and if you hate your brother, you are a liar and a murderer. How can God do what he tells us not to do ? Would not that be a contradiction by God , if we say God hates people literally ?

That is why I told you , that God can hate, but that it is only in the figurative, and not in the literal. Figurative - meaning the spiritual.

For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begottne Son, that whoever believeth in him shall not perish, but have everlasting live" ------- Its a choice, and God gives us free will , and he loves us so much that he gave his only begotten Son. That does not sound like a God that hates. But it does sound like a God that gives free will. It also sounds like a God who gives free will. Also this shows us a God of righteous judgement.

This is why we are told to fear God.

Psalm 33:8 - "Let all the earth fear the Lord : let all the inhabitants of the world stand in awe of him"

Psalm 34:8 - 11 (read and save me typing time:)

Psalm 112:1 - "Praise ye the Lord. Blessed is the man that feareth the Lord, that delighteth greatly in his commandments"

Proverbs 3:7 - "Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the Lord, and depart from evil"

Proverbs 8:13 - "The fear of the Lord is to hate evil : pride, and arrogancy, and the evil way, and the froward mouth, do I hate"

Proverbs 13:5 - "a righteous man hateth lying"

Should I say ? I hate you, IN Christ, or I Love you, IN Christ - Hervey
 
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All this is very thought-provoking. Almost over my head even. One thing that stood out in my mind though:

Do you all believe that some are not even called to be God's children? Seems like Elijah posted something similar to that thought base. Do you believe that some are not even given the CHANCE to have eternal life?

I ask this, because I have always believed and even thought that it was written in the Bible, that EVERYONE would hear the Gospel and get at least one chance to accept it or reject it.

Is this true? Do you all know any Bible verses regarding this?
 
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Sorry it has taken me so long to post back. I'm in Atlanta now. It took a while to get into a good rutine so I could post again.

Claire,

Glad to see you are thinking about it at least. In answer to your first question, not everyone is called to be God's child. Matthew 22:14 says that many are called but few are chosen. So the answer to your second question as you can see is 'no'. For instance, Pharoah was a vessel of wrath according to Romans 9. God hardened Pharoahs heart many times. When Pharoah was told to let God's people go, God hardened His heart many times. He did this to let His power be known. So that God's people, all lowly slaves, would be delivered from the hands of the mightiest nation on Earth at that time. Then everyone would glorify God for His grace upon them. You can start at Ex. 4:21 and read till the end of chapter 14. You will see many times how God hardened His heart so he would have no choice but to (in the end) be destroyed by God Himself in the Red Sea with His whole army.

I know of no verse stating that everyone would hear the gospel. If there was one it would be a big hit on Bible infalliblity, because there are many that have not heard and will not hear. As in a very many, sucluded tribes in Africa and South America that no one has spoke to. You may be thinking of the verse that states the Heavens and the Earth declare the glory of the Lord, but it would be hard to get a salvation message out of the stars.

Thanks for your questions. If you have more, feel free.

Hervey,

Once again, I will start with the same question I did last time. If you believe God's hate, anger, and wrath are figurative, then why do you believe God's love is litural? You must use the same rule when you translate these.

You said, "In the age of grace we live in today, there is not going to be the consequences that occured to Israel in the OT, or those who were enemies of Israel in the OT." 1. What age of grace? We have uncurable diseases all around us. Just think about it. AIDS sprung up many years ago. It is said to have its beginning within the homosexual community. Now it has spread to many fornicators and adulturers. Cancer and many other diseases are all results of sin and God's wrath. God, in His wrath and anger, cursed the ground in the fall. Thorns, earthquakes, hurricanes, even oil reminds of God's wrath and anger. God is not sending fire balls to blow up cities anymore. God uses the vessels of dishonor which He made to be destroyed. Sept 11 could only have happened if God allowed it. It was a blow to the biggest signs of pride and wealth to the most prideful and wealthy nation on Earth.

"Vengence sounds like he is not loving, but judgemental." To this I would once again refer to my first question. Also, love and judgement can not be seperated. If you love someone, but will not judge what they do wrong as wrong and let them continue, they will fall and you were no friend to them. If you judge someone without loving them enough to correct them in meekness of spirit, then you will destroy them yourself, and you are no friend to them. Paul put it well when writing to the Philippians (1:9), "Let your love abound more and more, in all knowledge and judgement." If you have no knowledge you can not judge. Both of them and the word. You must study to word to show yourself approved as a workman of God not needing to be ashamed (2 Tim 2:15), and you must know them personally or you can not judge what they are doing.

The next many sentences you wrote once again just use this waivering rule which would have us believe that God has no emotions (as we know them) but love. If God didn't have our emotions (besides love of course), then from where did our emotions come? We are made in the likeness and image of God. God's thoughts are above our thoughts (obvoiusly). God can see everything in its eternal place. We can only see things in their temporal place, but this has no bearing on emotions so I will leave it at that.

"Remember that we all have free will...." This is a fundemental flaw. God as Romans 9 states does not give everyone a choice. Judas was predestined for destruction. If he did not betray Jesus, what would have happened? The people were praising Jesus as Messiah just a few days earlier. God's plan for him was to betray His only Son and be destroyed for the glory of God to show His love of His chosen.

"We are told by God to love one another, and if you hate your brother, you are a liar and a murderer. How can God do what he tells us not to do? Would not that be a contradiction by God, if we say God hates people literally? That is why I told you , that God can hate, but that it is only in the figurative, and not in the literal. Figurative-meaning the spiritual." Well, a few mistakes here. In my usual fashion, I will answer all your questions (rhetorical and not). One thing i believe you missed here is pretty simple. You can see it in the first word of this quote. WE. We are told. God is not; we are. This could very well be because we are not God. We have sin; He has none. We barely know a fraction of 1% of all the knowledge and wisdom in the universe, but God knows 100%. It is easy to see why we, the scum , flith, imperfect, ignorant creatures that we are, are told not to hate. There is no way for us to have justified hate. To your second question, it is very simple. There is no contradiction, because one is refering to God and the other to humans. Now that we have that understood it would be easy to change that stance, since as you said that was the reason you thought it to be figurative.

Since I have already explained John 3:16 in my very first post, which since you posted to it I'm sure you already read it, I will just post the basic idea here (again). God so LOVED the world. It is past tense. Where as "whosoever believes" is present tense. Since you have both tenses used you can't change one to the other. So you cannot say that God loves the world. You would be limited to saying God loved the world, and that has already been explained.

Elijah (--->1 Tim 1:5<---, Hosea 4:6, 2 Tim 2:15, Acts 17:11)
 
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Elijah:

Good to have you back with us.

I think you have missunderstood some of the things that I have said.

God is Spirit, and we must worship him in Spirit and in truth. There is nothing literal here whatsoever. Love - agape - is a spiritual love, not a literal love. I am not sure how you missunderstood that , from what I said before, but that does not matter. What matters in these conversations, is that we are on the same page, so that we can understand one another. Agreeing or disagreeing, well, that is another matter.

You said that God hated the sinner. And I tried to show you that he only hated the sin. Righteous judgement does not hate the person. Hate is to be understood as a figurative, not a literal.

The Lake of fire , which is called the second death, and the wrath of God, and the vengance of God , is all based unpon his righteousness. Not his hate ! Whenever God said that he hated a certain person , like Esau. He was not speaking literally about hating Esau. He hated Esau "because" he sold his birhtright. We are told by God that we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against spiritual wickedness, and against the rulers of the world. God does not wrestle against flesh and blood either. But flesh and blood get in the way of righteousness. God has a master plan, and Israel was a part of the master plan. So is the body of Christ a part of God's master plan. Anyone who gets in the way of God's master plan , is in jeopardy of his wrath, and anger and hate, which by the way, is still love, all wrapped up into one neat package. Part of the package of God, is that he is a consuming God, yet he is still love. He is a righeous God, yet he is stll love. He is a God of righteous judgement, yet he is still love. He is going to destroy this earth with fire and brimstone, yet he is still love.

Yes, many are called, but few are chosen. But that does not mean, that God leaves everyone else out of eternal life because they were not called or chosen. What kind of God , who is a God of love and all light ,who would only allow certain one's eternal life ? That then would not sound like the free will that I know God has given us.

The athiest made a choice, as does everyone else. When telling someone about how God hates. One needs to be extrememly careful as to not give the listener the wrong impression.

You seem to be claiming that Judas was predestined to fall ? This is something that I can not go along with ! There are many reasons, but the first would be, that God is no respecter of persons. That would also eliminate free will for all. And it would be seen as free will was only given to a few. That just would not make any sense whatsoever, if God indeed is righteous and a righteous judge.

Would you like to discuss Romans 9 ? Would you give your reasoning , as to why you think Romans 9 tells us that not all have free will ?

Love IN Christ - Hervey
 
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The atheist made a choice? What makes the atheist different from me? Is he smarter, or not as smart? Isn't he a sinner the same as me? The atheist is not saved because God has chosen not to save him.

NO ONE has free will. God has us all work according to His will. If that was not true, then the world would not operate according to God's plan, which cannot happen.

God sends people to Hell BECAUSE He is righteous and a righteous judge. If He chooses some for Heaven, then He is also choosing some for Hell. Actually, as we are all "born into sin", God SHOULD send ALL of us to Hell, but no, God has mercy on a few and saves them from their JUST punishment. God cannot allow sin into Heaven, but when one is cleansed with Christ's blood, we are made blameless, so yes, God is just. He allows us, being unworthy of ourselves, to enter Heaven. Not only is that merciful, but it is very SACRIFICIAL, because He sent His Son to die so that such a thing would be possible.
 
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Originally posted by filosofer
So how do you reconcile the "past tense" of God's love in John 3:16 with the present tense of God's love in Romans 5:8?

I don't know if you are interested in anyone's view but I'll respond just in case. The Greek word for "world" is not translated correctly as referring to the planet Earth. John 3:16 is referring to the world of God's elect. The point in this is that God's elect are not limited to one time or place but rather all nations. As to the "tense" of the verse, first off, understand that God lives outside of time, and, in all times. He is eternal. Secondly, God foreknew and foreordained His elect. He loved His elect before the foundations of the Earth.

Hope this helps.

God bless.
 
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