K9_Trainer
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Just because something's difficult doesn't mean it's not romantic or worth having. If you ask me, life is harder alone than with a spouse to help out.
If something is difficult, then no, it's probably not romantic lol. Romantic means that something is dominated by idealism, that it's fanciful. I see that kind of attitude all the time when it comes to marriage and starting a family. There are parts of marriage and having kids that can be romantic, sure, at least by the loving and passionate definition of the word. But not getting any sleep because the baby is crying every hour is not romantic. Fighting with your spouse because you're both stressed over finances is not romantic. Barely feeling like you know your spouse anymore because you both work opposite 12 hour shifts in order to support the family is not romantic.
Of course that doesn't mean it's not worth having. That's up to the individual to decide. But worth wasn't what I was talking about.
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