Young men also need to learn a "real man" is one who stays after he gets what he wants....
This teaching boys/ young men such responsibility is also critical in helping reduce abortions.
Recently heard a crisis pregnancy center director on the radio state that TWO-THIRDS of women entering abortion mills ARE CHRISTIANS!!!
This is a tragic thing and also points to the irresponsibility of some Christian men, and men in general, who won't rise to their duties and responsibilities...
I'd like to relate my experiences on the OP, if for no other reason than getting this thread back on track... I'm going to be explicit but try to stay away from anything obscene.
My wife was late one time (3 weeks I think) and was seriously afraid she was pregnant. We had been married a short while (less than a year) and I was doing well in my career. We have no children currently and aren't trying for any anytime soon. Tearfully, she confessed to me that she didn't want a child and yet felt that she "had to go through with it". I had already informed her that I would support her decision either way 100%. At this time, she still considered herself Christian, I was and am atheist, and she knew this about me before we were married. She wanted to know how I felt, what I wanted. I told her that if it were my choice I wouldn't have the baby, I would abort it....but I emphasized that it was ultimately her decision and I would support her decision no matter what (the expected male answer for unexpected pregnancy). She told me that was what she wanted to do but she was afraid she would go to hell (she was literally crying during this whole conversation).
I told her "let's take a look at why you feel this way". I asked her if she was scared of having an abortion because she felt it was wrong....or was it because society told her it was wrong. She stopped crying, thinking it over, and told me that she didn't think it was wrong...but she knew that "everyone" looked down on women who get abortions and according to her faith, she would go to hell for it. I told her that I did indeed consider it taking a life, but there are many times when society deems it "ok" to take a life...this is simply a topic on which society is split. She wanted to know what I thought about abortion in general...and I told her. I touched briefly on how I thought that Christianity, with its goal of spreading and indoctrination, is best served by Christians who think its wrong to abort and have as many children as possible. I told her how the use of fear and guilt, like she was feeling, were Christianity's tools in their own abortion agenda. I told her how I thought it was hypocritical of Christianity to chastise young unwed mothers for having abortions...yet when these pregnant girls do keep the child, the very same people will fight as hard as they can to reduce any government assistance or entitlements claiming that she is poor by choice and such help only encourages it.
I told her that bringing a life into this world is a serious matter, as is taking a life, and that perhaps fear of hell and guilt from the judgements of others were not really great reasons to have a child. We continued the discussion for awhile, and she had stopped crying. By the end, she decided that she would have an abortion if it came to that. Luckily for us, she was just really late and she didn't have to have an abortion at all. We're married, I have a well paying job, we used protection....and yet she still would've chosen an abortion. I can't imagine the pressure that society puts on young single women to have a child....its ridiculous. As I said before, those same people doing the pressuring to have the child almost immediately jump back and say, "Good luck, you're on your own. I shouldn't have to help with your child's healthcare/food/place to live."