How Christians can stop the gay marriage?

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Because if God appointed the secular authority that licensed the marriage, God appointed that authority to also have the ability to revoke the marriage.
So, the question remains.. if God works through the State, why christians oppose State's law allowing gays to marry if God does not mind it. As far as I see, christians go against God while opposing State's laws.
 
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Civil divorce doesn't cancel a church wedding. .
So, if civil law does not cancel church wedding, then even with the divorce papers from the State those two stay church married?


It is civil marriage the gays want, not church marriage, which is why so many of us don't understand why so many people are all bent out of shape on religious grounds.
Does that mean the church people are climbing into the protected by God territory, the ground of the State? By what authority they do such a rebellion thing? Are they not afraid the wrath of God who commands to obey the State?


No one is asking churches to recognise gay marriage, and why do you think your religious beliefs should matter as far as the civil law is concerned when it comes to people who don't share those beliefs.
My religious beliefs tell me that I have to spread them all over the Earth with no concern for other people, either they want it or not :D
 
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So, the question remains.. if God works through the State, why christians oppose State's law allowing gays to marry if God does not mind it. As far as I see, christians go against God while opposing State's laws.

Ok, now i have to chime in in defense of those against same sex couple marriages. It is part of our form of government to debate and vote. It isn't against God to do this since, according to the Bible, God put this government over us.
 
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Civil divorce doesn't cancel a church wedding. It cancels the civil wedding that happens simultaneously with most weddings. No one is saying God has to recognise anything. It is civil marriage the gays want, not church marriage, which is why so many of us don't understand why so many people are all bent out of shape on religious grounds. No one is asking churches to recognise gay marriage, and why do you think your religious beliefs should matter as far as the civil law is concerned when it comes to people who don't share those beliefs.


Well, there is that. ;)

I presumed Christians knew State marriage licenses were a civil marriage and doesn't necessitate a church marriage.

Of course there are those Christians who have said that the term, "Gay Christian", is an oxymoron.
So perhaps I should just stop presuming about what Christians know. :o:blush:
 
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So, if civil law does not cancel church wedding, then even with the divorce papers from the State those two stay church married?
The church wedding alone would not garner a couple the State and Federal rights that the civil contract wedding affords.

A couple could divorce through the State and consider themselves still married in the eyes of God and the church. Which can be said to be what sustains the scripture that decrees a person is committing adultery if they divorce and remarry while their former spouse is still living.

However, that church wedding does not then accord that couple those rights and benefits they formerly had when married by State contract. (civil marriage).


Does that mean the church people are climbing into the protected by God territory, the ground of the State? By what authority they do such a rebellion thing? Are they not afraid the wrath of God who commands to obey the State?
:) Oh, there's a hornets nest. (yes) But I didn't say that. The scriptures did.

My religious beliefs tell me that I have to spread them all over the Earth with no concern for other people, either they want it or not :D
The commission of the disciples didn't include shoving the truth of Jesus down peoples throats.

Matthew 28:16-20 Now the eleven disciples went to Galilee, to the mountain to which Jesus had directed them. 17 When they saw him, they worshiped him; but some doubted. 18 And Jesus came and said to them, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 and teaching them to obey everything that I have commanded you. And remember, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”[
 
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Of course there are those Christians who have said that the term, "Gay Christian", is an oxymoron.
So perhaps I should just stop presuming about what Christians know.
Concerning the issue..If a gay conducted a repentance and quit living with the other party that does not mean he had changed his very essence, the substance of being gay. He will always be drawn towards SS even restraining factor remains for the rest of his life, in other words his life becomes a torture, not a joy.
 
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A couple could divorce through the State and consider themselves still married in the eyes of God and the church. Which can be said to be what sustains the scripture that decrees a person is committing adultery if they divorce and remarry while their former spouse is still living.
This is confusing. What is the point of getting a divorce if they will still be considering themselves as wed?


Oh, there's a hornets nest. (yes) But I didn't say that. The scriptures did.
Well, all these writings which we, the smart ones do here, will let the others see what reasonable thinking is))


The commission of the disciples didn't include shoving the truth of Jesus down peoples throats.
That’s your point of view, goes a bit off with the Christian majority view on the issue, but as everyone is entitled to have the right to have one, I still respect it))
 
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Concerning the issue..If a gay conducted a repentance and quit living with the other party that does not mean he had changed his very essence, the substance of being gay. He will always be drawn towards SS even restraining factor remains for the rest of his life, in other words his life becomes a torture, not a joy.

Yes, I quite agree.
The tragedy then becomes one that is the responsibility of those Christians who would rather see the life of torture for the sake of what they believe is a saved soul residing in an either celibate body, or one that goes through the motions of appearing straight.

As if that could fool God as to their true nature being suppressed for what then would be appearances and security of the Christian that would prefer the image and likeness, to the truth.

When the truth in God is Joy, that makes for quite the choice.


Revelation 21:6

And he said to me, “It is done! I am the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. To the thirsty I will give from the spring of the water of life without payment.
 
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So, if civil law does not cancel church wedding, then even with the divorce papers from the State those two stay church married?

Depends on the church, but most places, yes.
Does that mean the church people are climbing into the protected by God territory, the ground of the State? By what authority they do such a rebellion thing? Are they not afraid the wrath of God who commands to obey the State?
How should I know what divorced people think?


My religious beliefs tell me that I have to spread them all over the Earth with no concern for other people, either they want it or not :D
Uhuh.
 
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Well, there is that. ;)

I presumed Christians knew State marriage licenses were a civil marriage and doesn't necessitate a church marriage.
You'd be surprised. Or maybe you wouldn't be. Either way, there are a lot of Christians who think that the SSM issue would see their church marrying gay people, and, sadly, a disapppointingly large number of Christians who know very well that SSM is a civil matter, yet happily spread disinformation about how the evil gays want to force churches to conduct homosexual marriages against their beliefs.
 
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You'd be surprised. Or maybe you wouldn't be. Either way, there are a lot of Christians who think that the SSM issue would see their church marrying gay people, and, sadly, a disapppointingly large number of Christians who know very well that SSM is a civil matter, yet happily spread disinformation about how the evil gays want to force churches to conduct homosexual marriages against their beliefs.
That is so sad, poor, poor people :doh:
 
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You'd be surprised. Or maybe you wouldn't be. Either way, there are a lot of Christians who think that the SSM issue would see their church marrying gay people, and, sadly, a disapppointingly large number of Christians who know very well that SSM is a civil matter, yet happily spread disinformation about how the evil gays want to force churches to conduct homosexual marriages against their beliefs.

Well then that willful and intentional spreading of misinformation propaganda, makes gay civil rights equality, the sex lives of people not their business, secondary to those type Christian's sin of lying, perpetrating a fraud, and sowing discord among the community of Christ, while invoking the name of God in the process.

In which case, they might what to consider how they'll answer to God for having perpetrated that which God hates most and invoking his name and authority to do so.
They might also want to pay attention during thunder storms. Crispy critter status is God's way of saying; shouldn't a done that! Bad, bad you straight reformed piece of walking charcoal. Bad,bad!

Proverbs 6:16-19



16 There are six things that the Lord hates,
seven that are an abomination to him:
17 haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
and hands that shed innocent blood,
18 a heart that devises wicked plans,
feet that make haste to run to evil,
19 a false witness who breathes out lies,
and one who sows discord among brothers.
 
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Well then that willful and intentional spreading of misinformation propaganda, makes gay civil rights equality, the sex lives of people not their business, secondary to those type Christian's sin of lying, perpetrating a fraud, and sowing discord among the community of Christ, while invoking the name of God in the process.

In which case, they might what to consider how they'll answer to God for having perpetrated that which God hates most and invoking his name and authority to do so.
They might also want to pay attention during thunder storms. Crispy critter status is God's way of saying; shouldn't a done that! Bad, bad you straight reformed piece of walking charcoal. Bad,bad!
:D, now you got angry))
 
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Not angry in the slightest. I don't take the attitudes of those described in my reply personally.

That was quirky humor at the end, to offset the visual I was getting imagining those types answering to God.
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Well then that willful and intentional spreading of misinformation propaganda, makes gay civil rights equality, the sex lives of people not their business, secondary to those type Christian's sin of lying, perpetrating a fraud, and sowing discord among the community of Christ, while invoking the name of God in the process.

In which case, they might what to consider how they'll answer to God for having perpetrated that which God hates most and invoking his name and authority to do so.
You'd think, right?
 
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Quite a lot of qualifiers there, wouldn't you say?

Is it your business if they are not happy?

Is it not a marriage if they are not healthy?

Actually if one is getting abused and one see's one getting abused it is one's duty to intervene. By intervening I mean to report the abuse (at least it is here). If I see you beating on your wife and I choose to ignore what I see, if something happens, yes I can be charged for not reporting the crime. When I say not happy or healthy I am talking about abuse!!
If someone is not happy just because then no that is not my business!

And what if we are speaking of three adults who are happy and healthy, etc.?
If they are adults and consenting, then they can do what they want. Still has no effect on my marriage. My marriage is between me, my husband and God...not the Jones or Smiths living down the street.

What if the relationship that they choose to claim is not "marriage" but parent and child? Should the state issue an adoption certificate and financial assistance to women with dependent children?

Lost me there. Where I live our laws differ. My mother was single and would claim me as spouse on her income tax when I was a teenager, which was not against the law. My husband and I are married but we both claim single when it comes to tax (more is taken off of our paychecks and we get a bigger return at the end of the year < this again is not illegal).
Financial assistance to those with dependent children are needed at times, its called social assistance(welfare, either full or partial) here.
 
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You'd be surprised. Or maybe you wouldn't be. Either way, there are a lot of Christians who think that the SSM issue would see their church marrying gay people, and, sadly, a disapppointingly large number of Christians who know very well that SSM is a civil matter, yet happily spread disinformation about how the evil gays want to force churches to conduct homosexual marriages against their beliefs.

Not necessarily civil. There are Churches here that marry SS couples. A denomination may be for the marriage of SS couples however each church in that denomination is able to decide on their own. So if a couple wants to marry the Minister would check with the congregation and if most of the congregation is for it then they are allowed to marry the couple, if not then they help out by referring the couple to someone who will marry them. Same with OS couples. A church refused to marry us 18 years ago(we belong to different churches and were common law for 3 years)...so we went and found one that would :).
 
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Lost me there. Where I live our laws differ. My mother was single and would claim me as spouse on her income tax when I was a teenager, which was not against the law. My husband and I are married but we both claim single when it comes to tax (more is taken off of our paychecks and we get a bigger return at the end of the year < this again is not illegal).

I get the second of those. The first, however, seems incorrect. But I presume that you are speaking of Canada where it could be exactly as you say.

Financial assistance to those with dependent children are needed at times, its called social assistance(welfare, either full or partial) here.

Yes, well, I was trying to illustrate a fact of life. Those people who like to say that their marital status is not in any way affected by what the government decrees concerning marriage, family, and etc. have not thought it through.
 
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