We've been married nearly 6 months, and I'd like to share thoughts with people in similar life stage. Or if you've been married for a several years, you can share your memories about how it was to be newly wedd And maybe give some advice too!
So.. some questions:
Has the beginning of your marriage been rocky, have you argued a lot, or has it been all romance and roses?
Have there been surprizes? What has been different than you imagined? (About your spose/ about your life together)
What are you expecting/hoping the future to bring?
How long did you know your spose before getting married?
An extra question: In your mind, is divorce an option?
This is just something I've been thinking about, since I read a book where the author said that even letting the idea of a divorce in your head can damage the marriage.. Like.. when the hard times come, if you let yourself think that leaving and "finding something/someone better" might be an option, you won't put your whole heart to making your marriage work.
And of course other thoughts around this topic are wellcomed too! You don't need to be bound be the questions, just tell what's on your mind
So.. some questions:
Has the beginning of your marriage been rocky, have you argued a lot, or has it been all romance and roses?
Have there been surprizes? What has been different than you imagined? (About your spose/ about your life together)
What are you expecting/hoping the future to bring?
How long did you know your spose before getting married?
An extra question: In your mind, is divorce an option?
This is just something I've been thinking about, since I read a book where the author said that even letting the idea of a divorce in your head can damage the marriage.. Like.. when the hard times come, if you let yourself think that leaving and "finding something/someone better" might be an option, you won't put your whole heart to making your marriage work.
And of course other thoughts around this topic are wellcomed too! You don't need to be bound be the questions, just tell what's on your mind