Poll: Rape and Abortion - The Catholic Viewpoint

If your child was raped and was now pregnant, would you get her an abortion?

  • Yes, I would.

  • No, I would not.


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nyj

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I'm just a soul who's intentions are good.  Oh Lord, please don't let me be misunderstood. - The Animals

 

Before I make my case final, allow me to quote the official position of the Catholic Church, taken from the Catechism of the Catholic Church.



2271 Since the first century the Church has affirmed the moral evil of every procured abortion. This teaching has not changed and remains unchangeable. Direct abortion, that is to say, abortion willed either as an end or a means, is gravely contrary to the moral law:

You shall not kill the embryo by abortion and shall not cause the newborn to perish.

God, the Lord of life, has entrusted to men the noble mission of safeguarding life, and men must carry it out in a manner worthy of themselves. Life must be protected with the utmost care from the moment of conception: abortion and infanticide are abominable crimes.



 

The Church is unswerving on it's insistence that every abortion is wrong, no matter the circumstances.  There are no "What if?" instances as it pertains to abortion, there are no "special qualifiers".  Willful abortion is a grave sin.  How grave?

 



2272 Formal cooperation in an abortion constitutes a grave offense. The Church attaches the canonical penalty of excommunication to this crime against human life. "A person who procures a completed abortion incurs excommunication latae sententiae", "by the very commission of the offense," and subject to the conditions provided by Canon Law. The Church does not thereby intend to restrict the scope of mercy. Rather, she makes clear the gravity of the crime committed, the irreparable harm done to the innocent who is put to death, as well as to the parents and the whole of society.



 

So grave that formal cooperation in an abortion is the only documented case within the Catechism that automatically warrants excommunication.  There is nothing else that a Catholic could do that the Church, within the pages of the Catechism, would say automatically results in excommunication.  Abortion is the only instance.  I think that speaks volumes as it pertains to the gravity with which the Church views abortions.

 

Now, onto some replies to comments made by people:

 

Vow:

I also gave documented information about prematurity, instead of pie-in-the-sky statements that prematurity isn't a problem any more.

 

I'm still trying to figure out what potential prematurity has to do with the obtaining of an abortion in the scenario described above.  Children are born premature all the time and recover to live healthy, fully productive, not a trace of disability, lives.  Surely you are not suggesting that it would be better to obtain an abortion for the benefit of the unborn child, who might, could, possibly but not certainly be born disabled.

 

If you are suggesting this, then my comparison to eugenics stands.  Sure, it's not eugenics per se, because eugenics goal is to rid society of "burdens", people who would "weaken the collective gene pool of society".  In the potential reasoning above, I would liken it to those frivolous "wrongful birth" lawsuits that we see, where parents of disabled children are sued because that child would have been "better off aborted".  As if death can ever be more preferable over life?  But at least in those cases (which mind you, have no merit whatsoever) those children actually are born with disabilities.  In the potential reasoning displayed above, I can only see a justification for abortion based on the possibility of a disability (without confirmation of such being the case).

 

If I am wrong, please feel free to correct my misunderstanding of your position.

 

Annabel Lee:

My 9 year old rape victim child is going to be a martyr for the Faith? She is going to pay the ultimate price??

When I spoke about martyr's for the faith, I was specifically countering the argument that an abortion is justifiable because said person obtaining the abortion was under stress and "not thinking clearly".  My example, of those willing to die for their beliefs, shows situations that are much more stressful.  What is more stressful than having a gun to your head and being told "Renounce Jesus and you get to live."?  Who would fault people under such conditions of capitulating and renouncing their savior?

 

Yet, people die for those beliefs all the time.  A clear sign that morals do not go out the window once a situation reaches critical mass.  IF ANYTHING, that is the point where natural law kicks in and our instincts lead us directly to the doorstep of the Church and Her unequivocal teachings on abortion.

Seebs:

I think the answer would probably be "that would be up to the kid".

 

Surely you are not going to place this life and death situation on the shoulders of a nine year old.  You talked about the physical toll a pregnancy would take on a nine year old.  Let's talk a moment about the emotional toll an abortion takes on an individual for their entire life.  What sort of message does it send to your child, when they are at their most impressionable, when you deem a new potential life as unworthy of that life?  How do you tell a nine year old that she was just a witness to a murder?

 

Nevermind the physical trauma that a body undergoes in an abortion as well.  Higher rates of cervical cancer, higher rates of depression, higher rates of sterility... the list goes on and on.

 

Lilylamb:

I would like to think that I would have my child carry the baby as long as possible for it to survive and then have them do a c-section ...

 

That is exactly what we all should recommend to anyone who faces this situation, and that is my "Official Position" as well.  Frankly, it can be the only position for a Catholic, for to be party to an abortion is to result in a loss of one's Catholicity.

Obviously I hope no one has to find themselves in this position, but if they do, or they have to give witness to such a situation (either theoretically or actually), if they are Catholic, they should be cognizant of the Church's position.  No abortion.  No justifications. No "what ifs?".  No qualifications. Never.

And if they're not prepared to give that answer, I think they should politely excuse themselves from the situation to avoid giving scandal to the witness of the Church they profess obedience to.

 

Anyways, those are my final comments on this situation.  I'm heartened by the 11+ people who feel the same way the Church does, it was the answer I was hoping for.  For those other 2, they have my prayers, for a change in heart.  In a rape pregnancy abortion there are two victims.  First the victim of the rape and second the victim of the murder.  Neither asked to be a victim.
 
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I would advise the kid, but in the end, her morality is between her and God. It would not be my place to dictate terms in something like this; yes, it's a matter of life or death. But not *my* life... I try to avoid making life-or-death decisions for others.

The kid, alone of all the humans alive in the world, knows what *she* can withstand, what *her* capabilities are. She knows whether or not she can take the constant reminders of rape; I don't.

In the end, I have faith in God to be merciful, and He knows how strong, or weak, we really are.
 
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It won't let me vote, given your description nyj, I would get my 9 year old an abortion so fast it would make your head spin.

Yes I am Christian, and against abortion in a big way, but this is one case that I would make an exception. I would not put my child through this, I would consider it CHILD ABUSE to expect her to carry the baby, todays abortions are safe, a 9 year old carrying and giving birth isn't.

 
 
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To NYJ:

If you already had an opinion, and a very haughty one at that, why did you even bother posting this as a POLL? A POLL implies you are looking for VIEWPOINTS.

Again, I ask: do you have children?

How old are they?

And let me know when you have a daughter nine years old. Especially if she has started menstruating at that VERY EXTREME YOUNG age.

We'll see just how haughty you are then.


I won't even sign my usual closing, either, since you have made the decision I don't mean it.


~VOW
 
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Originally posted by VOW
To NYJ:

If you already had an opinion, and a very haughty one at that, why did you even bother posting this as a POLL? A POLL implies you are looking for VIEWPOINTS. ...



~VOW

 

Vow,

I have enjoyed and respected your posts and perspecitve since reading these forums.  In the thread I started a while back, your opinions were meaningful. 

With all due respect, I think you're missing nyj's point.  You're ascribing to him an "opinion" on the matter.  It seems to me that he is just reciting catholic teaching on this issue.  He's also agreeing with that teaching.  This isn't a matter of opinion.  It is very cut and dried.  If there are other sources of teaching that we're not seeing, please point them out.

In my opinion abortion is always wrong.  period.

 

To say that there are circumstances where abortion would be acceptable subjects the morality of abortion to a relativist level.  I'm not sure I want to go there, because you can create a very slippery slope.  All moral issues and rightness and wrongness can become slippery slopes...which is a bad thing.

 

I have a daughter, and this scenario sickens me to no end.  I cannot imagine this happening to me.  

Regards,

 

Tom
 
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Originally posted by Sabbath
It won't let me vote, given your description nyj, I would get my 9 year old an abortion so fast it would make your head spin.


So fast it would make one's head spin?  Wow.  Nothing like putting alot of blood, sweat and tears into a moral dilemma.

Yes I am Christian, and against abortion in a big way, but this is one case that I would make an exception. I would not put my child through this, I would consider it CHILD ABUSE to expect her to carry the baby, todays abortions are safe, a 9 year old carrying and giving birth isn't. 

I would consider murder to be the ultimate form of child abuse.  I would think that anyone who claims Christianity  would think so... and would not take such a decision so lightly.

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Originally posted by VOW

Again, I ask: do you have children?

How old are they?

And let me know when you have a daughter nine years old. Especially if she has started menstruating at that VERY EXTREME YOUNG age.

We'll see just how haughty you are then.

 

So I suppose this is how you'd answer a priest who would give you the exact same answer as I have? Instead of justifying yourself (which I gave you plenty of time and room to do) you switch the focus onto a particular individual?  What's that all about?  For your information, my wife and, try as we might, have yet to have children.  Haughtiness has nothing to do with it, respect for all life, from the moment of conception has everything to do with it.

Once again I say:

2271 Since the first century the Church has affirmed the moral evil of every procured abortion. This teaching has not changed and remains unchangeable.

And I close with:

Proverbs 16:25 There is a way which seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death.

Obedience, obedience and obedience.  For a Catholic there can simply be no other way.  The Church doesn't make these rulings to lord over us, they make these rulings because it is the Will of God and if the Church is to be a good shepherd, it must keep the flock from straying.  To think abortion is okay in certain circumstances is straying.
 
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So fast it would make one's head spin? Wow. Nothing like putting alot of blood, sweat and tears into a moral dilemma.

Ok I admit it, probably faster than I described ;), I would not let my child go through this. PERIOD. It is CHILD ABUSE!!

I would consider murder to be the ultimate form of child abuse. I would think that anyone who claims Christianity would think so... and would not take such a decision so lightly

A horrible decision to be sure, but the fetus will be in heaven, OTOH the 9 year old will suffer for it for the rest of her life, it is sad that No one here votes on behalf of the 9 year old. :(
 
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How does the church feel about child abuse? Forcing a child of 9 years to carry a baby spawned of RAPE and give a potentially death threatening birth has got to be viewed as abuse.

Wonderful...put the crime on the Church, not the person that raped the nine year old girl. Amazing.
 
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Originally posted by Sabbath


How does the church feel about child abuse? Forcing a child of 9 years to carry a baby spawned of RAPE and give a potentially death threatening birth has got to be viewed as abuse.

 

So you recognize the product of the rape is a baby?  I'm glad.  Now how do you justify killing that baby again?

I'm pretty sure the church is against child abuse, do you disagree?

A baby created from  Rape scenario is disgusting.  The act of rape is disgusting.  There is nothing disgusting about the baby...or do you disagree?
 
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Originally posted by Sabbath

I would not let my child go through this. PERIOD.

So tell me, when would you let her go through this?  When she reached 10?  15?  20?   Or maybe when she was 90lbs?  100lbs?  120lbs?  (ie: weighed enough to have a *ahem* less "potentially deadly time" of giving birth?)

Or perhaps when it wasn't your own daughter?

BTW: Can you tell me what it's like to live with a completely subjective morality? Where you make up the rules rather than God.
 
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I have a ten year old daughter. If, by some tragedy of circumstances, she were to become pregnant, she would receive all the love, support, and medical care as humanly possible. She would carry and deliver the baby, God willing, and I'm not sure that we could even give it up afterwards. After all that pain, she would need some reward, and the unconditional love of a baby is about the greatest soul soother there is. My daughter knows what abortions are, and she is horrified by them. She loves babies and is already planning to have seven, Lord love her. She, nevermind me or her father, would never agree to an abortion.

Let's face it. Anyone who experiences rape *never* 'forgets' about it, baby or no. 'Getting rid of the evidence' won't change that. Showing the love of Christ for the child, and the child of the child, will make it bearable, and may even make her stronger.
 
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Originally posted by Sabbath


....it is sad that No one here votes on behalf of the 9 year old. :(


Not only is it sad, it is evil beyond comprehension; completely lacking love, compassion and mercy for a defenseless and innocent little girl.


At the same time came the disciples unto Jesus, saying, Who is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven? And Jesus called a little child unto him, and set him in the midst of them, And said, Verily I say unto you, Except ye be converted, and become as little children, ye shall not enter into the kingdom of heaven. Whosoever therefore shall humble himself as this little child, the same is greatest in the kingdom of heaven. And whoso shall receive one such little child in my name receiveth me. But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.
Matthew 18:1-6
 
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Originally posted by ZooMom

I have a ten year old daughter. If, by some tragedy of circumstances, she were to become pregnant, she would receive all the love, support, and medical care as humanly possible. She would carry and deliver the baby, God willing,

I invite everyone to look at ZooMom's Profile to see the typical body frame/size of a 10 year old child. Now imagine how much she has grown since she was 9 years old.

To say that some of you have lost your marbles would be a kindness. A child cannot give birth to a child. You are living in a fantasy world.
 
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Originally posted by Josh


Abortion is NOT NOT NOT OK, even in the case of rape or incest. I do not understand the line of thinking that it is OK in these cases. How would the terrible manner in which the pregnancy came about devalue the life of the unborn child?? It would NOT!

Josh,

Rape/incest is not the issue. I think we can all assume that most 9 year olds are NOT willingly engaging in sex.:rolleyes: Therefore, ALL pregnant 9 year olds are victims of rape--this is a no brainer.

The REAL issue is: Are you willing to let the 9 year old die as a result of the pregnancy?
 
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Wonderful...put the crime on the Church, not the person that raped the nine year old girl. Amazing.

I am not putting the crime on the Church, I am saying God and his mercy would allow the abortion and not condemn anyone for it. A 9 year old is a baby practically. Of course the rapist should be drawn and quartered.

Not only is it sad, it is evil beyond comprehension; completely lacking love, compassion and mercy for a defenseless and innocent little girl.

Amen Auntie, God would condone abortion in this case I am sure, it is horrible to expect a 9 year old to give birth and risk 2  childrens lives instead of 1, the fetus is a soul and will be in heaven, our life here is but a blink of an eye, the fetus goes to heaven, the 9 year old lives, and all is ALMOST right again.

ZooMom: I bet you wouldn't take that position if it was your 9 year old. Talk is cheap. Why take the chance when your 9 year old can get the abortion and live a healthy life, and the fetus goes to heaven, a win, win situation. Kind of.

Abortion is NOT NOT NOT OK, even in the case of rape or incest. I do not understand the line of thinking that it is OK in these cases. How would the terrible manner in which the pregnancy came about devalue the life of the unborn child?? It would NOT!

Josh, the line of thinking is the fetus will be in heaven, and that having a 9 year old carry a rapists baby is Abuse. You make it sound so easy, well it's not, and God would have mercy on all the souls involved, except the rapist, heck maybe even the rapist if he repents.

My daughter would not go through this abomination, she would have an abortion and be allowed to finish her childhood, I wouldn't rob my 9 year old of her childhood and I don't believe God would want a 9 year olds childhood robbed either.

Forcing the 9 year old to carry the baby could cause her to grow up and HATE, instead the abortion could allow her a semi normal life and experience God and her life unhindered by such an ugly memory such as giving birth and either killing her or maiming her.

I can't believe more people don't see it this way. :(

 
 
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