What do you guys think of Self choice single parenting?? Is it ok for a single woman to adopt or go via sperm donor... to be a Single mom.... Of course if mr right comes in to the photo.... then everything would change
Your right! My son is 12 and he has/had an abusive father that didn't want him in the first place and when he wasn't abusing him, ignored & neglectied him.TJWutch said:I think a child needs guidance from both sexes. It doesn't necessarily have to be a husband. A brother or another positive guy, who can afford the time to be constant role model in the child’s life, would work as well.
Foster children need us as much as we WANT children. I am a single father of a 13 year old boy who's been in foster care since he was 10 (he'll be 14 in September). He's been in MY care since he was 11.LALaurie said:I have been considering being a foster parent. So, I don't see anything wrong with being a single parent by choice as long as you can provide for the child like you need to.
I'm single, and social services jumped all over the chance to bring me in as a foster parent. In fact, once they'd placed my son with me, they kept calling to see if I could help with others.Andi @ Cirrutopia said:I wouldn't go with AI... that's just one step away from sex before marriage. However, I think it's fantastic that single parents want to adopt/foster children. In fact, for the children, it's sometimes even better. It is important to have role models of both sexes, say, for instance, a child was coming out of a home where her father beat her... she might be afraid of men, and being placed in a home with a single woman would be good for her. I'm very afraid that the fact that I want to stay single will prevent me from being a foster parent someday. It frustrates me so much... there are so many children needing homes, and so many parents wanting children, but... but it's hard to get those needy children to those wanting parents.
DonVA said:I'm single, and social services jumped all over the chance to bring me in as a foster parent. In fact, once they'd placed my son with me, they kept calling to see if I could help with others.
If you feel you can foster, foster. They really need us.
You do not have to be rich. Believe me. Social Services would like to see that you are able to support yourself, though. There are some subsidies available for foster children to help parents meet all of their needs.I've wondered the same thing. I would love to have a daughter. I don't think I want to get married though. Marriage stinks. Do you have to be rich to foster a child? I'll probably always be low-medium income.