Ok guys I need some advice here.
Background:
I am recently divorced, but living with my boyfriend for a year. My son is 14, was verbally abused by his father, with whom I had 3 children, including my son. His brother and sister live with their dad, within 15 miles of me. No apparent effort is made on either son or dad's part to see each other.
Now:
He attended a christian school up until last year, when I moved out. He is now in a public school and doing well, to my knowledge, except for the past several days, he's been bringing notes home from the teacher saying he's not doing his homework/schoolwork. That however is not my real issue. I suspected he was taking cash from my bag, and basically set him up. I knew exactly how much money I had and the next morning, I had one less. I had JUST given him a check to cover two weeks of school lunches.
I confronted him about taking the money by asking him if he knew what stealing was. He gave the right answer, so I asked him if he had anything he wanted to say to me. He looked me in the eye and said no. I told him that when I was his age, I always wanted my parents to ask me if I'd done something so it would make telling the truth easier. I gave him several opportunities to tell me that he took it (and YES I am certain that he took it) and he did not.
Please tell me what I should do! I don't know what to do!
Background:
I am recently divorced, but living with my boyfriend for a year. My son is 14, was verbally abused by his father, with whom I had 3 children, including my son. His brother and sister live with their dad, within 15 miles of me. No apparent effort is made on either son or dad's part to see each other.
Now:
He attended a christian school up until last year, when I moved out. He is now in a public school and doing well, to my knowledge, except for the past several days, he's been bringing notes home from the teacher saying he's not doing his homework/schoolwork. That however is not my real issue. I suspected he was taking cash from my bag, and basically set him up. I knew exactly how much money I had and the next morning, I had one less. I had JUST given him a check to cover two weeks of school lunches.
I confronted him about taking the money by asking him if he knew what stealing was. He gave the right answer, so I asked him if he had anything he wanted to say to me. He looked me in the eye and said no. I told him that when I was his age, I always wanted my parents to ask me if I'd done something so it would make telling the truth easier. I gave him several opportunities to tell me that he took it (and YES I am certain that he took it) and he did not.
Please tell me what I should do! I don't know what to do!