Sex in Christian Marriage

A Ok!!

Oh yes.

I hope it's OK. My fiance has hinted about wanting to do this for me, or at least kiss me there, and I'd love to do it for him

I agree with everyone! As long as both are comfortable with it.

Sarah

Yeah. It's fun as heck too.
They say it's better to give than receive.

Mr.Cheese said:

Yeah. It's fun as heck too.
They say it's better to give than receive.

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You sound a lot like my husband

TheListener said:

Why is a 14 year old posting in a sex related marriage question? :o:o:o

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I was wondering the same thing.... and to the person who said that Mary was that age when she had Jesus.... we live in a completely different world today.

Back to the original topic though.... I basically agree with the majority on here, that it is okay within marriage so long as both spouses consent to it.

Liger14 said:

I think you and your spouse can do anything you want within the context of marriage.

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This is VERY misleading! There are many things that are not ok even though you are married. inappropriate content for one, bringing in other partners for two. We need to be careful when we are giving advice that we do not know much about. I would say a 14 year old has no business being here, but hey I am new so maybe I am wrong. As far as Mary being 14 when Jesus was born, well she was married.

AutumnDreamer said:

This is VERY misleading! There are many things that are not ok even though you are married. inappropriate content for one, bringing in other partners for two. We need to be careful when we are giving advice that we do not know much about. I would say a 14 year old has no business being here, but hey I am new so maybe I am wrong. As far as Mary being 14 when Jesus was born, well she was married.

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I agree, that statement was a little too general, and inappropriate content and others are things that are never okay for Christians or non christians. Scripture does not forbid oral sex and as long as both partners are in agreement it is acceptable. From personal experience it was something I was not comfortable with until recently because of past abuse and my views (false. . .) about sex. The website The Marriage bed helped me a lot in both areas. www.themarriagebed.com

mrsperez said:

I'm going to post this question, then check back tomorrow morning for responses.

Is Oral Sex okay in a Christian Marriage?

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It better be...

invisiblebabe said:

I basically agree with the majority on here, that it is okay within marriage so long as both spouses consent to it.

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This is the main point - agreement.
IF You both like it - I see no differculties.
But if someone feels forced into it - then it is not good...

As far as I can tell Biblically, there is nothing prohibiting oral sex in a marriage. I think that people who vehemently argue against it are often just scared to try it.

AutumnDreamer said:

This is VERY misleading! There are many things that are not ok even though you are married. inappropriate content for one, bringing in other partners for two. We need to be careful when we are giving advice that we do not know much about. I would say a 14 year old has no business being here, but hey I am new so maybe I am wrong. As far as Mary being 14 when Jesus was born, well she was married.

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I thought I'd just offer an opinion on the topic.I didnt know I wasnt suppose to be here,I just got bored and decided to explore the forums.

I guess I wont post here again.Sorry if I bothered you.

Oh yeah,and one more thing Autumn Dreamer.

When this post was started,I thought the question was if it was ok for two people,a husband and wife,to do whatever they want in the context of their marriage.So when I said "context of marriage" i thought it meant a husband and wife,not threesomes or inappropriate contentography.

In other words,I was saying that anything goes between the two of them.And thats besides the fact that the scriptures dont forbid Oral Sex.

Ok,now I'm done.

I think it's definately okay.

Nuthin wrong with a little nibble now and then if they like it. But in all actuality, no I don't think it is a sin.