i was with a woman for 5 and one half years, she left, she is no longer in love with me, but i still love her, how do i get her out of my head and emotions? I have cried out to god to remove her from my thoughts and feelings, but she is still there.
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fisherman2 said:i was with a woman for 5 and one half years, she left, she is no longer in love with me, but i still love her, how do i get her out of my head and emotions? I have cried out to god to remove her from my thoughts and feelings, but she is still there.
Witness. said:As always, trust in God, for He is truly trustworthy. He will be there on those lonely nights, sitting at your side, letting you know how much He cares for you. He may not remove your feelings, but He will help you through them.
John
HomeChicklet said:Hey
Well I wasn't in a really long relationship. Actually we were really good friends for a while and ended up falling in love with each other. I know I am awfully young to be saying I have been in love but I frimly believe thats what it was. I have been obsessed infatuated and possesive of guys but this was so different. I am still not over this guy. I work at it every single day of my life. I have tried replacing him and its not the same. It never will be. You have to just trust God to pull you through it. God promised us he would never give us more tnan we could handle at one time so you must trust Him to help you. Otherwise satan gets just what he wants from you. He gets to steal kill and destroy your joy and passion. Those are two things you need not loose. Someone else will come along. Give it time. In fact I suggest you don't go out for a while to make sure that when you do its not on the rebound. Its because you are really looking for that special someone. Pray for God to send you that person in HIS time. Thats my best advice and it all has helped me.
Love you in Christ
HomeChicklet