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Recent content by zibbler

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    Is Virginity Overrated?

    Word! In a nutshell, you are trying to justify your sin, and you want others to agree with you so you feel justified. Sorry, that aint gonna happen. The bible even says to turn a person over to Satan so they can be done with the flesh. I'm not trying to bust your ****, but you seem to only hear...
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    Need advice and support

    I understand fully what you're going through, more than you can imagine. My hubby cheated on me multiple times while we were married. I felt the same as you at first, wanting to know all the details. Now I wish I didn't know half of what I do. As the saying goes, what you don't know won't hurt...
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    Atkins

    Word!
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    Cunfused and frustrated

    Wow! I hope you don't take this the wrong way, but he sounds like a very selfish, stingy person, and he is certainly NOT fulfilling his role as husband and head of the family. I would be livid if I was in your shoes. Sounds like conseling is definitely in order. I would start with your pastor...
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    Is Virginity Overrated?

    Hmmm... I'm not quite sure how to phrase this, but basically the bible says that when a couple get's married, the two become one flesh. How does this happen? Through sex. That's why God does not want sex outside of marriage. Here are a few verses to ponder: Mark 10 6"But at the beginning...
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    I learned something today.

    Did you feel God told you to say something? I have learned the hard way (much like you did) to pray about things before I act. I still mess this up sometimes. If God did not tell you to medle, then you shouldn't have. The best thing you could have done is pray for Gods wisdom and turn it over to...
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    Question about Atkins

    The rational behind the diet is that people consume more carbs than their body needs, which will turn to fat. There are a lot of biological things that take place which cause this to happen. I highly recommend getting the book. Better yet, get Protein Power Plan. It goes into much detail about...
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    Atkins

    Well, I'm not a nutritionist nor am I in the medical field, but I have done a lot of research for personal benefit. Humans are omnivores. We can live on a variety of foods, or a limited amount. Our bodies are very good at adapting. Low carb diets work, and for healthy people there is nothing...
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    How many kids do you have and how old are they?

    We have 3. The oldest is a girl, who will be 18 March 1st. The next is my son who is 16, and our youngest is 9. We are going through teen hell with the 2 oldest right now. I just pray God gets us through this phase. There is no comfort in knowing we will have to go through all this again in a...
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    First year of Marriage really hard

    Keep in mind that marriage is a big life change for both of you. You are no longer individuals, nor can you live like individuals. Marriage takes a hell of a lot of work... from both sides. The first few years can be really tough. You both have to come to a point where you are willing to...
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    Married Woman's feelings on orral sex

    Ultimately it boils down to how each individual feels about it. I personally feel just about anything in sex between a married couple is fine as long as you are not offending your partner, forcing them to do something that is offensive to them, or anything that is potentially harmful or...
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    for husbands and wives, headship?

    Our policy is that no decision is ever made until we discuss it together and come to an agreement. If it's a major decision, we pray for God to give us wisdom, then take it from there.
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    Married Woman's feelings on orral sex

    What specifically did you want to know?
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    I Wanna Quit

    Here's something you might want to consider. First of all, I believe God put the desire to play music in you. It's one of your gifts. Secondly, there are seasons in life, and with our walk with God. Your season with the worship team may be over, and God is telling you to move on. Perhaps he has...
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    Just wanted to say hi.

    Thanks for the welcome! ;)