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Recent content by younger-john

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    Advice for guy going out with older girl

    Unfortunately my culture is a very "parents-oriented" culture.. I studied in Australia and now live there, and now I see the downfalls of our parents telling us everything..my parents tell me about being upset, and how i've never gone against them this far, and that they might fall sick.. is it...
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    Advice for guy going out with older girl

    I'm sorry to reply to this thread and bring it up again, but I was just wondering if you guys know anywhere else I can get some help from. Thanks so much for all you replies thus far, and what you guys say does help. I finished my studies and spoke to my parents, and now I'm 25 and she's 28...
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    Advice for guy going out with older girl

    i know. that is what me and my gf believe, and know of quite a few others within our culture who have married older girls. it was earlier a social norm, which is now changing. i have decided to properly talk to my parents, and tell them that she is the one for me, and that i truly love her...
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    Advice for guy going out with older girl

    I'm 24 atm, and she's 27, and when we started I was 22 and she was 25. I come from a culture where your parents tell you what to do until you're quite old. other than that they have three reasons - 1. girls mature faster than guys 2. babies born after the mother is 30 can have defects 3. (i...
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    Advice for guy going out with older girl

    I live in the Indian sub-continent, and am an Anglican. I have met this girl in church, and we started talking,texting and chatting and we like/love each other. she is 3 years older than me. and both of us are very religious and involved in church activities. Before i met her, i had my own...