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Recent content by yaz

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    virginity

    Thank you all for all the replies. Unfortunately, our relationship never got to the point where we could talk about this and we broke up last Thursday. We had a lot of communication problems, especially about her opening up to me and feeling comfortable talking to me. It is really weird how...
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    virginity

    Thanks for everyone's feedback. Ultimately, God is the only one who can let me get over this and tell me if she is the one meant for me. I prayed since 2 weeks after dating her that she'd be the one, IF that is part of HIS will. Sometimes I pray "Please God, let this relationship workout and...
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    virginity

    Tuffguy, That's what I'm trying to do, get over it. I know it's her baggage, and I wish it didn't bother me. Part of me wishes that I would have lost my virginity b4 so that I didn't feel this way. I'm not seeking for her to repent to me or anything like that, I just want to lose these...
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    virginity

    Bliz, If I could get over by turning off this switch, I would. That's how much I like her. I wish I didn't feel this way, but unfortunately I have a hard time controlling what I feel. I never asked for her to repent to me, nor do I think any more or less of her, because, as I said, I have...
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    virginity

    Thanks for all the input everybody. I know discussing this with her is the most important thing I could do, as well as pray. The problem is that she isn't the type that like to discuss these things. Actually, she doesn't communicate too well. That was one of the reasons why we broke up for a...
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    virginity

    Hello all, I'm a first time poster. My question deals with my virginity and my girlfriend's lack of virginity. We never had a discussion about this but I know that she is not a virgin. She's had three boyfriends in the past, just the thought of her with another man sleeping with her, whether...