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Recent content by xique

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    Help my friends tricked me

    risking sounding trite-pray. cast it on the Lord-i have "episodes" because of strong chemical changes in my body and prayer is the only thing that can help-ive tried to get poeple to talk me through it but they almost never understand..
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    Deconversion

    as a believer i find it alarming and perplexing that someone would leave the faith-probably i could and should be more compassionate but the prospect of listening to another person try to convince me that my faith is in something wrong doesn't excite me much-at best such a person is going to...
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    Paul the Circumciser (Acts 16v3)

    he reproved Peter for turning up his nose at unclean food-no he wasnt underlining the older dispensation...the other poster was correct...
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    Divorcing A Sociopath

    ive had more than my share of experience with sociopaths-or maybe its just feels that way...my dad was a mean alcoholic and now im sort of a sounding board for others trying to get their footing... you really want to give way to the anger and hate the person-but the "Christian" alternative is a...
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    So alone

    it occurred to me once a lot of Gods people are the lonely and outcast..and one of my favorite proverbs "God seeks wahts been driven out"
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    What is the Differnce Between Conservative and Fundamentalist?

    there are fundies, like myself,who arent always very conservative-conservatives by definition are usually intrested in keeping somthing the same as before-im very literal as to scripture and im not 100% convinced the church is always right..
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    so, I quit drinking and this is weird

    its normal-ive quit more bad habits than you have hairs on your head-addictive behaviors are almost ritualistic-if you quit one ritual you feel lost until you adopt another..
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    I believe satan is lying to me

    its cool you had the faith to open up here-youre certainly right-its the voice of satan-even if this is the end of that relationship God isnt going to come whining like that-Satan is great at whining
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    change is bad

    this thread is really making me feel noobish..
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    do you love anyone more than you love God??

    if i were better motivated i would glory that i have noone closer-it's sort of an enforced purity-it s likely a sign im getting better that im thinking like this-id love to come through on the other side feeling this dependence and affection but i foresee a real struggle there
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    do you love anyone more than you love God??

    i walk only with great difficulty-im healing from well i dont want to get into it-i am healing though-its a lot of waiting though
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    do you love anyone more than you love God??

    i dont actually-but it isnt like it sounds-its sad because i dont have much love of any kind in my life-God has saved me from one predicament after another-its been exciting i guess-i wish life were a little quieter-im 53-i dont like the excitement anymore my self esteem is shot-i honestly dont...
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    Role of Women

    i cant see that saying a man needs to be master of his household would preclude a woman from ministry-a minister isnt a worldly leader who arbitrarily lays down rules or he/she shouldnt be-he should be enterring into a cooperative partnership with the people has counseling- in Roman times the...
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    Kathy Griffin

    is there some connection here?
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    Kathy Griffin

    i thought this thread was about kathy griffith-whom i do like-this girl above i think is jewish-and they have their misplaced resentments-no surprise there she can make me laugh sometimes i guess but that schtick was just another misfire-its didnt impress me one way or the other..