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Recent content by Xin

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    When to give vs when not to give?

    The issue is that I was in that room before, and when I was, I realized there was no sunlight, and the room is too small. My bed alone would take up more than half the room. I also was always tired because there was no sunlight, and I overslept a lot. I ended up doing really badly in school for...
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    When to give vs when not to give?

    I was at church the other day and my pastor gave a sermon related to this quote from the Bible: Matthew 7:7-11 ESV “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who...
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    Struggle With Sexual Immorality

    Hello, I am a 23 year old male that is soon to be finishing up college. I have always had a huge struggle with sexual immorality, and I desire to fix it, cope with it, or just do something because I feel so ashamed about it. I was not a Christian through most of my teenage years. It was also...
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    Empty life, spiritual suicide

    I honestly have no idea what to do with my life or where I'm going to go. I'm a university student studying computer science, which is good path, but I don't feel any passion towards it. In fact, now that I think about it, I can't feel any passion towards anything, which makes me feel really...
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    She Says She Needs Space

    My girlfriend told me she needed space the other day. As requested, I haven't been talking to her, but I am unsure what she meant by that. We are currently in a long distance relationship, and she didn't say she was breaking up with me. I know her reason for needing space was because of the...
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    Is The Zodiac a Sin in Christianity?

    Is it? I don't mean the Zodiac as in the people who look at predictions and stuff for the future. I think that is quite silly; nothing can predict the future because only God knows. What I mean is I like looking at the zodiac as a use to describe people. There are 12 signs and when you check...
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    Non-Christian Girlfriend and Temptation

    I guess I'll try to answer all the questions one go... So she is from the Singapore area, and has lived in and around that country and surrounding countries. She is twenty, almost 21. She is an international student, so she can't really separate from her parents.. I'm not sure about anything...
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    Non-Christian Girlfriend and Temptation

    I recently got a new girlfriend who is not Christian. She says that she is part Buddhist and part Christian, which is pretty much hogwash because you are either Christian or not. While I would like to draw her closer to Christ, she is not from this country, and she would get in a huge trouble...
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    Depressed for Last Few Years

    I would say I have a lot of good friends, and I'm always there for my friends. I know what to say and I know the right advice to give them when they're down. I make a point to be there for my friends, and just anyone I care about because I don't want to see them upset. People tell me I'm pretty...
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    Serious Problem: Always Getting Friendzoned

    I don't get it. This is a serious problem for me and I'm not quite sure what I'm doing that makes girls avoid me and instead go out with the jerk down the street who just wants to get into her pants. I'm an attractive guy, and I've been told this by countless girls. I've been compared to...
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    Girl Is Not Interested In a Relationship

    I don't really initiate any of the "close contact"... we'll just be randomly at a group event and she'll put her head on my shoulder or something. The other night my friend was giving us a ride home, and I fell asleep and was rolling around a lot so she put my head on her lap. If anything, I...
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    Girl Is Not Interested In a Relationship

    The problem is that she said she does want a serious relationship... but she's too afraid to get into one. :/ If you focus on reality too much then you become trapped, which is why we have to dream and have ambition to achieve anything. It's like if I just deal with the reality I have x...
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    Girl Is Not Interested In a Relationship

    I actually am... I feel so weird. I consider love to be serious and important since a young age so I've always taken it seriously and not just gone around trying to date people. I usually don't like girls. Not in like a homosexual way, but like many girls are "cute", but there are very few i...
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    Girl Is Not Interested In a Relationship

    Wow. You're totally right about the "gf/bf" social construct. I am already happy just being around her and talking with her, and I already care about her. I don't know why I feel like it has to be "official" because I guess that's just how we've been raised and I feel like it makes the...
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    Girl Is Not Interested In a Relationship

    I recently met this girl, and we kicked it off pretty well. Even though we've only known each other for about a few weeks, we hung out a lot, talk, and people think we are a couple although we aren't. The way we appear looks very couple-like, holding hands, linking arms, and we even kissed a...