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Recent content by wtrailer

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    How can we wisely deal with our hopes and feelings during a breakup?

    In all seriousness, completely detach from her and put the focus on God and yourself. Build the life that God wants for you and enjoy the experience of being single. If you end up in another relationship, or if she comes back to you and you want to try again then consider that all a bonus. Allow...
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    Restored after a moral failure...

    I personally don't believe you need to reveal it. Your example with Paul and the thorn in his flesh seems valid. Wt
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    Desires of my heart

    Sorry to hear this. Things turned out better for you though? Wt
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    Desires of my heart

    I'm 40. My calling is partially a ministry as well as a job and it's difficult to engage in that type of work when your significant other doesn't share your beliefs. It's even more difficult when I recall the way she used to be. It's hard to make sense of the change. There are a lot of...
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    Desires of my heart

    Than you GandalfTheWise for responding. I do believe that the "calling" was indeed God's will just by the nature of how it came about. There were definitely many struggles throughout the marriage. I certainly didn't do things perfectly and made many mistakes along the way. I believe much of the...
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    Desires of my heart

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    Marriage problems

    Does anyone have any testimonies of their unbelieving spouse embracing the faith? I would really love to read some. Thanks, Wt
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    Wife lost her faith

    Please pray that my wife has an encounter with Christ that makes her unable to question her faith. She hardly believes, wants nothing to do with church and other Christians and there is nothing I can do about it. God will have to intervene. Wt
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    Wife lost her faith

    Just looking for advice from others who have been or are in similar situations. A little back story - we've been married for almost 21 years, have 3 kids. For the first 10 years my wife was a pretty strong Christian although maybe a bit immature due to her age (we married at 18, 19) - raised the...
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    Marriage advice...

    So I guess the question would be how do we become friends after so many years of not being? Wt
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    Marriage advice...

    I agree with you and we kind of are choosing to stay together but staying together and being in a relationship is really two different things. The hardest part for me is remembering the past, wanting to go back with what I know now and relive it, and knowing that it can never happen. It's...
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    Marriage advice...

    I really need some advice as to whether or not I should stay in my marriage. I never, ever once considered divorce but it is now becoming something I may need to pursue for my own mental and physical health. A little back story, we've been married 20 years, married very young had kids that are...
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    Chemtrails

    Another thing to consider is that there is video of chemtrails shutting on and off. This makes no scientific sense if it were just a contrail. Sent from my SGH-T399 using Tapatalk
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    Chemtrails

    You simply have to conclude that something strange is going on. What we see in the sky is simply not condensation. Also, in the morning the chemtrails are heavy in the east and in heavy in the evening in the west. The theory of geoengineering makes the most sense to me. It seems pretty clear...
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    Chemtrails

    I have seen planes leaving chemtrails while seeing other planes, commercial airlines, leave nothing in their wake. Not even contrails. Also, if you observe the planes leaving chemtrails they always fly in strange patterns, much higher than commercial airlines. They also create grid patterns and...