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Recent content by WithoutAnInvitation

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    When u have kids, what will you name them?

    I'm naming my first son Micah Scott. My daughter will probably be Paige or Skylar. :)
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    fear of french kissing!

    lol...I don't know about French kissing at age 8...that's a little awkward. :P But I think French kissing is fun. :thumbsup: :P
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    Disagreement on number of future children

    I agree with this. :) Awhile ago, my boyfriend and I were eating dinner, and we were talking about the number of kids we want to have when we eventually get married. He was like, "My ideal vision of a family is with a mother and father (us) and a son and a daughter." And I was like, "Okay,"...
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    How long have you been with your SO?

    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months, as of a few days ago. We dated for one month (which I don't count) during late October/early November of our freshman year at college. Last summer, we started dating again in July (two days before my 19th birthday :)), and we've been dating ever...
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    What does your family think of your love interest?

    My boyfriend's parents like me... My parents are kinda wary of him, though, which can get annoying.
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    Facebook

    I think that's one thing I don't really appreciate about facebook at all -- the notes thing. I've seen people write really hurtful things about people right there online where anyone and everyone can see it. Which is sad. It's the same with xanga and livejournal and myspace, but it's annoying...
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    Does anyone know of any songs that..

    Letters from War is by Mark Shultz. :-)
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    Guys- what do you think about girls with tattoo(s)?

    I have two tattoos that are relatively small and only in black ink. One is on my right shoulder blade. It's a gothic-style kind of cross with "Elohim" in script underneath (it means "my God and my Creator :) ). The other tattoo is a sixteenth note and a dotted quarter note on my left ribcage...
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    Okay... VERY sensitive topic...

    I haven't read the article, but I'd like to say something anyway, if that would be cool. :) I do have a friend that argues that because he loved his girlfriend (now fiancee) so much, it was okay to have sex with her, because he views sex as the actual marrying, and he was eventually going to...
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    Madeline Poster Please Circulate To All Your Contacts

    Praying for this precious little one to be returned. :-)
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    Prayer request for my family

    Hi! I'm a new member on here, but I wanted to post this prayer request. My cousin Katie was murdered in March by her fiancee. She was pregnant with his child. She was a Christian; he wasn't, and he killed her because of a situation concerning drugs. Please just pray for my family --...
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    Facebook

    I go to a very small (700 students) Christian college. Sometimes it seems like a lot of us know more about our friends from facebook than from actually knowing them, which is sad. :-P More and more conversations are, "Yeah, they broke up." "Really?" "Yup. Facebook says so." lol
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    How'd your semester go?!

    My sophomore year just ended last week. I got a B in Acoustics of Music (most pointless class ever), and a B+ in Intro to Business (don't know how!). This semester was crazy. I enjoyed it, but towards the end, I began missing my freshman year more and more. It was good times.
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    Tattoos

    I have two tattoos -- one on the back of my right shoulder of a somewhat Gothic style cross with the word "Elohim" scripted underneath it. It signifies my walk with God and that He is my creator, as "Elohim" means "my God and my Creator." The other is on my left side, right where my ribcage is...
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    Christian & Non-Christian Music

    I listen to a huge assortment of different music. Some of it is instrumental, some secular, some Christian. It's an interesting topic to discuss. I wouldn't listen to any type of Christian music when I was younger because all of the Christian music my parents had was really hokey "Let's just...