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Recent content by wingsofevermore

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    Pastor's cars and living conditions

    I have been attending a wonderful church with a lovely pastor who help out a great number of people every day. But I've noticed that he and his wife both drive Mercedes. And last week the pastor's wife revealed that they live in these luxury apartments at the Americana (google it so you can see...
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    Feeling such remorse! Yuck!

    Once a harlot always a harlot. No amount of prayer or repentance can make you anything more then damaged goods. Shoulda thought harder before you opened your mouth and spread your legs.
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    Living with boyfriend of 1 year - both Christians

    Well, doesn't cost a lot of money to get married? And in the worst case scenario divorce costs quite a bit...
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    Going to a new church.

    So I've been going to a new church for a few weeks and it's alright. It's a pretty big church with a lot of people, not to mention a ton of attractive, god-fearing women This sounds pretty stupid but how do I approach and make friends? I'm pretty socially retarded so advice. Plz.
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    Katy Perry (Katy Hudson)?

    They did that because they wanted her to be a successful christian artist. They didn't think she would be singing songs about lesbianism ...
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    Saving yourself for marriage

    I'm pretty much in the same boat as the OP, but I'm thinking of abandoning the whole 'purity' thing. It still makes me uncomfortable knowing a girls had multiple partners before me. Just saying a prayer doesn't erase that fact that she's been with other guys! And I've known A LOT of christian...
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    What to do with video games?

    uh...the Bible is full of violence too Video games are fine as long as it's not an obession
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    A Guide to Dialogues with Nonbelievers

    Hitler was an atheist, do some research.
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    Why do nice guys finish last in relationships?

    I didn't say go out and sleep with a bunch of women, just learn to be confident jeez take a chill pill
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    Why do nice guys finish last in relationships?

    You should prolly read "Rules of the Game" by Neil Strauss. Learn to talk to girls and maybe you won't get walked on by the ladies : )
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    I don't wanna wait

    The main thing is that I don't wanna get married. I dont think I could ever trust anyone enough for that It's not like women are lining up to have sex with me anyway, so I dont need to worry about that sin right now
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    I don't wanna wait

    Hey thanks that's a pretty good start. I've had some rough realtionships with the ladies and I've seen messy break ups. I'm just gonna pray that God would change my attitude
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    I don't wanna wait

    I don't wanna wait to get married to have sex and I'm thinking that I don't wanna get married period. I know that's wrong and a sin, but I just don't feel I can trust anyone enought to get married. Also about sex, I'm a virgin, what if the girl I marry isn't? I know alot of christian girls...
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    unsaved friends...

    well, the only bad things he does he curse and drink, and i don't do those things. (Well, I used to curse alot but I've stopped and I don't really like the taste of beer) Anyway I pray for him that he would return to God. I'm sure his parents pray for him too
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    unsaved friends...

    I've been getting closer to God this past month, but one of my good friends that I usally hang around is not a believer (although he was raised in a christian home) Is it okay to hang out with him? I pray that he would turn back to God...