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Recent content by Whataboutme2

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    Cancer scare and dating

    Aside from all the other stuff... This alone is pretty bad right? I mean shouldn't he have done more than texted to see if I was okay?
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    Cancer scare and dating

    Even more proof that I'm an idiot? Someone hit my car today. He was texting. I told him that I was just in an accident. He asked if I was okay... I said yeah.. Sort of. Just waiting on police. Shaken up. He didn't call. He just texted. "hope you are okay". Now at 4 months? Couldn't he...
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    Cancer scare and dating

    Yes. I suppose I make too many excuses for him. I'm going to outline the problems here. He's still not finished with his divorce.. 3 years later. He has 3 kids..yes he's a great dad, but he's rarely available to me. He has an STD and doesnt want to use protection because it would...
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    Cancer scare and dating

    I offered to meet him for lunch or dinner on Sunday (at public place) and he only said "we will see".. "hope so"... But when he thought sex was involved last night, he was going to make it happen.
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    Cancer scare and dating

    So I need some insight. I think I did the right thing tonight. He said he wouldn't be able to see me for a week because of business travel and his kids, but at last minute asked If he could come to my house for a quick "makeout session" tonight. He was going to leave his kids alone 15, 13, 10...
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    Cancer scare and dating

    Well it does appear that they are close to finalizing it...,but it could still be a few months. It has been 3 years....of legal fighting. She has moved on but is still wanting money. The thing that bothers me is he has said "maybe she doesn't want the divorce". That is hard for me to hear.
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    Cancer scare and dating

    I hear what you are saying... But I just want to say I make a salary almost equal his.. And no alimony etc. I'm not out for money. I just like smart successful men. Men who make less than I do... Are often intimidated. Does that make sense?
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    Cancer scare and dating

    I can't see my therapist again for 3 weeks.. So I do appreciate the sounding board I'm receiving here. As for his money, I think it's all tied up in the divorce. He can't access his accounts because they are frozen with the divorce. But you wouldn't think 50 bucks would break him.
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    Cancer scare and dating

    I'm sure you are right. Just wonder why it's so hard for me to let go of this one. His wife left him 3 years ago and he's still not officially divorced. She filed but they've been fighting over money all this time. He's quite successful but his money is locked because of the divorce. I...
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    Cancer scare and dating

    I don't really feel like I'm being punished... I mean he's acting kind and "into me" ... I just wish I could get a sense of where he is in the relationship. Between his kids and business travel it's really hard to see each other. He hasn't introduced me to his kids yet... Which I understand...
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    Cancer scare and dating

    Well we didn't really talk about it... We went to dinner last night and he seemed to show signs that he held back because he was scared to bring it up with me before I got the good news. I didn't feel good about asking him why he didn't text or call ...because it just seemed that I'd be...
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    Cancer scare and dating

    That's exactly how I felt. I would be checking on a coworker more than he checked on me. Maybe I should just end it. The problem is I have serious feelings for him.
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    Cancer scare and dating

    I've considered telling him that I feel like we are in different places right now... And I need more out of a relationship. And asking him if he is capable of that? What advice would you give regarding what to say to him? I don't want to be needy or look like a wimp. But I can't tell where...
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    Cancer scare and dating

    I have been dating a man for 4 months now. I told him last week that I had to go back for tests for possible breast cancer. He said on the phone that he would be behind me and there for me. Well I spent the weekend with him and he didn't mention it once. I figured he just didn't want to...
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    Business trip... Suspicions

    Do I tell him? How do I tell him?