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Recent content by warghaha

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    Question to all of you espcialy christains

    Yup. Agreed with PassionFruit and Druweid.
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    Do Muslims try to sell their daughter to Muslim men they don't know?

    I used to ask about this. The concept of dowry in Islam is not the same as we used to know. Their parent doesn't get any slightest bit of the dowry (the gift from the bridegroom to the bride). So no one sell any bride here :). Furthermore, the dowry can be anything. I mean anything as long as...
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    Ask a Muslim!

    There's nothing in Quran saying it'll be 72 virgins for mathys. From my experience being a Muslim, I heard all sort of 'rewards' Muslims will get in paradise. I once talking to my Quranic teacher(the one who teach me how to read Quran with proper tone/way) and ask him about this. I asked him...
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    Fresh start :D

    Oh that :)... If you meant 'physically and mentally matured' when you said 'adult', then yes. If the spouse is not ready, there's no way the marriage will be happy ending. As for allowing them to drive and vote, this is dificult. I mean, the guardian(their wali) will certainly knew when...
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    Great things about Islam

    I like a quote from Muhammad's last sermon: "All those who listen to me shall pass on my words to others and those to others again; and may the last ones understand my words better than those who listen to me direcly." :)
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    Fresh start :D

    I replied based on my understanding of your arguments. Pardon me if I'm not addressing what you'd posted.
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    Fresh start :D

    In semitic culture, the age of marriage "usually at the outset of puberty or around the age of 13" Maybe I am. May I ask you, what's God's standard to you? What a messenger of God do is to deliver God's message. Often in Quran, God invite us to think and use our judgement. (e.g: to be...
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    Fresh start :D

    I'm sorry I didn't view all the posts in that thread because of times constraint. So I make a summary and select posts(which I'd viewed) which are interesting to this discussion. In Islam, puberty marked to the adulthood, means we're responsible to anything we do, not to our guardian anymore...
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    Fresh start :D

    I can't fully follow a thread in CF nowadays. And when I've time, usually the thread had grow to a HUGE thread full of posts(in and off topics) and been closed :D. I usually don't make thread. But the thread had been closed and a week old discussion is still relevan I guess :D. Hope I didn't...
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    what do you know about Islam?

    What about this: Nasser’s uncle, who does not want to reveal his name, is following the case now as her guardian. According to her uncle, after Muhammed Nasser, the girl's father, lost his job as a garbage truck driver in Hajjah, he became a beggar, and soon after suffered from mental...
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    what do you know about Islam?

    Ok. Here's my quick reply. The basic is from Sura 4:59 O you who have attained to faith! Pay heed unto God, and pay heed unto the Apostle and unto those from among you who have been entrusted with authority; and if you are at variance over any matter, refer it unto God and the Apostle, if you...
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    Prayer request

    you're on my prayer. God bless. :)
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    what do you know about Islam?

    I can't quite understand here. This is also debatable. But it's not for this topic. The thing is, we're obliged to folllow constitutional law. Hmm...this is not on topic.
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    what do you know about Islam?

    Ah! It's so good of you to inform me that. But I'm not buying it. It's cheap and I'm not buying it. You quote some hadiths and give 'good' explanation to that. But it's cheap. Trust me. :)
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    what do you know about Islam?

    Yup, and look where I stated "Ah! I know this is lame answer." :D That's not my real point, but my points are located below my lame answers. Well, it's allowed because there's no Quranic verses that disallow it. But the top priority must go first. Nope. There's no law of marrying girls when they...