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Recent content by vlinder

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    What is your favorite incense?

    To Life Immortal I like frankincense and myrrh, gardenia, wisteria and jasmine. Peace and Long Life ~*~ Vlinder/Balafenn ~*~
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    Prayer for Disability Hearing

    To Life Immortal hello I would like to have prayer for a disability hearing that I will be going to on Monday 24 January at 10:00 in Philadelphia. I am appealing my rejection of benefits. We are having a hard time with this because the psydoc quit the clinic where I was going to and the clinic...
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    Trouble with icons and such

    To Life Immortal No I didn't have any problems with venerating icons. As an ex-Asatruar and ex-Kemetic, graphic representations of deity didn't bother me. I already had an altar in my house with had images of the deities I honoured along with pictures of my family who have died. I'm in...
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    I Feel Alone

    To Life Immortal Bams. I am sorry about what is happening with you. Is there anyone helping you with an appeal or something? Do you have any kind of support? I apologize for the wrong choice of words; I was upset at the time. I should not have said I was in prison. It is just sometimes...
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    hey Ive decided to kill myself

    To Life Immortal This is not funny. I am struggling right now with suicidal thoughts. I have been isolated from people since childhood. My family is angry with me for things in my past and mistakes I've made. They see me as I was 20 years ago. I am bipolar and multiple. I try to fight...
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    I Feel Alone

    To Life Immortal I don't feel well. Today is so lonely, I feel like I would be better off dead. I hear about Jesus dying for people and It makes me feel worse. I have trouble believing it. Death doesn't prove love and I don't understand. My family is still angry with me, still isolates me...
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    AIM Chat!

    To Life Immortal I got Trillian yesterday and I'm setting it up now. My Yahoo id is Balafenn2a. I will try to get an AIM and MSN id later. Peace and Long Life ~*~ Vlinder/Balafenn ~*~
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    Ethnicity, Tradition and tradition...a metaphor

    To Life Immortal oooooooo what a yummy post! Chicken and dumplings! Don't forget the red beans and tomato rice; Southern fried chicken and iced tea! Sweet potato or pecan pie for dessert. :D I agree; it's high time for an American Orthodox church. Peace and Long Life ~*~...
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    St. Andrei Rublev Photo Album of TAW Members

    To Life Immortal Here are two pictures of me: Peace and Long Life ~*~ Vlinder/Balafenn ~*~
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    anyone from Philly

    To Life Immortal Hello I live in Haddington section near the 56th and Market train station. I go to St George's Orthodox church in Upper Darby. Peace and Long Life ~*~ Vlinder/Balafenn ~*~
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    I'm Baaaaaack!

    To Life Immortal Hello! Just wanted all to know that I'm ok and that I'm back online. Give me a day to catchup and I'll post some new things. Glad to be back. Christ is in Our Midst; He is and ever shall be. ~*~ Vlinder/Balafenn ~*~
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    Foods for Lactating Mother Cat

    To Life Immortal Luci seems to want to eat a lot and I was wondering just how much should a lactating mother cat eat. I gave her kitten chow during her pregnancy and the kittens are healthy and fluffy. I give a can of 9 Lives at night and she has water. Sometimes I give her turkey and she...
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    Luci's Kittens Are Doing Great :)

    To Life Immortal :D:D:D Thanks for the great picture captions. They made my day :) Peace and Long Life ~*~ Vlinder/Balafenn ~*~
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    Pins and Needles and Diabetes

    To Life Immortal Last week I had to go to hospital because I was feeling dizzy and had these shock like pins and needles things. My glucose was 129 and I think I may have diabetes. Is this nerve sensation a symptom of diabetes? What are other symptoms of this scary disease? Thanks in...
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    XML lessons and tutorials

    To Life Immortal I just started learning XML because I want to store data in an orderly way. I want to know if anyone here knows XML. I would like some helpful hints that you can share with a newbie like me. I know XHTML, CSS and I do graphic art. I think XML is the next step in my web...