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Recent content by VioletLady

  1. VioletLady

    Tell an outrageous lie about the person who posted last!

    I'm so sorry to have to tell you this - but - warrior4him007 actually EATS all the CF pets in her care!!
  2. VioletLady

    Urgent - Please pray for Jenna

    Praying for you sweetie xxxxx Sorry I haven't been online much, my little one and I are both sick. Big hugs xxxxx
  3. VioletLady

    A Letter to Self

    This is a wonderful thread, Tommy, bless you!! xxxxxxx
  4. VioletLady

    Just Bless (2)

    bless you!! xxx
  5. VioletLady

    Hating Physical Contact

    Hey sweetie xxxx I agree with Saray, and for myself, I only ever feel comfortable with my kids hugging me, and even then, my daughter. She is only seven. My son is a teenager now and I am sad to say I find that a little more difficult, gentle giant though he is...how awful is that?
  6. VioletLady

    ZYX Game (6)

    Bless you!!
  7. VioletLady

    New Girl

    Glad to see you made it!! Welcome to CF my friend. xxxxxx
  8. VioletLady

    Popping Joints

    Hi there Angeliz, and welcome to CF!! :hug: My name is Rachel and I am one of the Recovery mods. None of us are health professionals, so it would be a great idea to get your joints checked out by a doctor. From a complementary point of view, have you tried a change of diet, lots of fresh...
  9. VioletLady

    100 blessings for the first 50 posters!

    Merrt Christmas to all of you!!! :hug: :thumbsup: :hug:
  10. VioletLady

    Back again.

    Hi there Antiscamp!! My name is Rachel, I am a Recovery Mod here at foru.ms! Just wanting to send you a big hug...well done you...and keep up the good work! xxxxx
  11. VioletLady

    I need to talk to somebody...PLEASE

    Hi there Wisdom's Child. *hugs* I am Rachel, a survivor of domestic violence. I am female, but it makes no difference whether the perpetrator is male or female...domestic violence is WRONG. I moved 300 miles away from my abusive ex husband (with my kids). I have been through what you are...
  12. VioletLady

    So hard...yet not sure

    Hello sweetheart. How are you today? :hug: Do you know, I wrote to really long post to you this morning, and what do you know - we had a power cut :mad: :P Never mind. I just wanted to send you a great big hug, say congratulations for your news! :clap: and...honey...please try not to...
  13. VioletLady

    She was supposed to be born 12/22/07

    Hi there sweetie :hug: bless you, have have been through so much, haven't you? :( I lost a baby when I was 21 and although i have two wonderful, healthy children I will never forget the little one I lost. He/she would have been 14 now. Why don't you light a candle for baby on her due date...
  14. VioletLady

    Great Forgotten Albums of our time...

    oooh yes, and this is a bit obscure, but 'The Frenz Experiment' by The Fall (1987). Would LOVE to discuss...
  15. VioletLady

    Great Forgotten Albums of our time...

    Sure Thing!!