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Recent content by vinc

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    The Christian Enjoyment of Sex

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    Is Smoking a Sin?

    Smoking is not a sin and let us not add another of our own assumption of sin to the already-existing list of sins. Can the polluted air that we breathe in major cities of the world which brings us ill-health be termed as a sin? No. In the same way, even smoking cannot be termed as a sin...
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    Why am I so unhappy?

    I appreciate all the replies made so far. It is natural and normal for a christian to undergo in his/her life. I have also gone through such feelings which you have described now and then over the years from the time i had been born-again 12 years ago. What one needs during these times is...
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    Struggle w/Sex- Need Advice Please!

    You don't need to struggle with so much guilt. I think you have not sinned because it was mutually agreed. Moreover, both of you are going to get married too. This is my honest and personal opinion.
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    Sexually abused

    Most of us have been sexually-abused or have sexually-seduced during our childhood. Your masturbation and porn orientation is certainly not due to the sexual abuse. Masturbation and Porn orientation is common during the Teen years which may continue, increase or reduce or stop with passing...
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    how do i stop being bisexual?

    I wholeheartedly agree with Robbie's and Johnnz's reply. Most people have bisexual feelings (at some point(s) in life) and may not be bold or honest enough to acknowledge. I myself find some people of the same-sex attractive sometimes, although most of the time i find the opposite-sex...
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    The Shocking Menace Of Satellite Surveillance

    THE SHOCKING MENACE OF SATELLITE SURVEILLANCE By John Fleming Unknown to most of the world, satellites can perform astonishing and often menacing feats. This should come as no surprise when one reflects on the massive effort poured into satellite technology since the Soviet satellite Sputnik...
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    Please Help

    I agree with and appreciate all the above replies. is it bad that my girlfriend (who i intend to marry one day) is not christian? It is not bad to have a grilfriend who is not a christian. In fact it shows that we have the Love of Christ in us just like Christ loved us and died for us even...
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    sex question...*blush*

    TwistedSketch : There is no point in making further "laws" which can only make other sins to abound. Christendom (and the World) is already badly-affected with sins of Hypocrisy, Self-Righteousness, Hatred, Envy and Judgementalism. Most of us know that our flesh is weak although our spirit is...
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    Question: How do you know God is talking to you?

    I would like to further add that we are in an age where Advanced Technology (or those who have possession or control of advanced technology) can very easily play the role of God for masses. I suggest watching of the movie "Control Factor" with regard to Mind Control or Mass Behaviour...
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    How We Got Our Bible

    The second reason for the differences among the versions is an offshoot to the above fact. Different scholars have different theories as to how to ascertain the original reading of a passage when they encounter a discrepancy among the manuscripts. There are two main theories for determining...
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    How We Got Our Bible

    How We Get Our Bible by Jason Dulle ( JasonDulle@charter.net ) There is a movement today that has been termed the KJV Only movement. Their main tenant of belief is that the KJV is the inspired, inerrant English translation, and that all other English versions are part of a conspiracy to...
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    My Addictions

    It takes years or even decades to overcome our fleshly addictions even though we may be born-again and/or water-baptised and/or holy-spirit baptised. The clever ones do not confess them openly due to fear of being despised or persecuted. The simple ones confess and talk about them and are...